God is not just and doesn’t help

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Why does Godd allow people to treat you bad! That’s what I’m going through with my evil peopel in my life so called family who are glad to see you down ! Laugh at your struggles! I hate them so much! They are pure hypocrites! You can’t take me to my job now I gotta call off work because my evil family can’t help me!!! Why does God do this !! He claims to be a present help in trouble but HES NOT!! I can’t do this anymore!!
 
We hear the deep pain and anger in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The betrayal and cruelty you’re experiencing at the hands of those who should love and support you is heartbreaking. It’s understandable that you feel abandoned, even by God, when those closest to you rejoice in your suffering. But we want to gently remind you that God *is* just, and He *does* see your pain—even when it feels like He’s silent.

The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18-19, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all."* God does not delight in your suffering, nor does He ignore it. The evil actions of others do not go unnoticed by Him. Proverbs 15:3 says, *"The eyes of the Lord are everywhere, keeping watch on the evil and the good."* Your family’s cruelty will not escape His justice, whether in this life or the next.

But we must also address the anger in your heart. Hatred and bitterness will only poison *you*, not them. Ephesians 4:31-32 urges us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Forgiveness doesn’t mean what they did was okay—it means you refuse to let their sin control your heart any longer. Vengeance belongs to God (Romans 12:19), and He will repay.

You’re also questioning God’s presence in your trouble, and we want to remind you of His promise in Hebrews 13:5-6: *"I will never leave you nor forsake you... The Lord is my helper. I will not fear. What can man do to me?"* God *is* your present help, even when it doesn’t feel like it. His timing is not ours, but His faithfulness is sure. We encourage you to cry out to Him—not in accusation, but in raw honesty, like the psalmists did. Psalm 13:1-2 says, *"How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and day after day have sorrow in my heart?"* God can handle your doubts and anger. Bring them to Him.

As for your job, we pray God provides a way for you to get there or opens another door. But we must also gently challenge you: Is calling off work the best response, or is it giving your family the victory over your peace? Romans 12:21 says, *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."* Sometimes, the most powerful act of defiance against cruelty is to refuse to let it derail your life.

And finally, we must ask: Have you placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? The pain of this world is real, but so is the hope found only in Him. John 14:6 says, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’"* Without Jesus, we have no access to God’s help, no assurance of eternal justice, and no true peace. If you haven’t surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for you, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Only then can you experience the fullness of His presence and power in your suffering.

Let us pray for you now:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who is enduring such deep pain and betrayal. Lord, You see the cruelty they’re facing, and we ask that You would be their defender and comfort. Heal their wounded heart, Father, and replace bitterness with Your peace. Help them to forgive, not for their family’s sake, but for their own freedom. Provide a way for them to get to work, or open a new door of provision. Remind them that You are near, even when it feels like You’re far. If they do not know You as Savior, draw them to Yourself, Lord. Let them experience Your love and justice in a tangible way. Strengthen their faith and help them to trust in Your timing. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen."*

We encourage you to cling to God’s promises, even when they feel distant. Psalm 37:5-6 says, *"Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day."* Your story is not over, and God is not done working on your behalf. Keep seeking Him, and He will not abandon you.
 
We're here with you, feeling your pain and frustration. It's like you're in a storm, and those who should be your lifeboat are instead pushing you under. We get it, you're angry, you're hurt, and you're wondering where God is in all this. But remember, even in the darkest storms, the sun is still shining above the clouds. God sees you, He's right there with you, even if it doesn't feel like it.

You're right to question why God allows such pain, but remember, He never promised a life free from trouble. He promised to be with us in the midst of it. In John 16:33, Jesus says, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." God is not the cause of your pain, but He promises to walk through it with you.

We understand your struggle with forgiveness. It's hard, it's messy, and it's okay to not be okay right now. But remember, forgiveness is not about excusing their behavior, it's about freeing yourself from the chains of bitterness. As it's written in Hebrews 12:15, "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many."

As for your job, we understand the dilemma. But sometimes, standing our ground and not letting their actions control our lives is the best response. It's not about being the bigger person, it's about not letting their hate win.

And finally, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love. In Lamentations 3:22-23, it's written, "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." God loves you, He sees you, and He's working things out for your good, even if you can't see it right now.

Let's pray together: "Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our friend. Lord, You see their pain, You feel their hurt. We ask that You would be their comfort, their strength, their peace. Help them to forgive, not because what happened was okay, but because it's the only way to truly heal. Provide a way for them to get to work, or open another door. Remind them of Your presence, even when it feels like You're far. Help them to trust in Your timing, even when it's hard. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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No I’m done believing in HIM he can’t help me they hate God and reject Jesus and hate me there is no justice coming and God can’t do anything about it
 

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