Healing, and the Welcoming of New Love

[Anonymous]

Recently, I realized my singleness stems from fear. The fear of hurt, the fear of rejection, the fear of not being 'enough'

I have isolated myself the past two years because of my past experiences with love. I dated a narcissist that changed the trajectory of my life. I spent a year in therapy and uncovered that my parents are narcissists, which is why I didn't pick up on the manipulation, lack of emotional availability, and conditional love. I am healed now, and can pin-point these things. However, even with my boundaries and taking it slow, my next relationship was with a covert narcissist. The discard and emotional neglect from these people after choosing to see me as not worthy HURTS. I developed a wall to protect myself, that I thought would go away, but it has only strengthened. I am healed and ready for a healthy, real-love, but I need God to open my heart and let them in. I am asking God for a reciprocal love to find and pursue me. One that loves and communicates in the same way that I do. I pray for a healthy love and a healthy partner. And when God sends them to find me, I pray that my mind and heart welcomes them in.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you've been through painful experiences that have led you to build walls around your heart. It's clear that the trauma inflicted by individuals with narcissistic tendencies, including your past romantic partners and even your parents, has left deep wounds. However, it's commendable that you've sought healing through therapy and are now aware of the unhealthy patterns that have influenced your life.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God is the ultimate healer. The Bible tells us, For I will restore health to you, and your wounds I will heal, says Yahweh (Jer. 30:17). It's encouraging that you acknowledge your healing, but remember that God is the one who makes us whole.

Now, as you step into a new season, it's crucial to align your desires with biblical principles. You mentioned that you're ready for a healthy, real love, and you're asking God for a reciprocal love to pursue you. While God does want the best for us, it's essential to approach this with the right mindset. Instead of focusing on what we want or deserve, we should seek God's will for our lives. In this case, praying for a godly spouse who will complement and support you in your journey with Christ is more aligned with biblical principles.

Let's look at what the Bible says about love and relationships. First, love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails (1 Cor. 13:4-8). This is the kind of love we should seek and strive to emulate in our relationships.

Moreover, as Christians, we are called to be equally yoked in our marriages. Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? (2 Cor. 6:14). This means that as you pray for a future spouse, you should seek someone who shares your faith and values, as this will help you both grow together in Christ.

It's also important to address the fear that has kept you from opening your heart. The Bible tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Tim. 1:7). Trust that God has a plan for your life, and He will bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up ### and asking for Your healing touch in their life. Thank You, Lord, for the healing they have already experienced, and we pray for continued restoration and wholeness.

Father, we ask that You help ### tear down the walls they've built around their heart. Help them to trust in Your love and Your plan for their life. Give them the courage to step out in faith, knowing that You are with them every step of the way.

Lord, we pray for a godly spouse for ###, someone who will love and cherish them, who will support and encourage them in their walk with You. Help them to be patient and to trust in Your timing.

In the meantime, Father, help ### to grow in their relationship with You. Help them to become the person that You've called them to be, and to prepare their heart for the love that You have in store for them.

Finally Lord, we pray that ### finds their strength, value and acceptance in you. That they would grow in their relationship with you and come to fully understand they are a child of God chosen and precious to you.

We ask all of this in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. Continue to grow in your relationship with Him, and trust that He has a plan for your life. Don't be afraid to seek help from godly counselors or mentors as you navigate this journey. And remember, it's only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved and have access to a relationship with God. As the Bible says, in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! (Acts 4:12).

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough to open up after being hurt, but remember, God's love for you is unconditional and unwavering. He's been walking this path with you, healing you, and preparing your heart for a love that's real and true. Keep trusting in Him, even when it's scary.

We love how you're seeking a reciprocal love, but let's not forget, God's love is the most reciprocal love there is. He loves you just as you are, and He's always ready to welcome you in. So, let's ask Him to help you welcome others in too, in His timing.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, help us to trust in Your love and Your plan for our lives. Help us to let go of fear and open our hearts to the love You have in store for us. Help us to grow in our relationship with You, and to find our strength, value, and acceptance in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Cyroywood]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you have given us the privilege to pray with you. It is our joy to stand in agreement with you in prayer, especially as you navigate this journey of healing and openness to new love.

If you have seen improvements in your ability to trust and open your heart, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice with you. If you find that the walls around your heart are still strong and the fear of rejection or not being enough persists, we encourage you to share those feelings again as a new request. We are committed to continuing with you in prayer.

We pray that God, through His son Jesus Christ, will bless you as you seek Him. May He open your heart, heal your past hurts, and guide you to a healthy, reciprocal love. May He equip you to welcome that love into your life when the time is right.

In Jesus Name.