🕊️Holy Spirit Conviction Jn 16:18, Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow Produces Repentance unto Life without Regret 2 Cor 7:10, Reconciliation 2Cor 5:20

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Holy Spirit Conviction Jn 16:18, Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Matrimonial spouse given godly sorrow leading to life 2 Cor 7:10... Father, You know I have my spouse's best interest in mind -- and my offspring's -- Give godly sorrow producing repentance to my matrimonial, 2 Cor 7:10… I ask she honor her commitments to attend Bible Study, Church and Biblical Marriage Counseling WE AGREED to BEFORE I left My Home Country to COMMIT to REBUILDING the relationship here in Asia — “A righteous person keeps their promises even when it hurts,” Ps 15:4; and "Do not delay your vows to God -- He takes no pleasure in fools. Better to not vow than make God angry and destroy the work of Your hands, Ecc 5:4-5, 6. "Let your 'yes' be 'yes,' (anything beyond that is evil, says Jesus, Matt 5:37).

Grant her GRACE to confess her weakness in this area and strengthen her to have faith by grace through real, obedient faith in Jesus Christ (exactly what we are learning in James right now) -- but I can only encourage, not change -- so do what only You can do, open her eyes to how You see our marriage and family as important... I ask You to save her, and ask You to convict her of righteousness, sin and eternal judgement, John 16:18, Heb 6:1-2, 3. I forgive everything, but need her to confess it so we can get the devil out of the way — it's "if we walk in the light we have fellowship and the blood of Jesus cleanses us from all sin, 1 Jn 1:7 -- BRING RESTORATION… Like the song, and like you are doing and will finish when Jesus returns… Do it in a BIG WAY even NOW, MAKE ALL THINGS NEW…

Please convict my wife to stop lying, Jn 16:18… It’s confirmed — 2 year's worth of money for a future college fund gone in 2 months on a business I said not to start (we needed marriage and parenting courses, not a night and day convenience-store business -- I forgive myself for being deceived and therefore being unequally yoked, let the power of forgiveness wash over me even as I am speaking, Isaiah 65:24)...

Anyway, I forgive her for using me, loving the gift more than the giver and all other things outside of my control -- may their effect on me be diminished, and may she still truly turn, repent, confess sinning against God and be saved, 1 Tim 2:4... Willing to dwell with her if she's willing to dwell with me, but it doesn't seem to be the case... “Who of us can dwell with a consuming fire?" Isaiah 33:14...

We have trained counsellors who want to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… I really love her and really love him, and this is CLEARLY God's will... In the presence of two or three witnesses let every fact be confirmed, 2 Cor 13:1. So, please Lord, SAVE HER so we can be EQUALLY YOKED for Your Kingdom, Matt 6:33, RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-2, 3-4, 4-5, 6-7; Gen 2:18…

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take a “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... ALSO, my son will have a MUCH better chance of being saved with having his REAL Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The TRUTH, 1 Tim 2:4 — and because we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

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We come before the Lord with a heavy yet hopeful heart, lifting up this marriage and family before Him. Father, we acknowledge that You alone can soften hearts, convict of sin, and bring true repentance that leads to life. We stand on Your Word, which declares, *"For godly sorrow produces repentance leading to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces death"* (2 Corinthians 7:10). Lord, we ask that You grant this wife godly sorrow—not the fleeting remorse of the world, but a deep, transformative grief over sin that turns her fully toward You.

We rebuke the spirit of deception and rebellion that has taken root in this marriage. The lies, the broken vows, and the misuse of resources are not of You. *"The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in those who tell the truth"* (Proverbs 12:22). We declare that no vow made before You should be taken lightly, for *"it is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfill it"* (Ecclesiastes 5:5). Father, expose every hidden thing, bring every secret to light, and let conviction fall upon her heart like a fire that cannot be quenched until she turns back to You.

We also lift up this husband, who has shown such patience, forgiveness, and commitment to Your ways. Lord, strengthen him to continue walking in love, even when it feels like he is walking alone. *"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7). Yet we also remind him that love does not enable sin—it calls it out in truth. We pray he would not grow weary in doing good, for in due season, he will reap if he does not faint (Galatians 6:9).

The financial deception and the disregard for wise counsel are serious matters. The business venture undertaken against his counsel reveals a heart that has prioritized worldly gain over godly stewardship. We declare that *"the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil"* (1 Timothy 6:10), and we bind every spirit of greed and selfish ambition in Jesus’ name. Father, let this situation come crashing down if that is what it takes to bring her to her knees in repentance. Let her see that You alone are her Provider, and that no amount of money or worldly success can replace the peace that comes from walking in Your will.

We also address the issue of unequal yoking. This marriage cannot thrive if one spouse is committed to Christ while the other remains in rebellion. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, we cry out for this wife’s salvation. Let her see that her choices are not just affecting her marriage but her eternal destiny. *"For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?"* (Mark 8:36). We declare that she will not perish but will come to the knowledge of the truth (1 Timothy 2:4).

We stand on the promise that *"if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). But confession must come first. We rebuke the spirit of pride that keeps her from admitting her wrongs. Let her humility rise like the tax collector who beat his chest and said, *"God, be merciful to me, a sinner!"* (Luke 18:13). Only then can true reconciliation begin.

Father, we also lift up their son. May he grow up seeing the power of a godly marriage, one that reflects Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:32). Let him be raised in the training and instruction of the Lord, so that from infancy, he knows the Scriptures (2 Timothy 3:15). We declare that he will not be a casualty of this marital strife but a testimony of Your redeeming grace.

We pray for the counselors who stand ready to help. Give them wisdom, discernment, and the boldness to speak truth in love. Let this marriage be restored—not just for their sake, but as a testimony to the power of Your grace. We resist the devil, who seeks to destroy this family, and we declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against the church You are building (Matthew 16:18).

Lord, if this wife will not repent, we ask that You release this husband from any obligation to remain in a marriage where sin is being enabled. But if there is still hope for restoration, let it be on Your terms—with full repentance, accountability, and a commitment to biblical marriage. We pray for a miracle, for *"with God, all things are possible"* (Matthew 19:26).

We close this prayer in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). We believe that You hear us, and we trust that You will act according to Your perfect will. May Your kingdom come and Your will be done in this marriage, as it is in heaven. Amen.

 

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We stand with you, ###, in lifting up this marriage and family before the Lord. We echo your cries for repentance, restoration, and salvation. We declare that God is not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We ask for God's grace to be poured out on this marriage, that it would be a testimony of His redeeming power and love. We pray for the husband's strength and patience, and for the wife's heart to be softened and turned towards God. We ask for wisdom and discernment for all involved, and for the Holy Spirit to guide and direct every step. We trust in God's faithfulness and His ability to bring about change and healing in this situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.