Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your heart’s cry for your parents ascends before the throne of God, and He who knows all secrets sees the genuine affection with which you intercede. That you bring such burdens to the church is right, for we are commanded to bear one another’s infirmities and to approach the great Physician of souls and bodies with confidence.
Yet I must remind you, while you pray for their health, to keep the greater healing ever in view. Your mother’s struggle with the infection in her lungs and the daily trial of diabetes, your father’s failing eyesight, the headaches, the swelling in his feet, the unsettling blood, these are real cares and not to be dismissed. Christ Himself, when He walked among us, did not turn away the sick but stretched out His hand to restore them, showing both His power and His deep compassion. He who healed Peter’s mother-in-law and restored sight to blind Bartimaeus still works through prayers and the means He has given.
But do not let your anxiety for their bodies overshadow the one thing needful. How often do we pour out our energy on what fades while neglecting the soul, which endures beyond the grave? You remember the apostle’s words: to depart and be with Christ is far better. That does not mean we despise the gift of earthly life, but we must hold it loosely, knowing that our true citizenship is in heaven. Pray for their health with fervor, but pray more urgently that their faith may abound, that their love may be perfected, and that they may be found sincere and without offense on the day of Christ. When the body is in pain, the spirit can be refined like gold, and many who suffer learn to lean not on themselves but on God who raises the dead.
I know the fear that steals upon you when you watch those you love grow weak. Even the blessed Paul, who longed for his children in the bowels of Christ, felt such trembling for the whole world’s salvation that he needed comfort. Your affection is good, a reflection of the tender mercies of Christ. But let it drive you not to despair but to deeper trust. Would a father who gives good gifts to his children ignore their cries? He who did not spare His own Son, will He not also with Him freely give us all things? Yet that “all things” must be understood as what truly profits us in the life to come, not simply what removes temporary discomfort. Sometimes He permits illness to remain, that we might learn patience and set our minds on things above.
So continue to call on the Lord for their healing. Seek out physicians, for they are instruments of His Providence. But above all, bring them before the mercy seat with thanksgiving, and teach them to say with their own lips, “Thy will be done.” The same lips that tasted gall for us are now exalted to intercede; He knows our frame, He remembers we are dust. Even if sight dims or strength fails, the inner man can be renewed day by day. And when you grow weary from the care, remember that you are not alone. The whole company of the faithful carries one another’s burdens, and He who tests the hearts strengthens the feeble knees.
Let not your home be turned upside down by these trials, as happens to those who have no hope. Rather, let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, and let your petitions be made known to God with a quiet confidence. Love your parents not only in the flesh but far more in the Lord, and know that your prayer is a sweet aroma, whether He grants healing in this age or reserves the fullness of restoration for the age to come.
Yet I must remind you, while you pray for their health, to keep the greater healing ever in view. Your mother’s struggle with the infection in her lungs and the daily trial of diabetes, your father’s failing eyesight, the headaches, the swelling in his feet, the unsettling blood, these are real cares and not to be dismissed. Christ Himself, when He walked among us, did not turn away the sick but stretched out His hand to restore them, showing both His power and His deep compassion. He who healed Peter’s mother-in-law and restored sight to blind Bartimaeus still works through prayers and the means He has given.
But do not let your anxiety for their bodies overshadow the one thing needful. How often do we pour out our energy on what fades while neglecting the soul, which endures beyond the grave? You remember the apostle’s words: to depart and be with Christ is far better. That does not mean we despise the gift of earthly life, but we must hold it loosely, knowing that our true citizenship is in heaven. Pray for their health with fervor, but pray more urgently that their faith may abound, that their love may be perfected, and that they may be found sincere and without offense on the day of Christ. When the body is in pain, the spirit can be refined like gold, and many who suffer learn to lean not on themselves but on God who raises the dead.
I know the fear that steals upon you when you watch those you love grow weak. Even the blessed Paul, who longed for his children in the bowels of Christ, felt such trembling for the whole world’s salvation that he needed comfort. Your affection is good, a reflection of the tender mercies of Christ. But let it drive you not to despair but to deeper trust. Would a father who gives good gifts to his children ignore their cries? He who did not spare His own Son, will He not also with Him freely give us all things? Yet that “all things” must be understood as what truly profits us in the life to come, not simply what removes temporary discomfort. Sometimes He permits illness to remain, that we might learn patience and set our minds on things above.
So continue to call on the Lord for their healing. Seek out physicians, for they are instruments of His Providence. But above all, bring them before the mercy seat with thanksgiving, and teach them to say with their own lips, “Thy will be done.” The same lips that tasted gall for us are now exalted to intercede; He knows our frame, He remembers we are dust. Even if sight dims or strength fails, the inner man can be renewed day by day. And when you grow weary from the care, remember that you are not alone. The whole company of the faithful carries one another’s burdens, and He who tests the hearts strengthens the feeble knees.
Let not your home be turned upside down by these trials, as happens to those who have no hope. Rather, let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, and let your petitions be made known to God with a quiet confidence. Love your parents not only in the flesh but far more in the Lord, and know that your prayer is a sweet aroma, whether He grants healing in this age or reserves the fullness of restoration for the age to come.
