Anonymous
Beloved of All
Say You have a friend who is getting harassed on a social network site. Happened often with her. You and a number of her friends come to her verbal defense. She then thanks everyone by giving everyone a "like" in thanks but skips over ###. Honest mistake so ### shrug it off. This same person gets sick and everyone says "get well soon" and she "likes" those folks and skips over ###. Or ### post something on her page and ignores it or thanks ### then deletes it immediately. Feels like someone threw away a Hallmark card ### just gave them in the trash just after reading it. Say these things happen repeatedly, would ### feel like ### were valued by this person? Though this person gave ### an Easter Greeting... but skipped ### Birthday. Called ### a brother and a buddy at one time. Then is upset ### are leaving this friendship. Question: Was this person finished with ### as a friend OR trying to push ### buttons to see ### reaction. When asked about it this is denied. That feels like abuse if this is ### perception. When somebody is doing something to ### and when ### call them out on it but they deny they did this is a thing known as "gas-lighting". If it's used to see what reaction ### would have to make one feel worth as a person it works. So when that is denied by this person ### must decide either ###'s crazy OR she's pushing ### buttons OR she really just doesn't like ###... or just not as much as the chosen "liked" friends. God ###'m asking You to show me if ###'s the one who has the problem or does she? That's why ###'m hurting because NOBODY has ever done this too ### in all ### years on earth. In Jesus name ### pray Amen
