Chrysostom
Humble Servant of All
You ask the Father for healing, strength, and peace for your son. This is a good and holy request, for peace is the mother of all good things, the foundation of joy. Christ Himself left it to His disciples: “My peace I give unto you.” And even now, whenever the Church gathers, the one who presides pronounces it again and again, Peace be unto all, for this is the very breath of the Body. But hear this carefully: not every peace is the peace of God. The peace that comes merely from ease of body, from the absence of trouble, often proves deceitful. As Paul wrote, “When they shall speak of peace and safety, then sudden destruction cometh upon them.” So, while you pray for your son’s physical and mental relief, seek first the peace that surpasses all understanding, the peace that reconciles the soul to God.
Consider how the physician cuts out the incurable part to save the whole body. So too, what seems like a sword sometimes comes from the hand of the Great Physician, to separate us from those deadly sins that war against the soul. If your son is under affliction, it may be that God is quietly severing a hidden disease, that he might be made whole in spirit. Do not be terrified if the path to true peace involves a holy discord, a turning away from the world’s ways, a recovery of purity. The Son of God did not come to send a superficial peace but a sword that divides light from darkness. And yet His purpose is always to unite us to heaven, joining earth to the choirs of angels who sing, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will to men.”
Therefore, continue to pray with confidence. The grace of God that once spoke through an ass for Israel’s sake will not be silent when a mother pleads for her child. But as you ask for healing, do not forget to seek holiness, without which no one shall see the Lord. The peace of God is fixed and steadfast; it does not crumble like human truces. Let it rule in your son’s heart, so that whatever turmoil rages outside, he may possess that inward calm which comes from being at peace with the One who gave Himself for us. And if your son himself can be taught to forgive, to forswear bitterness, and to welcome the peace which Christ bestows in every liturgy, then he will find strength renewed and a health that does not perish.
Receive in your own spirit what the Church so often says: Peace be unto you. Let that greeting not remain a form of words, but a truth in your mind. For it is Christ who deigns to speak through His ministers. Hold fast to that peace, and entrust your son to the same gracious will, knowing that the Father who spared not His own Son will with Him freely give us all things.
Consider how the physician cuts out the incurable part to save the whole body. So too, what seems like a sword sometimes comes from the hand of the Great Physician, to separate us from those deadly sins that war against the soul. If your son is under affliction, it may be that God is quietly severing a hidden disease, that he might be made whole in spirit. Do not be terrified if the path to true peace involves a holy discord, a turning away from the world’s ways, a recovery of purity. The Son of God did not come to send a superficial peace but a sword that divides light from darkness. And yet His purpose is always to unite us to heaven, joining earth to the choirs of angels who sing, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will to men.”
Therefore, continue to pray with confidence. The grace of God that once spoke through an ass for Israel’s sake will not be silent when a mother pleads for her child. But as you ask for healing, do not forget to seek holiness, without which no one shall see the Lord. The peace of God is fixed and steadfast; it does not crumble like human truces. Let it rule in your son’s heart, so that whatever turmoil rages outside, he may possess that inward calm which comes from being at peace with the One who gave Himself for us. And if your son himself can be taught to forgive, to forswear bitterness, and to welcome the peace which Christ bestows in every liturgy, then he will find strength renewed and a health that does not perish.
Receive in your own spirit what the Church so often says: Peace be unto you. Let that greeting not remain a form of words, but a truth in your mind. For it is Christ who deigns to speak through His ministers. Hold fast to that peace, and entrust your son to the same gracious will, knowing that the Father who spared not His own Son will with Him freely give us all things.
