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We join with you in prayer for a godly marriage and we hear the deep longing in your heart for safety, for stability, for a normal life filled with love for you, your family and your pets, and for a man after God's own heart who will stay and cherish you as his wife. We understand your reference to Boaz, and we love the story of Ruth and Boaz as a picture of God's redemptive love, provision and faithfulness. Ruth found a man of noble character who feared the Lord, who protected her and who acted with honor and integrity, and we pray that same kind of godly husband for you.

We want to gently speak truth over some of the language and desires in your request so that your pursuit aligns with God's will. You mentioned wanting a fine ass guy and someone to teach you how to move. We encourage you to seek a man for his character in Christ more than his physical appearance, and to guard your heart and body for marriage. God calls us to honor Him with our bodies and to pursue purity. Flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, 1 Cor 6:18. Every sexual act outside of marriage between a man and a woman is fornication or adultery and is sin before God. We pray you will desire a courtship that honors God, where you are getting to know one another with the clear goal of marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not simply a boyfriend or partner, but a future husband. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity, 2 Cor 6:14. He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh, Prov 18:22.

We also hear your urgency and your desire to speak this into existence a hundred fold. We want to encourage you that while God tells us that death and life are in the power of the tongue, Prov 18:21, and that we should pray with faith, it is God who is sovereign and who answers according to His perfect will and timing, not our ability to manifest. We are called to delight ourselves in the Lord and trust Him, for He will give us the desires of our heart when our desires are aligned with His, Psalm 37:4. We also remember your verse Deut 28:13, Yahweh will make you the head, and not the tail, and you will be above only, and you will not be beneath, if you listen to the commandments of Yahweh your God. That promise was given to Israel as they walked in obedience to the Lord, and for us today it reminds us that our identity and elevation come from obedience and trust in Christ, not from striving or anxious urgency. We hear your repeated word urgently and greatly, and we want to pray peace over your anxiety. In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God, Phil 4:6. God is not slow, but patient, and His timing is perfect.

You also shared that your picker is no longer broken and you desire a man with great patience and great communication who will never leave you and who will see you as his happiness. We pray with you for healing from past hurt and for discernment to recognize a godly man, and we also gently remind you that no man can be your ultimate happiness or your security. Only Jesus can fill that place and only He will never leave you nor forsake you, Heb 13:5 and Deut 31:6. A godly marriage reflects Christ's love for the church, Eph 5:25, and a husband is called to love his wife as Christ loved the church, with sacrificial, faithful, staying love. We pray for a husband who will love you faithfully for life, as marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman before God, Mark 10:6-9. We also pray he will be kind to your household, including your two cats whom you love so dearly. God cares for His creation and has given us stewardship over animals, Prov 12:10, and we pray for a man who will be gentle, kind and respectful to all that you love and care for.

We pray for you now.

Father in heaven, we come before You together in the name of Jesus Christ and by His blood which was shed for us. We thank You that You know the desires of this dear sister's heart even before she speaks them. We ask Lord that You heal her heart from past wounds and that You make her picker whole through Your wisdom and discernment. Lead her away from relationships that do not honor You and guard her body and mind in purity. We pray You prepare a Boaz for her, a faithful man of God who loves You first, who is patient, kind, a good communicator, a protector and provider who will seek marriage for life and who will stay and love her as Christ loves the church. We pray he will be a true believer, equally yoked, who will respect and cherish her and be kind to her family and her pets. Lord, provide for her the safety, privacy and normal life she longs for, a home built on Your peace. Help her to trust Your timing and to rest in You as her head, her covering and her greatest joy, and to not be anxious but to wait patiently for Your good will. Teach her and her future husband to communicate with grace, let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up, Eph 4:29. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our only Savior and mediator, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to seek the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word, to be active in a Bible believing church, and to pursue courtship with clear boundaries and with counsel from godly mentors. Whether through a dating site used with great discernment or through a blind introduction from trusted friends or family, guard your heart, Prov 4:23, and test every relationship against Scripture. Wait on Yahweh, be strong, let your heart take courage, yes, wait on Yahweh, Psalm 27:14.
 
Thank you for sharing your heart so openly with us. We hear how deeply you long for safety and peace for yourself, your family and your two cats, and for a kind, faithful man who will stay, be patient with you, and build a normal, loving life together. That desire for a good companion and a quiet home where you are cherished is understandable, and we hear the urgency you feel.

Waiting in loneliness can make every day feel heavier, and it is good you brought this to the Lord instead of carrying it alone. While you are praying for a husband, we have found it helps to have steady community around you in this season. If you have a trusted pastor, mentor, or wise friends, consider inviting one or two of them to walk with you as you meet people, whether online or through a blind date. They can pray with you, give honest perspective, and help you move at a calm, safe pace so you can get to know someone's character over time.

We are also praying for your sense of safety and for clear communication as you navigate next steps, and for your cats who are so dear to you.

Father, in Jesus' name we lift our sister to You. You see her longing for love, stability and privacy. Give her wisdom, protection and peace as she waits on Your will, surround her with caring people who encourage her, and guide her steps toward what is good and lasting in Your timing. Keep her and her household safe in Your care. Amen.
 
Your earnest cry for companionship, safety and a peaceful life has been heard, and it is right and good to bring the deep desires of the heart before the Lord who knows our needs and our frailties.

The Scripture speaks of God as a Husband to His people, one who sets His special love upon them, who communes with them most lovingly and who provides for them with faithful care. Before any earthly Boaz can be rightly desired, the soul must know the love of the heavenly Bridegroom, the Lord Jesus Christ, the Lamb whose marriage to His Church is the very consummation of redemption. Salvation is through Him alone, by His blood shed for sinners, and all other blessings flow from being joined to Him by faith. I pray that your first and chief comfort may be found in Him, and that your life may be hidden in Him.

You have quoted that you shall be the head and not the tail, from Deuteronomy 28. Remember the context of that promise, that it belongs to those who hearken diligently unto the voice of the Lord and walk in obedience to Him. The way to know blessing is not to claim a verse as a charm, but to walk in godly fear and sincerity, seeking first His kingdom and His righteousness. A hundredfold blessing is not measured in the hasty fulfillment of our urgent wishes, but in conformity to Christ and contentment in His will.

It is a good thing to desire marriage, for marriage is ordained of God as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, wherein the two become one, and wherein love, fidelity and mutual delight are to be cultivated. Within that covenant alone belongs the closest union of life and dwelling together. Therefore I pray that if it be the Lord's will to give you a husband, He would give you a godly man, one who loves Christ above all, who will be faithful and patient, who will stay and keep covenant, who will love what you love and care gently for those entrusted to you, including the creatures of your household. A true Boaz is not known merely by fine appearance or by quick affection, but by character that has been proven, by patience to teach with kindness, by willingness to lead with humility, and by a steadfastness that reflects the faithfulness of God Himself.

Urgency can press hard upon the heart, yet the Lord is not hastened by our haste. He works in His own perfect time. I would counsel you to seek such a companion not in restless anxiety, but in prayerful waiting, under the counsel of godly friends and within the fellowship of a faithful church where character can be observed over time. Whether by introduction through friends or by other means, let all acquaintance be guarded in purity, in clear communication, and in accountability, that you may not be led astray by a broken discernment but may learn to judge with sober and godly wisdom.

And so I pray for you, that the Lord would grant you peace in place of urgency, that He would provide safety, privacy and a quiet and godly life for you and your family, that He would keep your household in His care, that He would prepare you and also prepare a man after His own heart if it be His will to join you in holy marriage, a man who will cherish you, honour the covenant, and dwell with you in love until death shall part you. May He give you great patience as you wait upon Him, and may He teach you to find your happiness first in Christ, that whatever He provides will be received with thanksgiving.

May the Lord keep you, establish you in faith, and answer according to His abundant mercy and wisdom, for His glory and your good. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your heartfelt desire for companionship, safety and a stable and private life for yourself, your family and your pets has been heard, and I thank you for bringing it before the Lord with such honesty. The longing to be loved faithfully by a good and patient man who will stay, who will cherish you and who will be kind to those entrusted to your care, is understandable, and God sees that longing.

I also want to help you think biblically about some of the ways you expressed this request. Scripture is not a formula to be loosened or spoken into existence a hundredfold by our words. When Moses said in Deuteronomy 28:13 that God would make His people the head and not the tail, he was speaking of the blessing that comes from walking in obedience to God, hearing His voice and keeping His commands, not of using a verse to obtain urgently what we desire. And the blood of Jesus is not an incantation to secure a relationship, but the precious means by which we are forgiven and reconciled to God through faith in Christ alone. God does not respond to urgent demanding, but to humble trust and prayer in accordance with His will.

Marriage in Scripture is a great mystery, a picture of Christ and His Church. It is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and the union of husband and wife, including physical intimacy and living together, belongs within that covenant. For this reason we cannot ask God to bless a relationship outside of that design, or one that is entered hastily or impurely. If you desire a husband, pray as the servant of Abraham prayed, committing the matter into God's hands and asking Him to provide whom He wills in His time. As I have taught, do not seek first money or outward appearance or impressive words, but piety of soul, gentleness, true understanding and the fear of God. Seek a man who will be truly a husband and protector, not a master, one who will honor you and deal gently and faithfully with you. Such a man is known not by flattery on a dating site or by quick promises, but by proven character, by his life in the church and by the counsel of wise believers who know you both.

Urgency can make discernment difficult. The desire to find someone quickly through dating sites or a blind date can expose you to harm, and many have been led into adultery and broken homes by pursuing passion without wisdom. It is better to move slowly, with patience, with accountability from your church family, and with a commitment to purity before marriage. A good man will not ask you to live together or to give yourself physically before vows, and you should not ask that of him. Instead, gentleness, modesty, self control and respect are the ways to build a foundation for lasting love. Be honest before God as the woman at the well was, bringing your whole past and present into His light, and trust Him to work in you.

Your care for your cats as creatures entrusted to you is good, and it is right to desire a home where no one would harm them. God cares for all that He has made and He cares for your need for safety, privacy and a normal, peaceful life where you can live with quietness and dignity. A husband who fears God will be kind to all in his household.

Let me pray for you now.

Father in heaven, I thank You for Your mercy through Jesus Christ and for Your care for this dear one. I ask that You would grant peace where there is urgency, and patience where there is longing. Teach her to trust Your timing and to walk in obedience and purity. If it is Your will, provide in Your time a godly husband, a man of gentle and faithful character who fears You, who will honor marriage as You designed it, who will stay and love with steadfastness and who will show kindness to all in the home. Until then, keep her and her family and her pets in safety, grant her privacy and stability, and help her to live a quiet and godly life that pleases You. Guard her heart from deception and from hasty choices, surround her with wise counsel, and make her content in Christ while she waits. Cleanse, guide and establish her through the blood of Jesus, and let her find her first happiness in You. In the name of Jesus I pray, amen.

Continue to seek the Lord daily, remain in fellowship with faithful believers, and let your choices be guided by Scripture and by counsel, not by urgency alone. God is faithful, and He will lead you step by step as you commit your way to Him.
 

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