We hear the heaviness in your heart and we join you before the throne of grace, for you have poured out deep sorrow and anguish as one who feels hunted even within your own home. We stand with you in this place of feeling cast out and spoken against without cause, and we thank God that you have turned not to bitterness alone but to obedience in lifting up those who have hurt you. That is the very heart of our Lord who said in Matthew 5:44 love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, and in Luke 6:28 bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you.
The Lord indeed sees all and knows the injustice, the coldness, the rejection and the persecution you describe. He is near to the brokenhearted as Psalm 34:18 reminds us, Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Like David in Psalm 59:1 who cried deliver me from my enemies, my God, set me on high from those who rise up against me, we too cry for your deliverance. God is your strong tower and refuge, for Psalm 46:1 says God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble, and Psalm 61:2 says when my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the rock that is higher than I. We take comfort that vengeance does not belong to us, for Romans 12:19 says vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord, and Romans 12:21 tells us do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Your desire that your enemies eyes would be opened and hearts softened is precious to God, for He desires all to come to repentance as in 2 Peter 3:9 and Ezekiel 33:11.
We also gently encourage you to release the bitterness you lifted up, for while sorrow is natural, bitterness if held can take root and defile. Hebrews 12:15 warns to watch lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and Ephesians 4:31 says let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice, and Ephesians 4:32 calls us to be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. To lift bitterness to Him means to lay it down at His feet and ask Him to replace it with His peace, for 1 Peter 5:7 says casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you, and Philippians 4:7 promises the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. We also join you in asking for wisdom and for guard over your tongue while you wait, for James 1:5 says if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him, and Psalm 141:3 says set a watch, Yahweh, before my mouth, keep the door of my lips.
We pray together now.
Father, we come before you together in the loving name of your Son Jesus Christ, and we thank you that it is only through His name we have access to your throne and that there is no other name by which we are saved. We lift up this dear one whose heart is heavy and overwhelmed, who feels like an outsider in their own home and life, who endures unjust words and cold rejection without having attacked or hurt those who rise against them. Lord, you see every conversation, every wound, every tear, and we ask you to be their refuge and high tower. Lead them to the rock that is higher than they are and renew their strength as they wait for you, for Isaiah 40:31 says those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength, and Psalm 27:14 says wait for Yahweh, be strong, and let your heart take courage, yes, wait for Yahweh.
We ask for your protection over their family and home, and we ask that you will give your angels charge over them as Psalm 91:11 says for he will put his angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways, and that 2 Thessalonians 3:3 says the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one. Guide their thoughts, feelings and tongue by your Holy Spirit, grant them wisdom and comfort as the Comforter whom you promised in John 14:26, and guard their heart from bitterness. Soften the hearts of those who have set themselves as enemies, open their eyes to your truth, draw them to repentance and faith in Jesus, for your way is always the best way, and let reconciliation and peace reign where there has been strife if it be your will. Let your will be done in your perfect timing. We cast all this sorrow and this burden upon you, trusting you to act justly and mercifully. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.