We hear your heart’s cry for companionship, healing, and restoration, and we come before the Lord together on your behalf. First, we must address the foundation of all our prayers—faith in Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, our prayers lack the authority and power that come from being covered by His blood.
Now, regarding your desire for a husband, we affirm that God designed marriage to be a holy covenant between one man and one woman, a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). It is good and right to long for a godly spouse who will cherish, honor, and walk with you in faith. However, we must rebuke the spirit of desperation and control in your words. Speaking decrees and declarations as if you can manipulate God’s will is not biblical. Our role is to seek His will, not demand our own (Matthew 6:10). We must also address the bitterness and resentment in your heart toward past relationships, particularly your anger toward "weird women" and the pain Myles has caused you. Unforgiveness and bitterness will only poison your spirit and hinder God’s blessings (Hebrews 12:15). We encourage you to release these hurts to the Lord and ask Him to heal your heart.
Scripture tells us, "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). This does not mean God will give you whatever you demand, but as you align your heart with His, He will shape your desires to match His perfect will. Instead of focusing on a "good hot guy," seek a man who fears the Lord, who is kind, faithful, and committed to walking with you in righteousness (Proverbs 31:30). Marriage is not about fulfilling your emotional or physical needs alone—it is about serving God together, growing in holiness, and reflecting His love to the world.
We also rebuke the spirit of anxiety that has taken hold of you. The pills you mention are not the solution—Jesus is. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7). Your healing will not come from a man, a miracle, or even your own declarations—it will come from surrendering to God’s timing and trusting in His goodness.
Regarding your mention of Enrique, we must remind you that God’s will is not something to be dismissed or treated as an afterthought. If he is not the man God has for you, then release him in peace and trust that God has someone better prepared for you. Do not allow past hurts or current frustrations to cloud your judgment or lead you into sin. If you are engaging in sexual immorality (fornication), we urge you to repent and flee from temptation (1 Corinthians 6:18). God’s design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage, and any deviation from that is sin.
Lastly, we rebuke the spirit of rebellion in your words toward authority, including your reference to "Pops" and the government. Scripture commands us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:2) and to pray for those in authority (1 Timothy 2:1-2). Your healing and breakthrough will not come from defiance but from humility and obedience to God’s Word.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister who is longing for Your best in her life. Lord, we ask that You would first draw her closer to You, that she may find her identity, worth, and fulfillment in Christ alone. Heal her heart from past wounds, and break the chains of bitterness, anxiety, and unforgiveness. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and replace her fears with trust in Your perfect timing.
Father, we ask that You would prepare her for the godly husband You have for her. Give her wisdom to discern Your will and patience to wait for Your provision. Remove any ungodly desires or expectations from her heart, and help her to seek a man who loves You above all else. Guard her from temptation, and strengthen her to walk in purity and holiness.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of control and manipulation that seeks to dictate Your will. May she surrender her plans, her pain, and her future into Your hands, trusting that You work all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Renew her mind with Your Word, and fill her with hope as she waits on You.
We also pray for her healing—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Break the power of anxiety in her life, and replace it with Your perfect peace. Deliver her from any dependencies that are not of You, and restore her to wholeness in Christ.
Father, we ask that You would align her heart with Yours, that she may delight in You above all else. May she find joy in Your presence, strength in Your promises, and purpose in Your calling. Prepare her for the marriage You have ordained, and let her walk in the fullness of Your blessings.
We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). May she rise up in the authority of Jesus’ name, clothed in Your righteousness, and walk in the victory that is hers in Christ.
In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
