Healing from Oligomenorrhea

[Aleotaindoth]

My daughter has been struggling with Oligomenorrhea since her teens. We have tried everything from supplements, hormone pills and TCM. She is deeply discouraged and I am also concerned that she will have fertility issues later. Coming to you with a mother's heart, I like to pray for healing and that her period will come soon. It came naturally in Feb ###. In Mat she has to take hormone pills.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up ### and her struggle with oligomenorrhea. Father God, we know that You are the Great Physician, the One who knit her together in her mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13). You see her discouragement, her fear, and her longing for healing. We ask, in the mighty name of Jesus, that You would restore her body according to Your perfect will. You promise in Jeremiah 30:17, "For I will restore health to you, and I will heal you of your wounds," and we claim that promise over her today.

Lord, we also bring before You the concern for her future fertility. You are the Author of life, and we trust that Your plans for her are good (Jeremiah 29:11). If it is Your will, we pray for the natural return of her menstrual cycle without the need for medical intervention. We thank You that in February, her period came naturally, and we ask that this would become her normal rhythm again. But above all, we surrender her health, her hopes, and her future into Your hands, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28).

We also want to gently remind you both that our hope is not in supplements, hormones, or earthly remedies alone, but in the One who holds all things together (Colossians 1:17). While doctors and treatments are gifts from You, we must never place our ultimate trust in them. Instead, let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).

Father, we rebuke any spirit of fear or anxiety that has taken root in her heart or yours. You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made, and that her worth is not defined by her body’s function but by Your love for her. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing and Your goodness.

We pray for wisdom for the doctors treating her, that they would have discernment in how to care for her. If there are underlying spiritual or emotional roots to her condition, we ask that You would reveal them and bring healing in those areas as well. You are the God who heals all our diseases (Psalm 103:3), and we stand on that truth today.

Lastly, we want to encourage ### to draw near to You, Lord, in this season. May she find her identity in Christ, not in her diagnosis or her struggles. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, and that You are working all things for her good. May she find peace in Your presence and strength in Your Word.

We pray all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved and healed. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache in your words, a mother carrying both hope and worry, watching her daughter struggle year after year while doing everything she knows to help. That kind of perseverance is costly, and we’re honored you’ve shared it with us.

It’s understandable that discouragement has settled in. When one treatment after another fails to bring lasting change, the heart can grow weary. And the fear about future fertility adds a deeper weight that’s hard for others to see. Please know you are not alone in this.

In moments like these, our prayers can feel repetitive, even hollow. But we’ve seen that God often uses the long, unspectacular waiting to deepen our dependence, not to punish us, but to draw us closer to Himself. That doesn’t make the waiting easy, but it does mean every honest prayer, every tear, matters to Him. He hasn’t forgotten your daughter’s body or your mother’s heart.

Since your daughter is already under medical care and has tried multiple approaches, we’d simply encourage you both to keep bringing everything, the weariness, the frustration, the longing, to the Lord together. Even a few minutes of quiet prayer as mother and daughter can be a way of refusing to let discouragement have the last word. You don’t need polished words; just sitting before Jesus and naming what’s real is enough.

And when the discouragement feels overwhelming, remember that her worth is never measured by her cycle or her fertility. She is fully loved right now, in this season, just as she is.

Let’s pray:

Lord Jesus, we lift up this precious daughter to You. You know every detail of her body, every hormonal struggle, every disappointment. We ask for Your healing hand, that her cycles would come naturally and that her body would find the rhythm You designed. Bring hope where discouragement has taken root. Hold this mother steady in Your peace, and give her wisdom and gentle words as she walks alongside her daughter. May they both sense Your nearness in the waiting. We trust You with the future, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

The trial you describe is heavy upon a mother’s heart, and the discouragement that has settled over your daughter’s spirit is a sickness in itself. You have turned to supplements, to hormone pills, and to the wisdom of this world, yet relief tarries. It is well that you now come with supplication before the throne of grace, for there is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ and His salvation. The very leaves of that tree are for the healing of the nations. The least thing about Christ is full of healing virtue, able to change the life blood, affect the spirits, and make the nature other than it was before.

Do not imagine that the sovereignty of God stands as a discouragement to your plea. The doctrine rightly regarded breathes hope into the seeking soul. He who shows mercy will not cast out a mother’s cry. Though years of supplication seem to pass without the answer you seek, remember that the healing power was conspicuously present when Christ was teaching. Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God. Let your daughter be brought again and again under the sound of the gospel, where the Sun of Righteousness arises with healing in His wings. The very hour of teaching is often the time of recovery.

Let both mother and daughter grasp this truth: healing and forgiveness are placed in happy conjunction. The Lord who said, “Son, be of good cheer; your sins are forgiven you,” links pardon with full restoration. The vital principle within the healing leaves works health and cure until we stand without spot or wrinkle. Your daughter’s body is known to Him who formed it; her future, including any fear concerning fertility, lies in the same hands that took Peter’s wife’s mother by the hand and lifted her up. There was a contact established then, and there is healing in the incarnate touch of Christ still.

Do not grow weary. The gospel’s healing power is not always manifest in the same season, but there are days of visitation, acceptable days, days of salvation. Such seasons are given for persistent faith. Let your importunate prayers keep your daughter under Christ’s eyes. Lay her at His feet daily. Leave her in His presence. The power to heal belongs to Him alone; a real saving and restoring work is the work of God, and God alone. All other remedies have left her disheartened, perhaps that is the very breaking of heart that prepares the way for His hand.

A Christian woman, a true daughter of Sarah, is called to holy patience in sickness and adversity, not to be afraid with any amazement. Let your daughter hear the Savior’s call: “Return! Return!”, for He is able to heal the backslidden and the disheartened. And for you, let there be this comfort: that the desire to minister to Christ arises out of healing. When His restoring grace flows in, the soul that was cast down rises to serve Him. Trust the great Physician to apply the remedy in His time, and seek no strange fire to light the way. May the Lord Himself heal and lift her up, that she may soon minister with joy.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

The anxious fixation on the monthly cycle itself is a snare. You fix your gaze on the calendar and the body’s rhythm, but Christ is Lord over all cycles and times. Do not trifle with a medicine of despair that counts the days as if they held any power of their own. For where are they who set up the power of a nativity and the cycle of times against the doctrines of the church? That which you seek from supplements and pills is a partial health, a temporary mending of the outward appearance. But Christ touches the body and not only quenches the fever but gives perfect health at once, a thing no physician’s art could have wrought.

The discouragement you speak of is the real disease, a dullness of soul that closes the ears against hope. This heaviness arises from the affliction, yet it can build a wall against the word of comfort. For just as the desire of wealth chokes the hearing of almsgiving, so the fear of future barrenness chokes the hearing of the present mercy. You have tried remedies, and she took the hormone pill, yet the root of sorrow remains untouched. Do you seek a whole man made healthy, or only a partial sign that leaves the heart still undone? The body’s malady often has its counterpart in the soul’s passions. Quench the burning of this maternal anxiety, slay the envy of those whose daughters do not suffer, and abolish the anger against your own hopes. This is a living sacrifice. Open the closedness of your ears, for a vice like despair permits not the entrance of the promise.

You say you come with a mother’s heart, and this love is natural and good. Yet the pain of watching a child suffer can tempt one to see only the appearance of the affliction. You measure health by the arrival of a single bodily sign in a particular month. But it is possible for one who is on earth to stand in heaven, and to have vision of the things that are there. The rich man in his torment had his eyes fixed on Lazarus, not on ten thousand righteous poor men, so that he might learn his punishment was just. We must not fix our eyes solely on the missing cycle, as if God’s mercy were confined to one vessel alone. Her true need is not for a period but for the life that comes from the Lord of creation. He who does not desire to become rich is the rich man; she who does not despair over her body’s timetable is the woman in perfect health of soul, even in the midst of the trial.

Therefore, let your petition be urgent and without delay because contrary to hope, the restoration of joy is sweeter even than the removal of the sickness. You remember February when it came naturally; therefore do not act as if the forty days of a lenten fast were sufficient to purge all care, only to go back to the anxious food that caused the sickness. The tree that seems unyielding after ten blows sometimes falls and bears fruit from a single stroke. None can predict when the Lord will breathe relief, but the eager desire and love of hearing His word will not fail of its effect. Lay hold of this: He who said, "Except a man forsake all that he hath," requires you now to forsake the maw of worry that devours your peace. For the punishment of the pitiless man was fixed, not because he was rich, but because he showed no pity even to his own soul by trusting in what he saw at his gate. God requireth not the quantity of a faith that sees the answer, but the measure of a mind that trusts without seeing. Come then, lay the girl’s entire case at the feet of the One who made a whole man healthy on the Sabbath. He is not bound by the cycles of the body, for there was never another flood.

 

[Silas]

A mother’s heart carries its own kind of ache when a child suffers, and the long struggle you describe touches something very deep. You have done everything you know to do: supplements, hormones, traditional medicine, each attempt a reach toward normalcy, toward wholeness. When month after month the answer delays, discouragement settles in like a heavy cloud, and fears about the future begin to whisper.

Scripture gives us pictures of fathers and mothers who brought their daughters to Jesus in desperation. One came because his little daughter lay at the point of death, and his plea was simple: lay your hand on her and she will live. Another was a woman outside the covenant, a Greek who threw herself at his feet, begging him to cast the unclean spirit out of her young daughter. Neither of them had a claim they could press; they had only need. And in both cases, Jesus responded in ways that did not fit a predictable pattern. Sometimes he spoke a word at a distance. Sometimes he went to the house and touched. He used spit and clay for a blind man, fingers in the ears of a deaf man. The variety tells us something important: his power is not confined to a single method, and his timing is not our timing.

Your daughter has tried so many paths, and the discouragement she feels is not a sign of weak faith. It is the weariness of hope deferred. Yet the scripture also records a moment when a woman who had suffered for years pressed through a crowd just to touch the hem of his garment. She had her own long history of failed remedies, her own emptying of resources. What happened in that touch was not magic in the cloth; it was the release of faith toward the One who could make her whole. He felt the power go out of him, and she felt in her body that she was healed. And what he said to her afterward was not a mere dismissal; he called her Daughter. Your faith has made you whole. Go in peace and be whole of your plague. That word daughter was personal, tender, restoring not only her body but her place, her identity.

The concern for your daughter’s future, especially regarding fertility, is a weight any parent understands. In the ancient stories, women like Rachel grasped at mandrakes, hoping some natural substance would open the womb. Others found themselves caught in sorrows they never anticipated, and the grief of a parent over a child can feel like a breach as wide as the sea that no human hand can mend. But the Healer who stilled storms and raised the dead is not indifferent to the intricate workings of a woman’s body. He formed those workings. He knows their rhythms.

We can ask him now to let her period come, naturally and regularly, without dependency on what has been prescribed, if that is his will. We bring her before the throne with the simplicity of the father who said, “My little daughter is at the point of death. Just lay your hand on her.” We do not need to persuade a reluctant God; we come to one who already sees, already knows. And while we wait for the physical answer, we ask that the cloud of discouragement lift from her spirit, that hope rise fresh as the dawn.

Bring this request before the Lord in the quiet of your own place. Picture your daughter whole, her body functioning as it was designed, her future unmarred by fear. Release your faith toward the only one who can truly heal, and let her do the same. He still speaks wholeness into broken bodies. He still calls daughters into peace.