Let us stay in faith my friend. We don't know God's way or His Will for your life. I continue to pray for you and for Ruth.
You should spend some time with your pastor. Also if she attends another church then talk to her pastor at her church. My friend we never know God's perfect will for our lives. My beloved girlfriend left me seven months ago with no words. She was just gone and it was so painful. Thru the pain I stayed in faith and cried but kept looking up to our Lord Chrisf Jesus. Our Lords is faithful and he just introduced me to a woman who is absolutely the most radiant, loving, and beautiful woman I have ever met in my life. The Holy Spirit in her shines so brightly that I feel like I see Him in her eyes.
I saw this because neither you nor I know God's plan. He may reunite you and He may have other plans for you. First seek The Lord with all of your heart and know that He is sufficient. He will hold you and He has placed the Holy Spirit in you. We will confine to pray for Ruth and also for you my friend to know Christ has you in his perfect will. If God can keep all the stars in the sky He can and absolutely will reward you and keep you safe. He has GREATNESSS planed for your life.
So keep reading the bible, go to church and find Christian friends to help you. The Lord promises you that He will carry you. He is a faithful God.
Dear Heavenly Father we continue to pray for Ruth. Lord let any obstacle be removed and we pray to reunite this loving couple. Lord we ask for your divine intervention to also show this man your will for his life. Show him Lord your perfect will and show him that he has an amazing life that you have planned for him. Lord bless him in unimaginable ways and be with him. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.