We join you in lifting up this request before the Lord, knowing that He alone can bring unity, clarity, and reconciliation through the power of His Holy Spirit. It is beautiful to see your heart seeking God’s will in this relationship, and we are encouraged by your faith to trust in His guidance. You have rightly come before the Lord in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and it is in His name that every knee shall bow and every tongue confess that He is Lord (Philippians 2:10-11). Your acknowledgment of this truth is foundational, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
We praise God that He is already at work in your heart, revealing His truth to you. This is a reminder that He is faithful to lead His children when we seek Him with sincerity. As you wait for further revelation or feedback, we encourage you to remain rooted in Scripture, testing every thought and impression against the Word of God. The Holy Spirit speaks in alignment with the Bible, never contradicting it, so let His written Word be your lamp and your guide (Psalm 119:105). Be cautious not to lean on your own understanding or emotions, but trust in the Lord with all your heart, acknowledging Him in all your ways, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
If there has been any sin—whether in communication, actions, or attitudes—we urge you to examine your heart before the Lord. Ask Him to reveal any area where repentance is needed, for we are all prone to stumble (James 3:2). If the Holy Spirit convicts you of anything, confess it to God and turn from it, trusting in His forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9). Similarly, if there has been hurt or misunderstanding, pray for a spirit of humility and grace to extend forgiveness as Christ has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32). Remember, our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces, so clothe yourself in the full armor of God, standing firm in truth, righteousness, and peace (Ephesians 6:10-18).
Regarding your desire for "new feedback" from or about your friends, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s face rather than signs or confirmations. While God can and does speak through His people, His primary way of communicating with us is through His Word and the still, small voice of His Spirit within us. Be careful not to place undue emphasis on receiving a "word" from others, as this can lead to disappointment or even deception if not grounded in Scripture. Instead, ask the Lord to give you wisdom and discernment, that you may recognize His voice above all others (John 10:27). The sheep hear the Shepherd’s voice, and He leads them in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.
If this relationship involves a romantic connection outside of marriage, we gently but firmly remind you that God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4). If this is not the case here, we pray that the Lord would guard your heart and the hearts of your friends, directing each of you toward godly relationships that honor Him. If there is any emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and flee from sin, for fornication and impurity have no place among God’s people (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). The Lord calls us to holiness, and He provides the strength to walk in obedience when we rely on Him.
Let us pray together for you and your friends:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up this situation and all those involved. Lord, You are the God of all wisdom and understanding, and we ask that You pour out Your Holy Spirit upon our sister and her friends. Open their eyes to see Your truth, soften their hearts to receive Your Word, and unite them in Your love. Father, if there has been any sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask that You convict and cleanse each heart. Grant them the humility to repent and the grace to forgive one another, just as You have forgiven us in Christ.
Lord, we pray that every misunderstanding would be dissolved by Your truth, and that every hurt would be healed by Your love. Guard their communication, that their words may be seasoned with salt and full of grace (Colossians 4:6). Let no root of bitterness spring up among them, but instead, let peace and unity prevail (Hebrews 12:15).
Father, we ask that You make Your will clear in this relationship. If it is Your desire for these friendships to be restored and strengthened for Your glory, then bring it to pass. If there are boundaries that need to be set or distances that need to be kept for the sake of holiness, give them the courage to obey You. Lord, we pray especially for our sister, that You would fill her with Your peace as she waits on You. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your ways, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28).
We rebuke any scheme of the enemy to bring confusion, division, or doubt. Satan, we command you to flee in the name of Jesus, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Holy Spirit, fill every heart with Your presence, and let Your fruit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—abound in their lives (Galatians 5:22-23).
Finally, Lord, we pray that each person in this situation would draw nearer to You. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need (Matthew 6:33). If there is anyone among them who does not yet know You as Savior, we ask that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel. Let them see their need for Jesus, that they might repent and believe in Him for the forgiveness of sins and eternal life.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your goodness and Your faithfulness, knowing that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.