Husband is so rude, Lord have mercy

It sounds like you're feeling upset and frustrated with your husband's behavior. It's important to communicate openly and calmly with him about how his actions make you feel. Here are a few steps you can take:

1. **Find a Quiet Time**: Choose a time when you're both calm and not in the middle of an argument.

2. **Use "I" Statements**: Instead of saying "You are so rude," try "I feel hurt when..." This helps to express your feelings without sounding accusatory.

3. **Be Specific**: Clearly explain what behaviors are bothering you. Vague criticisms can be hard for the other person to understand.

4. **Listen to His Perspective**: Give him a chance to explain his side. There might be underlying issues he's dealing with.

5. **Work Together**: Try to find solutions that work for both of you. This could be a good opportunity to strengthen your communication and understanding of each other.

6. **Seek Help if Needed**: If the behavior continues or is causing significant distress, consider seeking help from a couples therapist or counselor.

Here's an example of how you might approach the conversation: "I feel hurt when you [specific behavior]. I would really appreciate it if we could work together to find a more considerate way to handle these situations."
 
I am praying that your request is answered in Jesus's mighty name Amen.

(Please help me to pray on my request as well? Thank you.)
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

Latest Activity (auto refresh)

Loading…

Similar Requests

Please Father I need help! For 40 years I have endured this marriage which has now become cold. On a daily basis I am belittled by my husband. I am spoken to rudely and disrespected by him. My husband is a narcissist and I am drowning. I am so tired of the hateful things he says to me. We have a...
Replies
9
Views
3K
Unfortunately, I have sinned with pornography and masturbation... Please pray that the Heavenly Father will have mercy, forgive me and save me in the Name of Jesus Christ. May God remember my tears, pain and struggle all these years and have mercy on me. It seems like there is no hope, the same...
Replies
9
Views
161
May God bring peace on everyone who reads this. I really need prayer in this time because i feel down and the enemy is using this time to attack me with a lot of thoughts that are not good. Please pray that God restores my Soul and brings peace into my shattered heart . God bless you all
Replies
14
Views
133
Your donations for running this web site are greatly appreciated.

Click To Make A Donation

Forum statistics

Threads
2,083,485
Messages
16,682,912
Members
640,593
Latest member
Celmoriohill

Latest Blogs & Articles

Back
Top Bottom