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Dhitlor

Good and Faithful Servant
My family has a friend who we often help with whatever they need. We want to visit this person today as they have been sick and they are asking if we can bring them something they need but we have no money to. I don't know what to tell them. Please pray about all this. Thank you.
 
We have heard your heart in this and we understand the weight you are carrying wanting to care for your sick friend while also facing your own lack of resources at this moment. It is a beautiful thing that your family so faithfully helps this friend with whatever they need, and the Lord sees that generosity and love. We want to encourage you that your desire to visit and to help is itself pleasing to God, even when you have no money to bring what is being asked for.

We encourage you to speak the truth in love with this friend as Ephesians 4:15 teaches. It is far better to be honest and gentle than to make a promise you cannot keep or to avoid them out of shame. You can simply let them know that you love them, you long to see them and pray for them in person, but at this moment you do not have the funds to provide what they have requested. The Lord honors an honest and willing heart, for 2 Corinthians 8:12 reminds us that if the readiness is there, it is acceptable according to what a person has, not according to what he does not have. Your presence, your prayer, your company and your care are themselves a great gift. Jesus said in Matthew 25:40 that whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me. And Proverbs 19:17 tells us he who has pity on the poor lends to Yahweh, and he will repay him. God is not measuring the cost of what you bring but the love with which you come.

If you do visit, consider what you can offer without money, perhaps a listening ear, help with a small chore, reading scripture together, or simply praying at their bedside. We also trust God to provide for both your family and your friend, for Philippians 4:19 assures us that our God will supply every need of ours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. You can also ask God for wisdom in what to say, as James 1:5 promises that if any of us lacks wisdom, we should ask of God who gives to all liberally and without reproach and it will be given to him.

We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently share why His name is so essential. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we are saved. Jesus said in John 14:6 I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 declares there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We encourage you to come to God in Jesus name, believing that He died for our sins and rose again, for Romans 10:9 says that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is through Jesus that our prayers are heard and our needs are met.

We pray together for you now.

Father, we lift up this family and their dear sick friend to You in the name of Jesus. Lord, You know the love they have shown and the desire they have to help, and You also know their present financial need. We ask You to provide for this family and for their friend according to Your perfect will, and to bring healing and comfort to the one who is sick. Give this family the right words to speak in love and grace, that their friend would feel honored and not disappointed, and that their visit would be a source of encouragement and peace. Fill their home with Your provision and their friendship with Your presence, and draw each of them closer to Jesus. We thank You that You care for every detail of our lives and that You hear us when we pray in the name of Your Son. In Jesus name we pray, amen.
 
We hear how much you care for this friend, and how torn you feel wanting to visit while they are sick but not having the money to bring what they asked for. That is a hard place to be, and it makes sense you wouldn't know what to say.

Your presence itself is a real gift. When someone is ill, feeling remembered and not alone often matters as much as anything brought to the door. Being honest beforehand can take pressure off both of you.

A simple, kind next step could be to reach out before you go and let them know where things stand. Something like, we would love to come see you today, we don't have funds to bring what you need right now but we still want to be with you, would a short visit and prayer together be welcome. If you are able, you could offer what you do have to give, like sitting with them a while, listening, praying together, or helping with a small task while you are there.

We are praying for you and for your friend today, and for wisdom as you stay connected.

Father, we lift this dear friend who is sick to You and ask for Your comfort and healing presence with them. We lift this family who wants to help and ask You to give them words that are honest and loving, and to provide for what is needed in Your way. Give peace to both homes today. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
The Lord has laid upon your heart a tender care for this sick friend, and He has seen both your willingness and your want. It is no small grace to desire to help and to be grieved when the means are not in your hand.

There is a Friend that sticketh closer than a brother, and He loves at all times. He loved before there was any time, and He loves still when our pockets are empty and our hearts are heavy. You have found Him, I trust, to be your own Friend, and your father's Friend, whom you will not forsake, and who will never forsake you. He is the poor man's Friend, the King who from the river to the ends of the earth undertakes the cause of the helpless. When the poor committeth himself unto Him, He is the helper of the fatherless and the needy. Estimate your true wealth before God not by what you have stored up, but by your entire dependence upon Him.

You ask what you shall say to this afflicted one. Speak the truth in love, plainly and gently. Let them know that you count it a joy to visit them, that you have prayed for them, and that though you have no money to bring what they have asked, you have a willing heart to come and to sit by their bed and to do what love can do without cost. He it is that maketh the pillow and softeneth the bed of affliction, and often the presence of a faithful friend, a word of Scripture, a prayer offered at the bedside, is more healing than any gift of the hand. Do not be ashamed to say, we have nothing to give as we would wish, but such as we have we give. The Lord who fed multitudes with a few loaves knows how to multiply our little.

Be encouraged that your desire to do good is itself seen of God, and He who sees the sick one in his weakness will provide according to His wisdom. Go and be a friend indeed, for a friend loves at all times, and in adversity a brother is born.

Let us pray together. O Thou great King who art the poor man's Friend, Thou knowest this sick one and this family that would minister in Thy name. Look upon the affliction and lay Thy healing hand upon the sufferer if it be Thy will, and make the sick bed soft by Thy presence. Look upon Thy servants who have love without money, and supply their need as Thou seest fit, and give them grace to speak honestly and lovingly, and to trust Thee for all provision. Keep them from discouragement and teach them to find their riches in Christ, who gave His heart's blood and let His soul run out for sinners, that poor sin sick souls might be made whole. Hear the cry of those who call upon the Son of David for mercy, and let Thy name be praised in the house of sorrow as well as in the house of joy. In the name of Jesus our unrivalled Friend we ask it. Amen.
 

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