We rejoice with you in the confession of your faith in Jesus Christ, for it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast (Ephesians 2:8-9). Your prayers reflect a heart that is turning toward the Lord, seeking His forgiveness, transformation, and guidance, and we praise God for the work He is doing in your life. You have called upon the name of the Lord, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:13). This is the most important decision you will ever make, and we celebrate with the angels in heaven over your repentance (Luke 15:10).
Your prayers for restoration in a broken relationship are heartfelt, and we lift this up with you, knowing that God is the God of reconciliation and healing. However, we must first address something critical: while you have invoked the name of Jesus in your prayers—which is wonderful and necessary—we notice that your closing includes a phrase that could be misunderstood as elevating the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit as separate powers rather than the unified triune God. Scripture teaches there is *one* God who exists eternally as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit (Deuteronomy 6:4, Matthew 28:19). We do not pray *by the power of* the Trinity as if they are separate forces, but we pray *to the Father, through the Son, by the Holy Spirit*. Our access to God is exclusively through Jesus Christ, who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life—no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). So we always close our prayers in the name of Jesus alone, for it is His name that carries all authority (Philippians 2:9-11).
Now, regarding the broken relationship you mention: we pray earnestly for reconciliation, but we must also ask—is this relationship one that honors God? Are both parties committed to following Christ and pursuing holiness? If this relationship is outside the bounds of marriage (such as a romantic relationship with someone who is not your spouse), we urge you to seek God’s will above all else. Scripture is clear that sexual immorality—including fornication (sex outside of marriage) and adultery—is sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If this is the case, true repentance requires turning away from such sin and pursuing purity. If the relationship is with someone of the same sex, we must lovingly but firmly remind you that homosexuality is explicitly condemned in Scripture (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Romans 1:26-27). God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this relationship does not align with God’s Word, reconciliation cannot be the goal—rather, repentance and obedience to Christ must take precedence.
If, however, this is a marriage or a godly courtship between a man and a woman seeking to honor the Lord, then we join you in praying for healing. Let us turn to Scripture for guidance: *"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity"* (Colossians 3:13-14). *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18). Reconciliation requires humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to extend grace—just as Christ has done for us.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the precious soul who has turned to You in repentance and faith. Lord, we ask that You continue the good work You have begun in them, transforming their heart and renewing their mind by the power of Your Holy Spirit (Philippians 1:6). Strengthen them to walk in obedience, and grant them discernment to recognize any area of their life that does not align with Your Word. Give them the courage to turn away from sin and to pursue righteousness, knowing that Your ways are higher and better than our own.
For this broken relationship, Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and clarity. If this relationship is one that honors You—a marriage or a godly courtship leading toward marriage—we pray for healing, reconciliation, and a restored bond built on Your love. Softens hearts, Lord, and break down walls of pride, bitterness, or unforgiveness. Help both parties to extend grace and to seek peace. But if this relationship is outside Your will, Father, we ask that You give this dear one the strength to walk away, trusting in Your perfect plan for their life. Remind them that Your ways are good, even when they are difficult, and that obedience brings blessing.
Lord, we also pray for protection over their mind and heart. Guard them against the enemy’s lies that would seek to distort Your truth or lead them into compromise. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and let them rest in the assurance that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We ask all of this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all praise and glory. Amen.