I pray that my husband realizes that getting a divorce

[Thomasina Carter]

I pray that my husband realizes that getting a divorce is not the way to go. He says he loves me more than anything and he still comes to the house in the morning and some evenings. We work together and we make a great team. The issues we have are my insecurities that began years ago when he started a job, without us both agreeing, that spent most of the time working out of town and turned into 95% of the year and never knowing when he was going to be home or going to leave. He had promised that would not happen to us.He said he wouldn't have to do what everybody else there did. I was home with a baby and a 6 yr. old (then turned into 3 kids) and no real help. I turned into a person I wasn't and he couldn't talk to me because I would get too dramatic and not understand or not believe him. He began to want to not listen to me get irrate so he started lying to me. I just found out that a lot of his lying was because he was going places with work guys that he shouldn't have been. Like in different states and going out when I thought he was actually working. We've both made mistakes. I have forgiven him and told him I have forgiven him. He says that we don't love each other like we should or we wouldn't have done to each other what we did. And I would've never been insecure. We have a very strong and wonderful connection. But he says that we need to divorce and see where we go from there because this marriage is already damaged. After 16 years of taking care of him, waiting on him, all the nights crying from missing him, raising the kids, and being there for his bad health, i'm not ready to give up this easy. We've been seperated for a month but he's right down the road and we still see each other. The only time i don't hear from him is when one of his friends is involved. We were the couple everyone looked up to. I pray that he sees that being with us is a better life than the single one that he is looking towards.

 

[JesusIsMyOnlyHope]

Lord, look upon me with eyes of mercy. May Your healing Spirit rest upon me. It is through Your power that I was created. Since You created me from nothing, You can certainly recreate me. Fill me with the healing power of Your Spirit. May Your life-giving powers flow into every cell of my body and into the depths of my soul. Mend what is broken. Cast out anything that should not be within me. Rebuild my brokenness. Restore my strength for service in Your Kingdom. Touch my soul with Your compassion for others. Touch my heart with Your courage and infinite love for all. Touch my mind with Your wisdom, that my mouth may always proclaim Your praise. Teach me to reach out to You in my need, and help me to lead others to You by my example. Most loving Heart of Jesus, bring my health in body and spirit that I may serve You with all my strength.

 

[Rose77]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[khigh81]

I understand what you are going through on so many levels and I am praying for you. This is a difficult thing to go through but don't give up. If it's worth fighting for fight until you can't fight anymore. God has your back.

 

[Brother James]

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me
 
Let Us Pray:  God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You.  I long for a more intimate relationship with You.  God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8).  Show me how to draw closer to You.   Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life.  Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life.  God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7).  I confess, I will take no thought for my life.   I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34).  I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily.  Thank You Jesus for Your Promises!  Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3).  Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus.  God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site.  Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus,  my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

http://www.faithandmarriageministries.org/marriage-restoration-prayers/prayers-for-marriage-restoration-women/

 

[mitchandkay]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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