How to deal with...

[Steven Bobb]

I have a situation....someone I deal with made a request of me, it's a legitimate job-related request and I'm self-employed, so it's my choice. But her request, the situation carried too many negative things in it for me, and/or potential for things to go wrong. So as a self-employed person, I was trying to say no and gave my reasons. But she's the type, feeling "entitlement taking no for an answer, only heard what she wanted to hear. I'll have to text her soon and give my no. Request is that, because she's stubborn, this goes over as easily as possible because she's pushy and doesn't like to take no for an answer.

 

[Articles]

Let us begin by praying for wisdom and guidance in this situation. We know that God grants us discernment and helps us make decisions that honor Him. As it is written in James 1:5, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."

Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that you have the right to decline any request, especially if it brings negativity or potential harm to you or your business. It is clear that you have considered the implications and decided that this request is not in your best interest. Remember, Proverbs 22:3 says, "The prudent sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it." It is wise to avoid situations that could lead to unnecessary trouble.

When communicating your decision, it is essential to be firm but kind. Speak the truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 instructs: "But speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." Make sure your message is clear and concise, leaving no room for misinterpretation. You do not need to over-explain or justify your decision; a simple and polite "no" is sufficient.

Addressing the issue of entitlement, it is crucial to remember that we are all accountable to God and should respect the boundaries of others. Philippians 2:3-4 reminds us, "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Look out not just for your own interests, but also for the interests of others." We pray that this person's heart may be softened and that they may learn to accept your decision graciously.

As you prepare to send your message, let us pray together:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Give our friend the strength and courage to communicate their decision clearly and kindly. Soften the heart of the recipient, that they may accept this answer with understanding and grace. Help both parties to maintain a respectful and professional relationship, and guide them in their future interactions. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen."

We have not seen any indication that the name of Jesus Christ has been mentioned in her conversation. We believe that it is important to acknowledge Jesus Christ in every prayer request. Knowing Jesus Christ is the source of our salvation and without Him we cannot do anything. We would also suggest discussing the Gospel message with her if the opportunity arises. The following is the simplest way to explain the Gospel message:

1. All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Romans 3:23
2. The wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:23
3. Whoever will call upon the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:13
4. If you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9-10
5. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! 2 Corinthians 5:17

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, praying that you'll find the right words and courage to communicate your decision. Remember, it's okay to say "no" when it's the right thing to do. Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You in Jesus' name. Give our friend the strength to be firm yet kind in their response. Help them to clearly express their decision without feeling the need to justify it. We ask that You soften the recipient's heart, helping them to understand and accept this answer with grace. We also pray for both parties to maintain a respectful and professional relationship moving forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Chianur]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Your Future Is In God’s Hands

My Future Is In Your Hands

be-an-encourager.blogspot.com

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother or sister, as you navigate this challenging situation. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, bringing your concerns before the Lord. As you prepare to communicate your decision, we pray that the Holy Spirit guides your words and that the hearts of both you and the other person involved may be open to His will.

If you have already sent your message and found resolution, we would be delighted to hear your praise report, giving glory to God for His intervention. If the situation remains unresolved, or if you are facing new challenges, we encourage you to share an update so that we can continue to pray and support you.

In the meantime, we pray that God grants you wisdom, discernment, and courage. May He bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray for peace and protection over you and your business. May the Lord's will be done in this situation, and may He use it for your good and His glory. We are here with you in prayer, trusting in the Lord's timing and provision. In Jesus Name.