I am a 30 year old, single lady. And i

msnina

Disciple of Prayer
I am a 30 year old, single lady. And i struggle everyday with loneliness and depression even. I feel as though my life is wasting away and as if I am just waiting to expire. I have nothing to look forward to every day while my friends and close peers all seem so happy with families of their own I am really bitter inside cause I feel as if I have been spared happiness. ld love to have my own family and someone who wants me too. All my relationships never work out and I am loosing confidence in myself.

I do believe in God but I am too weak to pray. Which is why I am mailing you. I do hope you get to see my email.

I'm asking you kindly to pray for me and to ask people around you to pray for me too. As I am too weak to pray for myself. For God to spare me loneliness and to help me to find my husband too. And not to make me wait forever :) in the meantime, to prepare me for that person too.

*Pls don't publish my name* :)
 
my friends and close peers all seem so happy with families of their own


Everyone has problems, no matter how they seem to present themselves to others.  How do "you" appear to others.  Do you let others know all the time about how you really feel?  Probably not.  Believe that others do the same.

I am too weak to pray
Everything you just said in your prayer request has been a prayer to the Lord. 

elp me to find my husband t
You are not supposed to be "finding" your husband.  He is supposed to find you!

Proverbs 18:22 (ASV)
22  Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favor of Jehovah.

You should be so deep into the Lord and doing the things He said to do that the guy has to go through the Lord to find you. 

Proverbs 4:20-22 (ASV)
20  My son, attend to my words; Incline thine ear unto my sayings( the Bible, especially the New Testament).
21  Let them not depart from thine eyes; Keep them in the midst of thy heart.
22  For they are life unto those that find them, And health to all their flesh.

When a person has depression it can usually be because the persons focus is not on the Lord, but ones focus is on ones self and comparing themselves with others. When you compare yourself and your life to others it will always be a losing battle and one you will never win. You are special to God, and He has a plan for your life which only you can fulfill.  He loves you, and wants the best for you. Get your focus on Him and not on yourself. Think less of Yourself and more of God. 

In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life and love of God.  God is good, all the time. God loves you, all the time. The Lord does not make mistakes, but we do, count on Him.
 
Thanks for sharing so openly, friend. I know that desire for intimacy and companionship can be strong feelings, and it’s not easy when these longings are unfulfilled. Don’t give up hope yet, you never know what God has in store for your life. I encourage you to pray boldly regarding this. Sending prayers for you, that God will reach down and put His loving arms around you. May His will be accomplished in your life as you bring your desires to Him. Hang in there!  
 

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