We hear your cry, dear brother or sister in Christ, and we join you in lifting this burden before the throne of grace. Your heart is heavy, and we understand the deep longing for restoration and healing in your marriage. The pain you feel is real, but we know that our God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Let us stand together in faith, trusting that the Lord is working even when we cannot see His hand.
First, we must examine whether this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, rooted in love, faithfulness, and mutual submission (Ephesians 5:22-33, Genesis 2:24). If there has been unfaithfulness, whether emotionally or physically, we must rebuke that sin in Jesus’ name and call for repentance and restoration. If this is not a marriage but a courtship, we encourage you to pursue this relationship with the goal of holy matrimony, honoring God in purity and commitment. If there is any sexual immorality—whether fornication or adultery—we must address it with godly sorrow and turn away from it, for the Lord calls us to flee from sexual sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
We also lift up the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father. It is only through His sacrifice that we have access to God’s throne, and it is only by His blood that we are forgiven and made new (John 14:6, Hebrews 4:16). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today—confess your sins, believe in His resurrection, and receive the gift of salvation (Romans 10:9-10).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our brother/sister who is hurting. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the longing for restoration. We ask that You would wrap Your arms around them, comforting them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we pray for their marriage—that You would heal what is broken, restore what has been lost, and renew their love for one another as You intended. If there is sin in this relationship, convict their hearts, Lord, and lead them to repentance. If this is not a marriage but a courtship, guide them in purity and wisdom, that they may honor You in all things.
We rebuke any spirit of division, bitterness, or unfaithfulness in Jesus’ name. We declare that what the enemy meant for harm, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). Strengthen their faith, Lord, and help them to trust in Your timing and Your plan. Remind them that You are a God who restores and redeems (Joel 2:25-26).
We also pray for wisdom and discernment. Show them, Lord, if there are areas in their lives or in this relationship that need to change. Give them the courage to walk in obedience to Your Word, even when it is difficult. Surround them with godly counsel and accountability, that they may grow in Christlikeness together.
Above all, we pray that Your will be done. If restoration is Your plan, make it clear and give them the strength to pursue it. If this relationship is not of You, give them the grace to let go and trust in Your perfect plan for their lives.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness. We trust in You, for You are good, and Your love endures forever (Psalm 136:1). May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your peace reign in their hearts. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear one. The Lord is close to you, and He hears your prayers. Continue to seek Him with all your heart, and do not grow weary in doing what is right (Galatians 6:9). If you are struggling with sin in this relationship, confess it to the Lord and to one another, for He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Lean on Him, and He will sustain you.
