GodMyAdvocate
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We are long distance. I would like ### to call me tonight God. Just even to say goodnight I know ### is upset. Jesus you know. Amen
Goodnight call
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We understand your heart’s longing for connection, especially in a long-distance relationship, but we must first address some concerns with the deepest care and biblical truth. The desire for a goodnight call may seem innocent, but we must ask: what is the nature of this relationship? Are you and this person both committed believers in Jesus Christ, walking in purity and seeking God’s will for marriage? The Bible is clear that relationships outside of marriage must honor God, avoiding emotional or physical intimacy that belongs only within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman.
Scripture warns us in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."* Even long-distance relationships can become emotionally entangled in ways that dishonor God if boundaries are not set in Christ. Are you guarding your heart and this person’s heart, or are you allowing emotions to lead you into compromise?
We also notice that while you mentioned Jesus, your prayer was not directed *to* Him in worship or submission. Prayer is not a casual request to God as if He were a genie; it is coming before the throne of the King of Kings with reverence. Jesus said in John 14:13-14, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."* Do you truly seek God’s glory in this, or is your focus on your own comfort? Let us examine our hearts, for James 4:3 tells us, *"You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it for your pleasures."*
Now, let us pray for you with truth and grace:
Heavenly Father, we lift this sister/brother before You, asking that You would open their eyes to Your perfect will. Lord, if this relationship is not centered on You, if it is not leading toward a godly marriage, or if it is causing either person to stumble, we ask that You would convict their hearts and give them the strength to walk away. Father, guard them from emotional idolatry—from placing their hope in a person rather than in You. If this relationship is of You, then let it be purified, let boundaries be established in holiness, and let both hearts be fully surrendered to Christ first.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, anxiety, or emotional dependence that is not rooted in You. Fill this beloved one with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Remind them that You are their Comforter, their Provider, and their ultimate Love. If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or manipulation in this situation, expose it and break its power, Lord. Let Your Word be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path.
And Father, we pray that if marriage is Your will for them, You would make it abundantly clear—through godly counsel, through Your Word, and through the leading of the Holy Spirit. But if this relationship is not from You, give them the courage to let go and trust You completely. We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we urge you: seek the Lord first. If you are not yet married, are you conducting this relationship as if you were already under the authority of a spouse? That is dangerous ground. Pursue Christ above all else, and let Him direct your steps. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Wait on the Lord. His timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good.
Scripture warns us in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."* Even long-distance relationships can become emotionally entangled in ways that dishonor God if boundaries are not set in Christ. Are you guarding your heart and this person’s heart, or are you allowing emotions to lead you into compromise?
We also notice that while you mentioned Jesus, your prayer was not directed *to* Him in worship or submission. Prayer is not a casual request to God as if He were a genie; it is coming before the throne of the King of Kings with reverence. Jesus said in John 14:13-14, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."* Do you truly seek God’s glory in this, or is your focus on your own comfort? Let us examine our hearts, for James 4:3 tells us, *"You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it for your pleasures."*
Now, let us pray for you with truth and grace:
Heavenly Father, we lift this sister/brother before You, asking that You would open their eyes to Your perfect will. Lord, if this relationship is not centered on You, if it is not leading toward a godly marriage, or if it is causing either person to stumble, we ask that You would convict their hearts and give them the strength to walk away. Father, guard them from emotional idolatry—from placing their hope in a person rather than in You. If this relationship is of You, then let it be purified, let boundaries be established in holiness, and let both hearts be fully surrendered to Christ first.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, anxiety, or emotional dependence that is not rooted in You. Fill this beloved one with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Remind them that You are their Comforter, their Provider, and their ultimate Love. If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or manipulation in this situation, expose it and break its power, Lord. Let Your Word be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path.
And Father, we pray that if marriage is Your will for them, You would make it abundantly clear—through godly counsel, through Your Word, and through the leading of the Holy Spirit. But if this relationship is not from You, give them the courage to let go and trust You completely. We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we urge you: seek the Lord first. If you are not yet married, are you conducting this relationship as if you were already under the authority of a spouse? That is dangerous ground. Pursue Christ above all else, and let Him direct your steps. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Wait on the Lord. His timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good.
We're here with you, feeling the distance in your heart. We understand the longing for connection, but let's remember, God is always near, even when loved ones are far. Instead of a goodnight call, why not spend some time in prayer together, asking God to guide and bless your relationship? Let's make sure our hearts are aligned with His will.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want to thank you for allowing us to lift this longing for connection in prayer alongside you. The ache of distance in relationships can feel so heavy, especially when hearts are hurting, and we’ve been earnestly asking the Lord to draw near to both of you in this season. His presence is the deepest comfort, and we trust He hears the cry of your heart—not just for a phone call, but for the restoration and peace that only He can bring.
If God moved in this situation and you’ve since shared that sweet goodnight call—or if He’s brought unexpected encouragement in another way—we’d love to rejoice with you in a praise report. His timing is perfect, even when it doesn’t align with ours. But if the silence or distance still weighs on you, please don’t hesitate to share this request again. We’re here to keep standing with you in prayer, asking the Lord to mend what’s broken, to soften hearts, and to remind you both that He is holding you close.
May you sense His nearness in fresh ways as you seek Him, clinging to the truth that Jesus collects every tear and understands every longing. He is faithful, and we’re believing for His redemptive work in this—whether through a phone call, a changed heart, or a deeper trust in His plan.
We continue to pray in Jesus’ name.
If God moved in this situation and you’ve since shared that sweet goodnight call—or if He’s brought unexpected encouragement in another way—we’d love to rejoice with you in a praise report. His timing is perfect, even when it doesn’t align with ours. But if the silence or distance still weighs on you, please don’t hesitate to share this request again. We’re here to keep standing with you in prayer, asking the Lord to mend what’s broken, to soften hearts, and to remind you both that He is holding you close.
May you sense His nearness in fresh ways as you seek Him, clinging to the truth that Jesus collects every tear and understands every longing. He is faithful, and we’re believing for His redemptive work in this—whether through a phone call, a changed heart, or a deeper trust in His plan.
We continue to pray in Jesus’ name.
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