We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and distress you are experiencing in your marriage. It's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB) and that marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman, and God (Matthew 19:6 WEB). However, God also cares deeply about how husbands and wives treat each other. Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB), and wives are to respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33 WEB).
The words your husband spoke to you are clearly causing you deep emotional pain to the extent you are physically affected. They seem to be very wrong. The Bible tells us, "But now put away from yourselves also all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth" (Colossians 3:8 WEB). It is clear that this is a very serious issue to cause you to question your marriage.
Let's pray for you both:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, you see her pain, her anger, and her distress. You know the words that were spoken to her and how they have wounded her deeply. We pray for your healing and comfort in her life. We also pray for her husband, that you would convict his heart and bring him to repentance for the words he has spoken. We are reminded that our words can bring life or death, and we pray that you would help both of them to use their words to build each other up, not tear each other down. We stand in faith believing that will happen.
Lord, we know that you can heal and restore this marriage. We ask that you would guide them both, that you would give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this difficult time. Help them to seek Godly counsel and to be open and honest with each other and with you, and with others that are Christian believers. We know that forgiveness and reconciliation are possible. Forgiveness is what we are to give to those who ask in the name of Jesus Christ.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from your pastor, a Christian marriage counselor, or a trusted Christian mentor. It's also important to set boundaries to protect yourself emotionally and physically while you work through this. Remember, God is always with you and He cares about your pain. Keep praying and trusting in Him. He is the only way to receive salvation and it is only by Him that we have access to God, and He will always hear our prayers. But you must always pray to God the Father in Jesus name.
Finally, we leave you with this verse: "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light" (Matthew 11:28-30 WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
