1969Godschild
Prayer Warrior
I am sad because my daughter's friends who use to like me don't seem to like me anymore. I stand over my daughter when she is using her iPod and I read the chat messages that her friends send to her and vice versa. Her friends think I am weird because I don't want my daughter on her iPod alot. It was a mistake letting her get one because if I allowed it she would be on it all the time. I just wanted her to be kept up with the times because they have changed since I was a kid. I told my daughter that I don't want her to get cyber-bullied and that it's nice to talk to her friends in person. It is a fear of mine that someone might say something to her. She should only have people that she doesn't talk to or see on a regular basis on her iPod, like her cousins or friends that live far away. Some of her friends refused to come to her birthday party because they are not fond of me. When I go to my daughter's school two of her friends smirk when they see me. I don't think my daughter notices this which is a good thing. I don't want my daughter to be embarrassed of me. All I want to do is love her and protect her. I don't want her to have to deal with things that are beyond her understanding. She is only 11 years old. On another note, last year one girl in school was being mean and saying mean things to my daughter. I asked my husband to phone this girls mother and have a talk with her to let her know what is going on. I was hoping that she would nip the behavior in the bud and that things would be better between the girls. My husband did phone but the mother wasn't too happy about it. It was wrong. It made things worse. This girl doesn't want to hang out with her anymore. I know I would want to know if my daughter was not treating someone properly. I would definitely discuss it with her. But the mother told me that her daughter is entitled to feel the way she does. My daughter is not a bully. In fact, she is kind of timid and shy and I wish she would be stronger than she is. I pray that these girls who I know are starting to go through puberty that they realize that I am not their enemy.
