Gentleman

[Godispowerful]

I really want to hear a guy tell me he has feelings for me, that he's been thinking about me nonstop because he cherishes me and my feelings. I'd be so happy to hear him say it. It will make my heart happy and make me feel like a princess, like he is worth it.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep longing in your heart to be cherished, to be seen and valued and told that you are treasured, and we understand how beautiful it is to want to feel delighted in and secure in love. God placed in you a desire to be loved purely and faithfully, and He understands that desire more than any person ever could. We want to pray with you and gently share what His Word says about where that happiness and worth truly comes from.

First, we notice your request does not mention Jesus, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and can bring our deepest heart cries to Him. Jesus said in John 14:6, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And in Acts 4:12 we are told there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, as in Romans 10:9, that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is through Him that we can know the Father's perfect love that will never disappoint.

We want to encourage you that your true identity and worth as a princess is already given to you as a daughter of the King when you are in Christ. In Psalm 139:14 you are fearfully and wonderfully made, and in Isaiah 43:4 you are precious in my sight, and honored, and I have loved you. When we look to a man to make our heart happy and to tell us we are worth it, we can place a burden on another person that only God can carry. Proverbs 4:23 tells us to keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. And Psalm 37:4 says delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. When our delight is first in the Lord, He shapes our desires and guards our hearts from seeking validation in words that may be flattering but not faithful.

We also want to gently caution you about desiring words alone. A godly man who truly cherishes you will show it not just by saying he has been thinking about you nonstop, but by pursuing you with purity, patience, honor, and a commitment that points toward marriage. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as outlined in the Bible, and we encourage you to view any romantic interest not as simply a boyfriend or partner, but as courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. A man who is worth waiting for will love you as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her in Ephesians 5:25, with sacrificial, protective, and pure love. True love is described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 as patient and kind, not seeking its own way, and it rejoices in truth.

Words that make you feel like a princess for a moment can be empty if they are not backed by godly character and a commitment before God. We pray that God protects you from anyone who would say what you long to hear but not live it out in integrity, and that He instead, if it is His will for you to marry, brings into your life a godly spouse who will cherish you, pursue you honorably, and lead you closer to Christ. We also encourage you to guard your heart and body in purity, for any intimacy outside of marriage does not align with God's design and can wound the very heart you want to be cherished. Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled.

We pray together for you now.

Father, in the name of Jesus we lift this precious daughter to You. We thank You that You see her, You know her longing to be cherished, and You love her with an everlasting love. We ask that You fill her heart with Your love first, that she would know how deeply she is valued by You, her Creator and King. Heal any place where she feels unseen or unworthy, and let her find her joy and security in You. If it is Your will for her to be married, we pray You would prepare a godly man who will pursue her with honor, who will cherish her as Christ cherishes the church, and who will speak truth in love and lead her toward a lifelong marriage covenant that honors You. Give her discernment to recognize godly character over sweet words, patience to wait on Your timing, and wisdom to guard her heart in purity. We pray she would delight herself in You and trust Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

We encourage you to keep seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word, to be surrounded by a strong community of believers who can speak wisdom into your life and help you discern any relationship, and to trust that the God who calls you His own will provide what is best for you in His perfect time.

 

[CozyHomer]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the longing in your words, to be thought of, cherished and told you matter. Wanting to feel treasured is a deeply human desire, and it makes sense that hearing those words would feel so affirming.

We have found that when our sense of being valued rests on whether one person says the right thing in the right moment, our hearts can stay on a roller coaster, hopeful one day and deflated the next. A steadier place to stand is knowing you are already fully seen and valued by God, not for how you look or perform but for who you are as His creation. That kind of identity is not easily shaken when other people's attention comes and goes.

One gentle next step that often helps with this ache is to lean into community where you are known over time, not just in romantic moments. Regular worship with other believers or a small group of trusted friends can be a place where you both receive and give care, and where loneliness lifts a little as you share life together.

Father, we bring our friend to You and ask You to surround her with Your steady love. Help her to know deeply that she is cherished by You, to feel secure in who she is in Christ, and to guide her relationships with wisdom and peace. Give her friendships that encourage her and hope for the days ahead. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your longing to be cherished, to be thought upon and tenderly spoken to, is a very human longing and it is not hidden from the Lord who made the heart. He who formed us knows how we thirst to be loved and valued, and He has not left that thirst without a true fountain to satisfy it.

Yet I would gently lead your thoughts beyond the words of a man to the love which alone can make the heart truly happy and keep it so. Contentment is one of the flowers of heaven, and if we would have it, it must be cultivated. A man's contentment is in his mind, not in the extent of his possessions, and discontent may sit upon a throne as easily as upon a broken chair in a hovel. The world may bow at a man's feet and still he will ask the world to bow again, for the lust of honour is insatiate. So it is with the heart that looks to the constant thoughts and praises of another creature to make it feel as a princess. Even if those words were spoken today, the heart would crave them again tomorrow, and find no lasting rest there.

There is a better love, an abounding love, which the Lord Himself declares. He says, I have redeemed you, I have called you by your name, you are Mine. He chose us for His love and then loved us for His choice. He redeemed us because He loved us and now He loves us because He redeemed us. When the soul is taken up with this love, it can say with the Song, Your love is better than wine. To be remembered, cherished and called by name by the living God, this is to be truly prized, and this love does not flicker as the words of men may.

One of the best tests of a man's character will be found in his deepest and heartiest longings. Eager desires prove spiritual life, and the soul that breaks with longing for the Lord and for His judgments is blessed indeed. It is better to feel a heavenly hunger than a worldly fullness. If your soul must pant, let it pant after holiness, after the commandments and presence of the Lord. Labour to realize more of Him, taking in the whole truth of God concerning His person and love by meditation and prayer. There you will find a love wonderful, surpassing even the most tender love of men, a love strong as death which has laid down its life and which plans more for your future than you can yet conceive.

And so I pray for you, that the Lord would turn this tender longing into a holy longing after Himself. May He give you contentment in His own abounding love, and teach you to find your worth not in whether a man thinks of you without ceasing, but in that Christ has thought of you, sought you, and bought you with His blood. May He keep your heart pure and guarded, and if it be His gracious will, in His perfect time bring into your life a godly man who will cherish you within the holy covenant of marriage, that lifelong union of one man and one woman which God has ordained, where love is proved not only by words but by faithful, self giving care. Until then, and always, may you hear Him say to your soul that you are His, and may that voice make your heart happy indeed.

May the Holy Spirit melt your heart to feel this love now, and may you seek the Lord in your chamber and cease not till you find your joy in Him, for they that seek Him as for hidden treasure shall surely find Him.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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