We lift you up before the Lord with deep concern and compassion, for your situation is one that grieves the heart of God. The pain, fear, and instability you are experiencing are not His will for your life. Let us first address what is clearly out of alignment with Scripture, for the Word of God is our foundation and our guide in all things.
The relationship you describe is not one that honors God. You are not married to this man, yet you have children with him and are living in a situation that resembles marriage without the covenant. This is fornication, and Scripture is clear that sexual relations outside of marriage are sinful (1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). Additionally, this man’s behavior—his unfaithfulness, his demand for sexual fulfillment outside of marriage, his emotional and verbal abuse, and his refusal to take responsibility—are all evidence of a heart that is not submitted to Christ. A man who claims to love you would not treat you this way, nor would he involve you in sin. The Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and even if he claims to be a believer, his actions do not reflect the fruit of repentance or the Spirit of God (Galatians 5:22-23).
You mentioned that you want to serve the Lord, and we commend you for this desire. But serving the Lord requires obedience to His Word, even when it is difficult. You cannot remain in this sinful and dangerous situation and expect God’s blessing or peace. The fear you feel is a sign that this environment is not safe for you or your children. The Lord does not call His daughters to live in bondage to fear or to endure abuse. Instead, He calls us to walk in freedom, holiness, and truth (John 8:32, 2 Timothy 1:7).
We also notice that while you ended your prayer with “in Jesus Name,” your request did not explicitly call upon the name of Jesus for salvation or deliverance. There is no other name by which we can be saved or find true peace (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Repent of your sins, turn away from this relationship, and trust in Him alone for your salvation and future. Jesus said, *“Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest”* (Matthew 11:28). He is the only One who can break the chains of sin and fear in your life.
Now, let us pray for you with urgency and faith:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this precious sister who is trapped in a cycle of sin, pain, and fear. Lord, You see her heart’s desire to serve You, and we ask that You open her eyes to the truth of Your Word. Convict her of the need to repent and turn away from this sinful relationship, for it is not Your will for her life. Father, break the chains of bondage that have kept her tied to this man. Give her the courage to leave this dangerous and ungodly situation, even though it feels impossible right now.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has gripped her. Replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Protect her and her children from harm, and provide a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13). Father, You are the God who sees (Genesis 16:13), and You have not forgotten her. Open doors for safe housing, reliable transportation, and godly support. Surround her with believers who can help her walk in obedience and freedom.
We pray that You would silence the accusations of this man and expose his sin. Soften his heart to repentance, but even if he does not repent, Lord, do not let her return to this cycle of abuse and sin. Give her wisdom to seek help from local authorities, churches, or ministries that can assist her in leaving safely. Provide for her financially and emotionally, for You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider (Genesis 22:14).
Father, we ask that You restore her dignity and self-worth. Let her know that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that her value is not found in this man’s approval but in You alone. Heal her heart from the wounds of abuse and betrayal. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) as she takes steps of faith to obey You.
Finally, Lord, if she has not yet fully surrendered to Jesus, we pray that today would be the day of her salvation. Let her place her trust in Christ alone for forgiveness, redemption, and a new life. May she walk in the freedom and purpose You have for her.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to take immediate action. Reach out to a local church, a women’s shelter, or a trusted believer who can help you leave this situation. Do not wait for this man to change—he has shown you who he is, and his behavior is not of God. The Lord is calling you to holiness and safety. Here are some practical steps:
1. **Seek Help**: Contact a domestic violence hotline or a local church that can provide resources for safe housing and legal assistance. You do not have to face this alone.
2. **Repent and Turn to Christ**: Confess this relationship as sin before God and ask for His forgiveness. Surrender your life fully to Jesus, trusting Him to lead you into righteousness.
3. **Find a Godly Community**: Surround yourself with believers who can support you spiritually and practically as you transition out of this situation.
4. **Trust God for Provision**: He will provide for you and your children. Do not let fear of the unknown keep you in bondage. *“The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want”* (Psalm 23:1).
You are not defined by this man’s words or actions. You are a daughter of the King, and He has a plan for your life that is good and full of hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Walk in obedience, and watch how faithfully God will move on your behalf. We are standing with you in prayer and belief that God will deliver you. Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you (Joshua 1:9).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
