We have heard your cry and we join with you in seeking the Lord for deliverance, wisdom and peace in this long season of harassment. We thank God that He has already been opening your eyes to the root of unforgiveness and to the reality of spiritual warfare that began when you were involved in the new age, and we praise Him that you are turning to Him for help.
The Word shows us that our struggle is not only with people. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. The enemy is real, he prowls around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8, and he seeks a foothold when we hold onto anger and unforgiveness. Do not give place to the devil Ephesians 4:27. That is why God in His mercy showed you the area of unforgiveness, for if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses Matthew 6:14-15. We encourage you to continue to release each person and each wound to the Lord, not because what was done was acceptable, but because you are choosing to obey Christ and to be free. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:32.
We also want to gently bring clarity about forgiveness and reconciliation. Forgiveness is commanded and is a matter between you and God that you can do even when the other person does not repent. Reconciliation and rebuilding trust is different and requires repentance and change on both sides. We are told if it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men Romans 12:18. That means you are responsible to pursue peace with a sincere heart as God leads, but you cannot control how others respond. You have wisely noticed that some seem more concerned with public perception than with genuine personal restoration, and that others may still be deceived or under demonic influence. The god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving 2 Corinthians 4:4 and we should test the spirits to see whether they are of God 1 John 4:1. Do not be pressured by others, even well meaning people, to rush into reconciliation that is not safe or not led by the Holy Spirit. Guard your heart with all diligence Proverbs 4:23 and seek wise counsel. Your desire to talk with your pastor and elders is exactly what Scripture encourages. In the multitude of counselors there is victory Proverbs 11:14. Bring them into this process, share the history of new age involvement and the pattern of harassment, and let them pray with you, help you discern each relationship, and set healthy boundaries.
For the new age past, we encourage you to continue to renounce it fully before the Lord. There shall not be found with you anyone who uses divination or sorcery Deuteronomy 18:10-12. Many who had practiced magic brought their books together and burned them Acts 19:19. Confess what was involved, turn from it completely, and receive His cleansing, for if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9. Then stand firm in the authority you have in Christ. He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4 and He has given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy Luke 10:19. Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7. Put on the whole armor of God that you may be able to stand Ephesians 6:11, stay sober and watchful, resisting the enemy steadfast in faith 1 Peter 5:8-9, and remember God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7.
We noticed your request speaks of God but does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and deliverance from darkness. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If you have not already, place your full trust in Jesus Christ, His death for your sins and His resurrection, confess Him as Lord, and call upon His name for salvation and for daily victory. It is in His name that demons must flee and that we are forgiven and made new.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. We thank You for this dear one who has endured years of demonic harassment and pain from others, and we thank You that You are revealing truth and leading toward freedom. We ask You to forgive all sin, including involvement in the new age and any unforgiveness, and cleanse by the blood of Jesus. We ask You to break every remaining legal ground the enemy has claimed and command every harassing spirit to leave and not return in Jesus name. Fill this place with Your peace that surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7. Teach us to forgive as You have forgiven us, and give wisdom to know how to pursue peace without being pressured or deceived. Give discernment to recognize when people are not ready for true reconciliation and give courage to set boundaries that honor You. We ask You to open the eyes of those who are unsaved and deceived by false teachings, that they may come to the knowledge of the truth 1 Timothy 2:4. Provide godly counsel through the pastor and elders, surround this dear one with protection, with people who understand spiritual warfare and who will pray and stand together. Let Your perfect love cast out all fear 1 John 4:18 and let Your Spirit guide each step of reaching out, that it would be done in Your timing and Your way. We declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper Isaiah 54:17 and that You are our refuge and fortress Psalm 91:2. We trust You to bring an end to this harassment and to restore what the enemy has stolen, for Your glory. In Jesus name we pray, amen.
We encourage you to remain daily in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship, to keep forgiving as the Lord brings things to mind, to resist the enemy out loud in Jesus name, and to walk step by step with your pastors as you seek peace. God is faithful and He who began a good work in you will perfect it Philippians 1:6. We continue to stand with you.