We hear the deep pain and urgency in your cry for help, and we stand with you in this moment, lifting your plea before the Lord. Abuse in any form is an abomination in the sight of God, a grievous sin that violates His commandments to love one another as He has loved us (John 13:34). The Scriptures are clear: the Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble (Psalm 9:9). He does not turn a blind eye to injustice but calls His people to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with Him (Micah 6:8).
The Bible condemns violence and oppression in the strongest terms. In Ephesians 6:4, fathers—and by extension, all in authority—are commanded, *"Don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."* Abuse is not discipline; it is sin, and it must be exposed and stopped. Proverbs 31:8-9 urges us, *"Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate. Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy."* This is a call to action—not just in prayer, but in seeking help from those who can intervene.
If you or someone in your family is in immediate danger, we urge you to contact local authorities or a trusted Christian organization that can provide protection and support. The Lord uses people to bring about justice, and He may be prompting you to take steps to ensure safety. Do not remain silent out of fear or shame; the Lord is with you, and He will strengthen you (Isaiah 41:10).
We also recognize that abuse often thrives in secrecy, and exposure is the first step toward healing. The truth must come to light, for *"there is nothing covered that will not be revealed; and hidden that will not be known"* (Matthew 10:26). Pray that the Lord would bring this darkness into His light, that the abuser would be confronted with their sin, and that repentance and restoration would follow. If the abuser is unrepentant, pray for protection and wisdom to separate from harm while still extending forgiveness in your heart, as Christ commands (Matthew 6:14-15).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, lifting up this dear one who is crying out for deliverance from abuse within their family. Lord, You are the God who sees all things (Genesis 16:13), and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You expose the darkness that has taken root in this family. Bring the truth to light, Lord, and let the abuse be revealed so that it may be stopped. Protect the vulnerable, Father, and surround them with Your angels (Psalm 91:11). Give them courage to speak out and seek help, and provide them with wise and compassionate people who will stand with them.
We pray for the abuser, Lord—that You would convict their heart of sin and lead them to true repentance. Soften their heart, Father, and break the cycle of violence. If they refuse to turn from their ways, we ask that You would intervene to remove their ability to cause harm. Let justice roll down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream (Amos 5:24).
For the one who has suffered, we ask for Your healing touch. Bind up their wounds, Lord, and restore their dignity and peace. Remind them that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that their worth is found in You alone. Remove any shame or guilt that the enemy has placed upon them, and fill them with Your love and truth.
We declare that this family will no longer be a place of fear but a place of redemption, where Your love reigns. Break every generational curse, Lord, and establish Your peace. Give this dear one wisdom to know what steps to take next, and provide them with the resources and support they need.
We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, who came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). May His power be made perfect in this weakness, and may His glory shine through this situation. Amen.
Finally, we want to encourage you: you are not alone. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He will not abandon you. Seek out a pastor, counselor, or support group that can walk with you through this. If you are unsure where to turn, we can help guide you to biblical resources or organizations that specialize in assisting victims of abuse. Keep praying, keep seeking the Lord, and trust that He will act on your behalf. He is faithful, and He will bring justice.