Grief, broken heart

Nalormendath

Disciple of Prayer
My husband called out things Friday he had been cheating on me with multiple people .. I only knew of one which is the person he met two weeks ago but is telling his friends he is gonna move with her. And is already meeting her family, for the last few months he had been distant from and God. He would avoid reading the Bible or praying like he did before. He stopped going to church. I don’t know what got into him but I have learn a lot more after the split that he was definitely not a Godly man I thought he was. I think he may also struggle with pornography because of some stuff I found. But idk my heart is broken still, I am so confuse. It does not feel real. I don’t understand how someone claim to love you, make promises under God then turn around and erase you. He lied until the end that he was not with this women yet all his friends knew he was going out with her is so gross but also to throw away your family for someone you just met? Please pray for his salvation. I think there is demonic attack behind this behavior to be honest. But also pray for me, as I grieve quietly while he is at her house, pray God will heal me. Give me peace, faith and anything else that the spirit leads you in because I don’t even know what to pray even his last texts of I love last week feel like a lie. Pray God will use this for my good and his glory, pray I can have strength to keep going
 
We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and heartbreak you are experiencing due to your husband's infidelity and departure from God. Let us first address the grave nature of his actions. The Bible clearly states, "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4 WEB. Your husband's actions are not only harmful to you but also grievous in God's sight.

It is important to understand that God hates divorce, as Malachi 2:16 WEB tells us, yet adultery is a biblical ground for divorce as Jesus Himself stated in Matthew 5:32 WEB. However, reconciliation and forgiveness are always the first and most desired outcome. As for the struggles with pornography, Jesus said, "But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." Matthew 5:28 WEB. This too is a grave sin that needs to be addressed and repented of.

We will pray for your husband's salvation, as you have requested. It is clear that he has turned away from God, and we pray that the Holy Spirit will convict him of his sins and draw him back to the Lord. We agree with you that there may be demonic influences at work, as sin can open doors to the enemy. As Jesus said, "The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly." John 10:10 WEB.

Now, let us pray for you. Dear Lord, we lift up this precious sister to you, asking that You would heal her broken heart and provide her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Give her the strength to endure this trial and the faith to trust in You through it all. Guide her in Your truth and protect her from the enemy's attacks. Use this situation for her good and Your glory, as Romans 8:28 WEB promises us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

Remember, sister, that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 WEB. He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1 WEB. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you. James 4:8 WEB.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 WEB tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Therefore, we pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.
 
Oh, dear friend, our hearts ache with you as you navigate this storm. We're here, holding you up in prayer. Your husband's actions have caused a deep wound, and it's okay to feel confused and broken. Remember, God sees your pain, and He's near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).

We've been praying for your husband, that God would open his eyes to the truth and draw him back. But today, we want to focus on you. We lift you up before our Father, asking Him to heal your heart, to bind up your wounds, and to fill you with His peace (Psalm 147:3). We pray that you would find strength in His love, that you would trust Him even when it's hard to understand.

We also pray that God would give you wisdom as you navigate this situation. We ask that He would protect you from further harm and guide your steps. We believe that even in this, God is working for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28).

And remember, dear one, you are not alone. We're here with you, and so is our mighty God. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We continue to feel honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf, especially during this challenging time. We are truly grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

As we have been lifting you and your husband up in prayer, we hope that you have seen some signs of God's faithfulness and comfort. If you have witnessed any answers to prayer, no matter how small, we would be encouraged to hear your praise report. Your testimony could inspire others who are also going through difficult times.

If your husband has not yet turned back to God or if your heart is still in need of healing, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue covering you both in prayer, asking God to draw your husband back to Himself, to deliver him from any strongholds, and to heal your broken heart.

We have been praying for God to give you peace that surpasses all understanding, to strengthen your faith, and to guide you through this trial. We ask that you may feel His loving arms wrapped around you, comforting you, and that you may know His love that transcends even the deepest betrayals.

Please know that you are not alone in this journey. We will continue to intercede for you, asking God to turn this situation around for your good and His glory. Keep holding on to His promises, dear sister. He is faithful, and He loves you more than you can ever imagine.

In all things, we pray that God's will be done in both of your lives. May He bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His precious son, Jesus Christ.
 

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