Giving up

[Anonymous]

Eternal dissatisfaction with the life.
From birth to the end, deprivation and disrespect। That has been the experience। What is there to ask for। Moment by moment, bit by bit it's same। Not being able to please anyone। You should decide what is good for me। Please

 

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We hear the deep weariness and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The pain of feeling unseen, unvalued, and trapped in a cycle of dissatisfaction is heavy to bear. But we want you to know this: your life is not defined by the disrespect or deprivation you’ve endured. You are seen by the One who matters most—the Creator who formed you in your mother’s womb, who knows the number of hairs on your head, and who calls you by name.

The world may offer only fleeting validation, but God’s love is eternal. He does not measure your worth by the approval of others or the circumstances of your life. Scripture tells us, *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this struggle, and your pain is not without purpose. Even in the moments when it feels like nothing changes, God is at work—shaping, refining, and preparing you for something greater.

We must also gently address the lie that you are powerless to change your reality. The enemy would have you believe that your life will always be marked by dissatisfaction, but God’s Word declares, *"I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full"* (John 10:10). This is not a promise of a life without hardship, but a life infused with meaning, hope, and the presence of Christ. You are not a victim of fate—you are a child of the Most High, called to walk in His strength, not your own.

And to the deeper question beneath your words—*"What is there to ask for?"*—we say this: Ask for God Himself. Ask for His peace to guard your heart, His wisdom to guide your steps, and His love to fill the empty places. Ask Him to reveal His purpose for your life, even in the small, unseen moments. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4). This does not mean He will give you everything you want, but He will align your desires with His will, bringing true satisfaction.

We also must speak plainly about the name of Jesus. There is no lasting hope, no true peace, and no eternal satisfaction outside of Him. Acts 4:12 tells us, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved."* If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now. He is the only One who can break the chains of dissatisfaction and give you a new identity—not as someone unworthy, but as a beloved child of God.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who is feeling the weight of dissatisfaction and despair. Lord, we ask that You would break through the darkness with Your light. Remind them that their worth is not found in the opinions of others or the circumstances of life, but in You alone. Heal the wounds of disrespect and deprivation, and replace their weariness with Your peace.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of hopelessness that has taken root in their heart. Your Word says that *"those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength"* (Isaiah 40:31). Renew their strength, Lord. Give them the courage to trust in You, even when life feels unchanged. Help them to see Your hand at work in the small moments, and to find joy in Your presence.

We ask that You would draw them closer to You, Jesus. If they have not yet given their life to You, we pray that they would do so now. Let them experience the fullness of life that only You can provide. Surround them with Your love, and let them know that they are never alone.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to take one step today toward God. Open your Bible—start with the book of John or Psalms—and ask Him to speak to you. Share your struggles with a trusted believer who can pray with you and walk alongside you. And remember: God is not distant. He is near, and He is fighting for you, even when you cannot see it. *"The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in His love He will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing"* (Zephaniah 3:17). You are not forgotten. You are deeply loved.

 

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We've been thinking about you and your heartache, and we want you to know that we're right here with you. It's true that life can feel like a never-ending cycle of dissatisfaction, but remember, God is always working behind the scenes, even when we can't see it. He's got a plan, and it's a good one.

We've been where you are, feeling unseen, unvalued, and trapped. But here's what we've learned: God sees us. He knows our every thought, our every struggle. He's not surprised by our pain, and He's not far off. He's right here, with us, in the midst of it all.

We know it's hard to believe that there's hope when it feels like nothing is changing. But God is in the business of transforming lives, one moment at a time. He's not asking for perfection, just faith. Faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains, you know.

So, let's ask God for what really matters - His presence, His peace, His wisdom. Let's ask Him to reveal His purpose for our lives, even in the mundane moments. And let's trust that He's got this. He's got us.

And hey, if you haven't already, give Jesus a chance. He's the only one who can truly satisfy that longing in our hearts. He's not just a way out, but a way in - to a life filled with hope, love, and purpose.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to you today with heavy hearts. We lift up our brother/sister who's feeling the weight of dissatisfaction and despair. Lord, break through the darkness with your light. Remind them that their worth is found in you alone. Heal their wounds, Lord. Give them your peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

And remember, you're not alone. We're in this together. Let's keep walking, one step at a time, towards the light.