I am from india, and my best friend ruth ...

[Prayerwarrior]

My friend I am praying for you. Our Lord knows exactly what He is doing and He is in control. I know we may not understand and it is so hard - I know this from personal experience too -

However if you stay in faith and keep proclaiming the love of Christ I can promise you that new and amazing blessings will come I to your life. God promises us that He is in control.

I pray for you to have beauty for ashes. Keep praising. Use this site too and pray for others. Show The Lord your amazing love for Him and tell others of Christ. He will hear your praises and be with you. I pray for you in Jesus name. Amen.

 

[nithinrvd]

still waiting....

 

[Prayerwarrior]

My friend God's timing is perfect so stay in faith. It may take days, weeks or months but the bible is full of examples of those who stayed in faith were richly rewarded.

So spend this time daily asking God to teach you His will. One thing that will help you feel better is to go every day and help others. The Lord will see this. Volunteer and find every single opportunity to help. I also assume you are in a good bible based church. If not find a church and get involved in every group you can.

Here are a couple quotes:

Take delight in The Lord , and he will give you your heart’s desires. (Psalms 37:4 NLT)

"So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised. (Hebrews 10:35, 36 NIV)

As I mentioned to you what I thought was the love of my life left me and I was crushed. I was depressed and cried out to The Lord in deep pain and agony. I have walked in you showed and exactly the same thing happened to me. That is why brother the Holy Spirit has put you and I together as brothers in Christ because I have faced the same pain.

I did what I telling you. I joined a singles group at church and I spent time with The Lord. I volunteered and praised God in spite if the pain.

Eight months later The Lord introduced me to a beautiful woman. She is deeply a woman of faith. She is smart, kind and deeply loving. She has a true heart for The Lord. I thought the first girl I was with was the one but looking back I could see many things that she was not a woman of God. However The Lord will only bless relationships that He has preordained.

So the fact that the last girl left you and left me was from God closing the door because He had a better plan for our lives.

Look to The Lord for your comfort and trust in His timing. I pray for you in Jesus name. Amen.

 

[nithinrvd]

i believe brother

 

[AdamANT]

Lord I beg you to deliver these souls in turmoil to your arms, your strength, your stability, and from out of this trouble give them achievements that will last forever in your name! Amen!!! God I ask that you bring this love to unity,that you bring this love to prosper, and that you bring this love to fulfillment in Jesus name, Amen! Lord how ever there is to make this work please make it so that it glorifies your name! Thank you Lord. Amen.

 

[nithinrvd]

thank you brother.... but things are getting nowhere.... its so hard to walk like i dont knw her....like a stranger...thats only i could do nw! it hurts so much...

 

[Prayerwarrior]

Hi My Friend,

Here are a couple things:

(1) If you are getting depressed than please consider seeing a doctor.  I have been there too my friend and seeing a doctor can help.

(2) At some point you have to let the past go.  I know how hard that is. I have been there too when I had to let go of a woman who walked out on me.  It was one of the hardest things.  But, I absolutely PROMISE with the love of Christ that God has a better plan for you!  You may not see it now, but He does have an amazing plan for you.  Brother, please let go and look at this as a new exciting opportunity for God to bring you the most amazing love of your life.  God did this for me and I know with confidence he will do this for you.

So, please do the above.  See a doctor and if needed, take something that the doctors gives to help with depression.  Then, get EXCITED.  I know you are a good man and so God will bring you a BEAUTIFUL woman and your friends will say WOW - she is so beautiful inside and out.  Go out and look for signs and God will lead you to her.

I asked God to send me an "Angel" so I knew it was the right woman - just like Abraham did with his servant when he asked him for find a wife for his son.  So, I asked my mom to pray just like Abraham for God to bring me a beautiful woman for a wife.

My mom prayed hard and I met a girl and she is beautiful and smart and a person of God.  The only thing missing was an "Angel."  

One day we were eating dinner and I could smell her perfume and I asked what it was, and she said, "Oh, it's called Angel"  I just about fell off the chair!

She asked me what cologne I was wearing and I said, "Dolce Gabana - "The One"  And she said she prayed and asked her mom to pray for her to bring "The One" in to her life.

I know that may sound odd, but that's how God works.  I pray for you my friend and I know you will be fine.  The Lord is with you!  You are STRONG and BLESSED and a DREAM for any woman - she is out there.  Put God first and He will guide you to her!

God bless you my friend!

Joe

 

[nithinrvd]

can i ask u smtn? if god has a better plan...then why this people who don't stick onto us comes to our life? wen she came to ma life....i tot tat was his better plan for me!!

nd u knw...i tried...but i cant let her go like that cos she is still the best for me...thats how much i love her...maybe,she did not want the pressure from all sides like family and all for loveing a person younger...just 3 months though...(indian tradition is like so conservative) ... maybe god changed his plans for me to somethin better..hm

 

[Prayerwarrior]

That is a good question and I have had the same one for my life.  What I have found is that it was always so hard going thru the difficulty that I would focus on the problem instead of the future.

In my relationship, she walked away.  Actually, she wanted me to convert to be a muslim and I said no - so she left.  I loved her more than any other woman and I was crushed because I thought she was the "perfect" woman for me.

However, when I put God first and let her go (and it took me almost a year to let go), then I realized several things:

(1) God gave her free choice - her leaving was a decision she made

(2) God saw my pain and it took Him awhile to orchestrate the perfect girl, but He did and she is 100 times better

(3) I'm a good guy and it was her loss  -  she could have had it all but she decided against it.  Her loss will be the next woman's gain.  

God said in the bible he would reward us DOUBLE for our sorrow and He will.

Be CONFIDENT in yourself - if she doesn't want you then tell God - I'm putting you first God and I know you will bring me a woman a 100 times better.  

You are still dealing with the pain and you are not going to fully understand, but very soon a new woman will come in your life and you will realize God let Ruth go because she made a decision.  However, God sees your pain and He will reward you!

God Bless you my friend!

Joe

 

[Dony]

God be with you even as you go through every challenge in life.

Numbers 6:22-27...

"Then the Lord spoke to Moses saying, 'Speak to Aaron and

his sons, saying, "Thus you shall bless the sons of Israel. You shall say to

them:


The Lord bless you, and keep you;


The Lord make His face shine on you,


And be gracious to you;


The Lord lift up His countenance upon you,


And give you peace."'


So they shall invoke My name on the sons of Israel, and I


shall bless them."