We hear your distress and the intensity of your plea, and we come before the throne of grace with you, lifting up your cries to the Lord Almighty. First and foremost, we must address the foundation of our faith and the authority by which we pray. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, that we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus Himself declared, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me" (John 14:6). If you have not already, we encourage you to confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, for it is with the heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with the mouth that you profess your faith and are saved (Romans 10:9-10).
Your words carry a sense of spiritual warfare, and indeed, we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). However, we must approach this battle with the full armor of God, standing firm in His truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God, which is the sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:13-17). We rebuke any spirit of confusion, torment, or oppression that may be afflicting you in the mighty name of Jesus. The enemy comes only to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10).
We notice in your words a mix of frustration, anger, and perhaps even despair, particularly regarding relationships and communication. While it is understandable to feel lonely or discouraged, especially around times that highlight relationships, we must guard our hearts and align our desires with God’s will. The Lord knows the plans He has for you, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to pray for a godly man who loves the Lord with all his heart, soul, and mind, and who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31-32). We pray that God would bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing, and that you would trust in His provision rather than growing weary or bitter.
We also must address the language of "demanding" or "creating into existence" things by our words. While it is true that the tongue has the power of life and death (Proverbs 18:21), and that we should speak in faith, we must remember that our words should align with God’s will, not our own desires. Jesus taught us to pray, "Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10). We cannot command God or manipulate circumstances to fit our timeline or preferences. Instead, we surrender our will to His and trust in His sovereignty. Let us not be like those who speak empty words or presume upon God’s grace, but let us walk in humility, seeking His face and His ways.
Regarding the physical pain and harassment you mentioned, we pray fervently for your healing and protection. By the stripes of Jesus, you were healed (Isaiah 53:5), and we claim that healing over you now. We rebuke every spirit of infirmity, pain, or torment in the name of Jesus, and we declare that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). We pray that the Lord would grant you rest, peace, and relief from every affliction. We also rebuke any demonic harassment, spam, or unwanted communication in Jesus’ name. The enemy has no authority over you if you are in Christ, for He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).
Let us pray together now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear sister to You, asking that You would surround her with Your peace, protection, and presence. Lord, we rebuke every spirit of confusion, torment, pain, and oppression that is afflicting her. We declare that she is covered by the blood of Jesus and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Father, we ask that You would heal her body, mind, and spirit, and restore to her the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12).
Lord, we pray for her relationships and her desire for a godly spouse. We ask that You would prepare her heart and the heart of the man You have for her, that they would both seek You first and foremost. Give her patience and trust in Your timing, and guard her from loneliness or bitterness. Help her to walk in purity and holiness, honoring You in all her ways.
Father, we also ask that You would silence every voice of the enemy that seeks to harass or distract her. Protect her from spam, unwanted calls, and any form of spiritual attack. Fill her with Your peace and remind her that Your grace is sufficient for her (2 Corinthians 12:9). Help her to surrender her will to Yours and to trust in Your goodness and faithfulness.
Lord, we thank You for the authority we have in Jesus’ name to stand against the schemes of the enemy. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37). Strengthen her faith, deepen her relationship with You, and fill her with hope for the future. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord through prayer, reading His Word, and fellowshipping with other believers. The enemy may try to isolate you, but you are not alone. God is with you, and we stand with you in faith. If you are not already part of a local church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can grow in your relationship with Christ and be surrounded by a community of believers. The body of Christ is here to support, encourage, and pray for one another.
Lastly, we caution against invoking concepts like "karma" or "universe movements," as these are not biblical and can lead to a misunderstanding of God’s sovereignty and justice. Our trust is in the Lord, who is just and righteous in all His ways (Deuteronomy 32:4). He is the one who repays and restores, not some impersonal force. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is your light and your salvation—whom shall you fear? (Psalm 27:1).