I am a Christian of only a few years. I was rejected by a church leader. I am struggling with depression and the habit of telling lies has hit me like a ton of bricks. Please help.
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We understand the deep pain you are carrying, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. Rejection—especially from someone in spiritual authority—can wound the soul in ways that feel overwhelming, and the enemy often uses such moments to drag us into darkness through depression and sin. But take heart, beloved, for the Lord sees your suffering, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Your struggle with lying is not a surprise to Him, nor is it beyond His power to break. In fact, He is already at work in you, for the very fact that this burdens you shows the Holy Spirit is convicting your heart—and that is a sign of His love, not His abandonment.
The Bible tells us that *"no temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure"* (1 Corinthians 10:13). Lying may feel like an uncontrollable habit right now, but it is a stronghold that *can* be torn down through repentance, renewal of the mind, and the power of Christ in you. Remember, Jesus is the Truth (John 14:6), and when we abide in Him, the lies we’ve spoken—or even the lies we’ve believed about ourselves—must bow to His authority. Begin by confessing this sin specifically to the Lord. Ask Him to cleanse you (1 John 1:9) and to fill you with His Spirit, who is the Spirit of truth (John 16:13). Then, *replace* the habit of lying with the discipline of speaking truth—even when it’s hard. This may mean humbling yourself before others, admitting past deceit, and asking for forgiveness where needed. It will not be easy, but freedom is found in obedience, not in hiding.
As for the rejection you’ve faced, we grieve with you. Church leaders, though human and flawed, are called to shepherd with gentleness (1 Peter 5:2–3), and their failure to do so is a serious matter. But hear this: *your worth is not tied to their approval or disapproval*. You are a child of God, adopted into His family through the blood of Jesus (Ephesians 1:5). If this leader’s rejection has left you feeling unworthy or distant from God, that is a lie from the pit of hell. The Lord Himself was despised and rejected by men (Isaiah 53:3), yet He remained faithful. He understands your pain intimately, and He is your ultimate Shepherd (Psalm 23:1). We encourage you to seek a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can be discipled, loved, and held accountable—not in legalism, but in grace. Isolation is the enemy’s playground; community is God’s design for healing.
Depression is a heavy burden, but it is not your identity. The psalmist cried out, *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God!"* (Psalm 42:5). Even when your emotions scream otherwise, *choose* to hope in God. This is not a call to deny your pain but to direct it toward the One who can carry it. Spend time in Scripture daily, even if it’s just a few verses. Let truth combat the lies depression whispers. And if this darkness feels unbearable, please seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. There is no shame in needing help; wisdom seeks it (Proverbs 11:14).
Lastly, we must address something critical: you mentioned being a Christian for only a few years, but you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your request. Beloved, there is *no* access to the Father except through Jesus Christ (John 14:6), and there is *no* other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we urge you to examine your heart: Do you truly believe that Jesus is the Son of God, that He died for your sins, and that He rose again to give you eternal life? Have you repented of your sins and surrendered your life to Him? If not, we plead with you to do so today. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). There is no greater hope, no greater healing, than being found in Christ.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every struggle. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of rejection that has taken root in their heart and command it to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Replace it with the unshakable truth of their identity in You—they are *chosen*, *loved*, and *redeemed* by the blood of the Lamb. Father, break the stronghold of lying in their life. Convict them deeply of this sin, but also flood them with Your grace to overcome it. Teach them to walk in truth, to speak truth, and to rest in Your truth. Bind the enemy’s lies that fuel their depression, and let Your light expose every darkness. Surround them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and lead them to a community of believers who will walk alongside them in love and accountability.
Lord, if there is any doubt in their heart about their salvation, we ask that You would draw them irrevocably to Yourself. Open their eyes to see Jesus as He truly is—the Savior, the Healer, the Only Way. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in victory over sin and despair. Restore to them the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12) and make them a testament to Your transforming power. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Beloved, cling to Jesus. He is your anchor in this storm. Read His Word, speak to Him honestly, and trust that He is working all things for your good (Romans 8:28)—even this pain. You are not defined by your struggles; you are defined by *His* love. Walk forward in repentance, in faith, and in the confidence that He who began a good work in you *will* complete it (Philippians 1:6). We are standing with you in prayer.
The Bible tells us that *"no temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure"* (1 Corinthians 10:13). Lying may feel like an uncontrollable habit right now, but it is a stronghold that *can* be torn down through repentance, renewal of the mind, and the power of Christ in you. Remember, Jesus is the Truth (John 14:6), and when we abide in Him, the lies we’ve spoken—or even the lies we’ve believed about ourselves—must bow to His authority. Begin by confessing this sin specifically to the Lord. Ask Him to cleanse you (1 John 1:9) and to fill you with His Spirit, who is the Spirit of truth (John 16:13). Then, *replace* the habit of lying with the discipline of speaking truth—even when it’s hard. This may mean humbling yourself before others, admitting past deceit, and asking for forgiveness where needed. It will not be easy, but freedom is found in obedience, not in hiding.
As for the rejection you’ve faced, we grieve with you. Church leaders, though human and flawed, are called to shepherd with gentleness (1 Peter 5:2–3), and their failure to do so is a serious matter. But hear this: *your worth is not tied to their approval or disapproval*. You are a child of God, adopted into His family through the blood of Jesus (Ephesians 1:5). If this leader’s rejection has left you feeling unworthy or distant from God, that is a lie from the pit of hell. The Lord Himself was despised and rejected by men (Isaiah 53:3), yet He remained faithful. He understands your pain intimately, and He is your ultimate Shepherd (Psalm 23:1). We encourage you to seek a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can be discipled, loved, and held accountable—not in legalism, but in grace. Isolation is the enemy’s playground; community is God’s design for healing.
Depression is a heavy burden, but it is not your identity. The psalmist cried out, *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God!"* (Psalm 42:5). Even when your emotions scream otherwise, *choose* to hope in God. This is not a call to deny your pain but to direct it toward the One who can carry it. Spend time in Scripture daily, even if it’s just a few verses. Let truth combat the lies depression whispers. And if this darkness feels unbearable, please seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. There is no shame in needing help; wisdom seeks it (Proverbs 11:14).
Lastly, we must address something critical: you mentioned being a Christian for only a few years, but you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your request. Beloved, there is *no* access to the Father except through Jesus Christ (John 14:6), and there is *no* other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we urge you to examine your heart: Do you truly believe that Jesus is the Son of God, that He died for your sins, and that He rose again to give you eternal life? Have you repented of your sins and surrendered your life to Him? If not, we plead with you to do so today. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). There is no greater hope, no greater healing, than being found in Christ.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every struggle. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of rejection that has taken root in their heart and command it to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Replace it with the unshakable truth of their identity in You—they are *chosen*, *loved*, and *redeemed* by the blood of the Lamb. Father, break the stronghold of lying in their life. Convict them deeply of this sin, but also flood them with Your grace to overcome it. Teach them to walk in truth, to speak truth, and to rest in Your truth. Bind the enemy’s lies that fuel their depression, and let Your light expose every darkness. Surround them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and lead them to a community of believers who will walk alongside them in love and accountability.
Lord, if there is any doubt in their heart about their salvation, we ask that You would draw them irrevocably to Yourself. Open their eyes to see Jesus as He truly is—the Savior, the Healer, the Only Way. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in victory over sin and despair. Restore to them the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12) and make them a testament to Your transforming power. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Beloved, cling to Jesus. He is your anchor in this storm. Read His Word, speak to Him honestly, and trust that He is working all things for your good (Romans 8:28)—even this pain. You are not defined by your struggles; you are defined by *His* love. Walk forward in repentance, in faith, and in the confidence that He who began a good work in you *will* complete it (Philippians 1:6). We are standing with you in prayer.
We're here for you, dear friend. We've felt the weight of rejection, the darkness of depression, and the struggle with lies. But we want you to know, you're not alone. Jesus sees you, He's near, and He's working in you.
We're going to pray for you, but first, let's talk. Have you ever thought about how Jesus felt when He was rejected by the very people He came to save? Yet, He remained faithful. That's the kind of love and strength we can tap into. You're His child, adopted into His family. Your worth is not tied to anyone's approval but His.
Let's tackle the lies together. Depression loves to whisper lies, like "You're unworthy" or "God has abandoned you." But the truth is, God loves you deeply and has a purpose for you. Choose to hope in Him, even when your emotions scream otherwise. Spend time in Scripture, let truth combat the lies.
As for the habit of lying, it's a stronghold that can be broken. Start by confessing this sin to the Lord. Ask Him to cleanse you and fill you with His Spirit, the Spirit of truth. Then, replace the habit of lying with the discipline of speaking truth. It won't be easy, but freedom is found in obedience.
We also encourage you to find a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can be discipled, loved, and held accountable. Isolation is the enemy's playground; community is God's design for healing.
Lastly, if this darkness feels unbearable, please seek godly counsel. There's no shame in needing help; wisdom seeks it.
Now, let's pray. Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul to You. We rebuke the spirit of rejection and command it to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Replace it with the unshakable truth of their identity in You. Break the stronghold of lying in their life. Convict them deeply of this sin, but also flood them with Your grace to overcome it. Surround them with Your peace and lead them to a community of believers. Lord, if there's any doubt in their heart about their salvation, we ask that You would draw them irrevocably to Yourself. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in victory over sin and despair. Restore to them the joy of Your salvation and make them a testament to Your transforming power. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Beloved, cling to Jesus. He's your anchor in this storm. Read His Word, speak to Him honestly, and trust that He's working all things for your good. You're not defined by your struggles; you're defined by His love. Walk forward in repentance, in faith, and in the confidence that He who began a good work in you will complete it. We're standing with you in prayer.
We're going to pray for you, but first, let's talk. Have you ever thought about how Jesus felt when He was rejected by the very people He came to save? Yet, He remained faithful. That's the kind of love and strength we can tap into. You're His child, adopted into His family. Your worth is not tied to anyone's approval but His.
Let's tackle the lies together. Depression loves to whisper lies, like "You're unworthy" or "God has abandoned you." But the truth is, God loves you deeply and has a purpose for you. Choose to hope in Him, even when your emotions scream otherwise. Spend time in Scripture, let truth combat the lies.
As for the habit of lying, it's a stronghold that can be broken. Start by confessing this sin to the Lord. Ask Him to cleanse you and fill you with His Spirit, the Spirit of truth. Then, replace the habit of lying with the discipline of speaking truth. It won't be easy, but freedom is found in obedience.
We also encourage you to find a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can be discipled, loved, and held accountable. Isolation is the enemy's playground; community is God's design for healing.
Lastly, if this darkness feels unbearable, please seek godly counsel. There's no shame in needing help; wisdom seeks it.
Now, let's pray. Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul to You. We rebuke the spirit of rejection and command it to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Replace it with the unshakable truth of their identity in You. Break the stronghold of lying in their life. Convict them deeply of this sin, but also flood them with Your grace to overcome it. Surround them with Your peace and lead them to a community of believers. Lord, if there's any doubt in their heart about their salvation, we ask that You would draw them irrevocably to Yourself. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in victory over sin and despair. Restore to them the joy of Your salvation and make them a testament to Your transforming power. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Beloved, cling to Jesus. He's your anchor in this storm. Read His Word, speak to Him honestly, and trust that He's working all things for your good. You're not defined by your struggles; you're defined by His love. Walk forward in repentance, in faith, and in the confidence that He who began a good work in you will complete it. We're standing with you in prayer.
Thank you I know Jesus loves me it seems that when fear overcome me the lies pop out
I want Jesus!!
I want Jesus!!
Thank you for praying for me
Thank you
I am still a baby in Jesus I choose to trust in Him and desire to grow in Him and the change free me for
I am still a baby in Jesus I choose to trust in Him and desire to grow in Him and the change free me for
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Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
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Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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