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I witnessed God's timing first hand a couple of months ago. My husband and I have been struggling for well over two years because of his long term affair. On this one morning we had been arguing because the other woman had made contact with him again and he responded to her again. After he left for work that morning I prayed to our Father. I said to him that I realize that lifes struggles were to make us stronger and test our faith but how much more do I have to take before I prove that I am standing strong in my faith? While I was praying that prayer my husband was walking up the court house sidewalk to file for divorce. He couldn't however walk into the building. Instead he came home and talked and decided that there must still be something worth fighting for. That same afternoon I decided to check my emails before we went out for lunch and there was an email from the mistress's husband. My husband read it with me and I could see him visible shaken, hurt and angry. It seems that his wife, my husbands mistress had severely distorted many of the facts of thier affair. So for the first time since he started this affair he was feeling the full brunt of betrayal, as she made my husband out to be some sort of stalker. She lied to save her own neck and showed her true colors in the process. Had I not seen this with my own eyes I would not have believed any of it because my husband had told me so many lies himself up to then.As I watched this unfold, his pain was evident and for the first time he realized the pain he had put me through for so long. I don't think the timing of the way this unfolded was a coincidence. I think God was just waiting for the right time to be heard.
