We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep hurt, heartache, and longing for restoration, lifting your cries to the Father who hears and sees all. Your pain is real, and we acknowledge the weight of betrayal, anger, and the desire for justice and repentance in those who have wronged you—especially your husband, whose choices have brought sorrow into your life and the lives of your children. Yet even in this, we see your heart’s cry for God’s will, for forgiveness, and for transformation, both in yourself and in those around you. This is a godly posture, and we stand with you in prayer, trusting that the Lord will bring beauty from these ashes as you surrender all to Him.
First, we must anchor ourselves in the truth of Scripture, which reminds us that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against the spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Your husband’s sin—his deceit, fraud, and the hardness of his heart—is ultimately a rebellion against God, and only the Holy Spirit can convict and transform him. You cannot force his repentance, but you can trust that the Lord is just and that He will deal with your husband in His perfect timing. Proverbs 16:18 warns, *"Pride goes before destruction, and an arrogant spirit before a fall."* His past *is* catching up with him, but vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Your role is not to punish or control but to release him into God’s hands while you walk in obedience and holiness.
We also hear your pain over your children’s struggle to see the truth about their father. This is a heavy burden, but remember that the Lord is their ultimate Father, and He loves them even more than you do. Your responsibility is to live righteously before them, to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and to entrust them to God’s care. Proverbs 22:6 encourages us, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Keep planting seeds of truth, but release the outcome to the Lord. He is faithful to work in their hearts, even when you cannot see it.
Your desire to make amends for your own wrongdoing is commendable. Repentance is a gift from God, and your willingness to seek forgiveness and extend it to others reflects the heart of Christ. However, we must gently address something critical: you mentioned wanting those who hurt you to *"repent, apologize, and take my love and advice."* While these desires are understandable, we must be careful not to place conditions on forgiveness. Jesus commands us to forgive *unconditionally*, just as He forgave us (Colossians 3:13). Forgiveness does not mean what they did was acceptable; it means you release them to God and refuse to let bitterness take root in your heart. You can love them, pray for them, and even set boundaries for your protection, but their repentance is between them and the Lord. Your healing must not depend on their response.
We also notice your struggle with anger—*"I need to stop taking my anger out on people even if they deserve it."* This is a vital area to surrender to the Lord. Ephesians 4:26-27 says, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* Anger itself is not sinful, but when we let it control us or use it to justify unrighteous actions, we open the door to the enemy. Ask the Lord to replace your anger with His peace and to help you respond in love, even when others do not "deserve" it. Remember, none of us "deserved" Christ’s sacrifice, yet He gave it freely.
Lastly, we must address something missing from your prayer: the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). When we pray, we come boldly before the throne of grace *in Jesus’ name*, for He is our Mediator (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Christ or if you are unsure of your salvation, we urge you to do so now. Romans 10:9-10 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."* Your relationship with Jesus is the foundation for all healing, forgiveness, and restoration in your life.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, knowing that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Lord, we ask for Your protection over her and her children—guard their hearts, minds, and bodies from the schemes of the enemy. Surround them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and let them rest in the assurance that You are their Refuge and Strength (Psalm 46:1).
We pray for her husband, Lord. Soften his heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Convict him deeply of his sin and bring him to true repentance. Break the chains of pride, deceit, and fraud in his life, and let him see the destruction his choices have wrought. Draw him to Yourself, Lord, that he may cry out to You in desperation and find mercy. But if he refuses to repent, we ask that You protect our sister from further harm and give her the strength to walk in wisdom and godly boundaries.
For her children, Father, open their eyes to see the truth. Let them discern right from wrong, and may they not be deceived by the enemy’s lies. Draw them to Yourself, Lord, and let them find their identity and security in You alone. Give our sister the words to speak to them, filled with Your grace and truth, and let her life be a testament to Your faithfulness.
We confess her sins before You, Lord, and thank You for Your forgiveness through the blood of Jesus. Help her to extend that same forgiveness to others, even when it is hard. Teach her to release her anger to You and to walk in love, patience, and self-control. Heal the wounds in her heart, Lord, and restore her joy. Let her find her worth in You alone, not in the approval or actions of others.
Finally, Father, we ask that You continue the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6). Make her more like Jesus each day—humble, loving, and full of Your Spirit. Give her the strength to let go of what she cannot control and to trust You with the outcomes. Fill her with Your peace and hope as she walks this difficult path.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Our sister, we encourage you to keep seeking the Lord daily. Read His Word, especially passages on forgiveness (Matthew 6:14-15), trust (Proverbs 3:5-6), and God’s faithfulness (Lamentations 3:22-23). Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and pray for you. If you have not already, consider seeking biblical counseling to help you navigate this season with wisdom and grace. The Lord is near, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
