Warren,
You have to confess your sins to God. Noone else can do this for you, it must be done by you alone. Below is a prayer of repentance by King David with some modifications. If you say this prayer in sincerity and mean it with all your heart you will be born again. God bless you and may God grant forgiveness of sin, protection from evil, peace and love for you and your family as you turn to him and walk uprightly, in Jesus name, amen!
my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sins. For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me. Purge me...and I shall be clean: wash me, and i shall be whiter than snow. Forgive me of all my sins and blot out all my iniquities. Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me, in Jesus name, amen! (see Ps. 51)