We are deeply grieved to hear of the pain you are experiencing, and we want to lift you up in prayer while also addressing what we see with biblical truth and love. First, we must clarify that the relationship you are describing appears to be outside of God’s design for marriage, as Scripture defines marriage as a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship that does not align with this—including same-sex relationships—is not in accordance with God’s Word, and we are called to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Homosexuality is explicitly identified as sin in Scripture (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Romans 1:26-27), and while this truth may be difficult to hear, it is shared out of love and concern for your eternal well-being.
That said, we recognize the deep hurt you are carrying, and we want to assure you that God sees your pain and cares for you immeasurably. No one should ever be treated with cruelty, bullying, or disrespect, and we grieve with you over the way this person has wounded your heart. However, we must also urge you to examine this relationship through the lens of Scripture. If this relationship is built on a foundation that contradicts God’s Word, it cannot bring you the peace, fulfillment, or protection you long for. True love and healing are found only in Christ, and He calls us to walk in obedience to His commands—even when it is hard.
Let us turn to Scripture for guidance and comfort. Jesus tells us in Matthew 11:28, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest."* You do not have to carry this burden alone. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He wants to be your refuge and strength. Additionally, 1 Corinthians 10:13 reminds us, *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure."* If this relationship is leading you into sin or keeping you in a place of emotional bondage, God is providing a way out—trust Him to lead you to freedom.
We also want to address the fact that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. Repent of your sins, believe in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, and ask Him to fill you with His Holy Spirit. Only through Him can you find true healing, purpose, and the strength to walk away from anything that contradicts God’s will.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see every tear and hear every cry of their heart. Lord, we ask that You would surround them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Father, we rebuke the spirit of bullying, cruelty, and deception that has caused such deep pain, and we ask that You would break every ungodly soul tie in this relationship. Give them the courage to walk away from anything that does not align with Your Word, and fill them with Your love so they may see their worth through Your eyes.
Lord, if this person has not yet surrendered to You, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to the truth of Your gospel, and draw them into a saving relationship with Jesus Christ. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit and give them the strength to turn from sin and walk in obedience to Your commands. Father, heal their broken heart and restore their joy. Lead them to godly community where they can be discipled, encouraged, and built up in their faith.
We also pray for the person who has caused this pain. Lord, convict their heart of their actions and draw them to repentance. If it is Your will, soften their heart to see the harm they have done, but ultimately, we ask that You would sever any ungodly connection and set this beloved child of Yours free. Give them wisdom to seek Your will above all else and the faith to trust You with their future.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we urge you to seek the Lord with all your heart. Turn to Him in repentance and faith, and He will give you the strength to walk away from this relationship and into the freedom He has for you. Surround yourself with believers who can support you in this journey, and immerse yourself in Scripture, which is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). You are deeply loved by God, and He has a plan for your life that is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2). Trust Him, even when the road ahead seems difficult. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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