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I need advise and prayer! I have a brother who has never had a criminal record, is a Christian and through a divorce, an ugly one that being said. At any rate his ex-wife now has the kids 17&14 and the mom when my brother asked for the divorce kept the kids from all of us, had him arrested stating misconduct with my niece and said it had happened two years prior to saying anything??? My brother couldn't afford an attorney and things of this nature you REALLY need one but at any rate he is now in prison for 10 years; it BREAKS my heart! My niece in the past several months has been contacting me to make a VERY LONG story short many prayers have been answered especially the relationship with my niece, that she understands and knows in her heart it's all been her mom that keeps her from us, she gets that and even wrote my brother and said she misses and loves him. God is good and I know he has placed my brother where he is and there IS A REASON, I accept that he has plans for him and my brother has grown so much in his spiritual life in the past 8 months of being in prison it's going to be a LONG time. My mom gets mad at me because I don't like to go to the visitation, I just DONT LIKE GOING AND SEEING him it's not a selfish thing I just feel like I am 42 and I have a life and I don't feel as if for the next 9 1/2 years I should have to live my own life around his being in prison I don't mean that ugly I just number one think it will be easier for me that I not see him, and that I also don't want to have to spend one of my two days off for the next ten years driving for an hour there, sitting awkwardly sitting across from him trying to figure out what to talk about for three hours then an hour home it takes up the whole day and I don't feel as though I should be MADE TO FEEL OBLIGATED to do this! PLEASE PRAY THAT MY MOTHER WILL REALIZE THIS AND NOT GET MAD AT ME ;(
