My mother and I befriended a man in need and we have been building a relationship with him for a while. He seems trustworthy and seems to be a believer. We want to take him out to dinner for the holidays but I'm unsure if this is a wise decision or not especially financially. Please pray that God will give us wisdom and if we shouldn't take him out (which we will be doing in our own car hopefully with my dad) for any reason, please pray that God will stop us. Thank you.
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It is wonderful that you and your mother have reached out to this man in need and have been building a relationship with him, especially as believers. The Bible calls us to show hospitality and love to others, particularly to those in the household of faith. Galatians 6:10 reminds us, *"So then, as we have opportunity, let’s do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of the faith."* Your desire to bless him with a meal during the holidays reflects the heart of Christ, who often shared meals with those He ministered to.
However, wisdom and discernment are crucial in all our actions. Proverbs 3:5-6 instructs us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Finances are a stewardship from God, and we must seek His guidance to ensure we are using them in a way that honors Him. If there is any hesitation in your spirit, it is wise to pause and pray for clarity. The Lord will either confirm your plans or redirect you if there is a reason this should not move forward.
We also encourage you to consider the dynamics of this outing. Since you mentioned your father may join, this is good—it provides accountability and wisdom in the interaction. First Thessalonians 5:22 reminds us to *"abstain from every form of evil,"* and having wisdom in how we engage with others, even in acts of kindness, is important. If this man is truly a believer, he will understand and respect boundaries that honor God.
One thing we must gently address is the absence of invoking the name of Jesus in your request. Scripture is clear that our access to God is only through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. John 14:6 declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me,'"* and Acts 4:12 confirms, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* When we pray, we come before the Father in the name of Jesus, for it is by His authority and sacrifice that we have this privilege. If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior, we urge you to do so, for He alone can forgive your sins and grant you eternal life.
Let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this family to You, thanking You for their hearts of compassion and generosity toward this man in need. Lord, we ask that You grant them wisdom and discernment as they consider taking him out for a meal. If this is Your will, confirm it in their spirits and provide for them financially so that they may bless him without burden. But if there is any reason this should not happen—whether for his well-being, theirs, or any unseen circumstance—we pray that You would clearly close the door and redirect their steps. Protect them from any harm, deception, or financial strain that is not of You.
We also pray for this man, Lord. If he is truly a believer, strengthen his faith and surround him with godly community. If he is not yet saved, we ask that You draw him to Yourself through this family’s kindness, that he may come to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Let every interaction between them glorify You and reflect Your love.
Father, we ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, for it is only through Him that we have access to Your throne. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.
However, wisdom and discernment are crucial in all our actions. Proverbs 3:5-6 instructs us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Finances are a stewardship from God, and we must seek His guidance to ensure we are using them in a way that honors Him. If there is any hesitation in your spirit, it is wise to pause and pray for clarity. The Lord will either confirm your plans or redirect you if there is a reason this should not move forward.
We also encourage you to consider the dynamics of this outing. Since you mentioned your father may join, this is good—it provides accountability and wisdom in the interaction. First Thessalonians 5:22 reminds us to *"abstain from every form of evil,"* and having wisdom in how we engage with others, even in acts of kindness, is important. If this man is truly a believer, he will understand and respect boundaries that honor God.
One thing we must gently address is the absence of invoking the name of Jesus in your request. Scripture is clear that our access to God is only through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. John 14:6 declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me,'"* and Acts 4:12 confirms, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* When we pray, we come before the Father in the name of Jesus, for it is by His authority and sacrifice that we have this privilege. If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior, we urge you to do so, for He alone can forgive your sins and grant you eternal life.
Let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this family to You, thanking You for their hearts of compassion and generosity toward this man in need. Lord, we ask that You grant them wisdom and discernment as they consider taking him out for a meal. If this is Your will, confirm it in their spirits and provide for them financially so that they may bless him without burden. But if there is any reason this should not happen—whether for his well-being, theirs, or any unseen circumstance—we pray that You would clearly close the door and redirect their steps. Protect them from any harm, deception, or financial strain that is not of You.
We also pray for this man, Lord. If he is truly a believer, strengthen his faith and surround him with godly community. If he is not yet saved, we ask that You draw him to Yourself through this family’s kindness, that he may come to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Let every interaction between them glorify You and reflect Your love.
Father, we ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, for it is only through Him that we have access to Your throne. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.
We're right there with you, friend. It's truly commendable how you and your mother have been reaching out to this man in need, showing him the love of Christ. We believe God has placed him on your hearts for a reason, and it's wonderful that you're considering blessing him with a meal during the holidays.
As you're praying for wisdom, remember that God promises in His Word, "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you" (James 1:5). Trust that He will guide your steps.
We're also praying for you, that God would give you peace and clarity in this decision. If it's not the right time or if there's any reason this shouldn't happen, trust that God will close the door and show you another way to bless this man.
Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, our Lord and Savior, in all this. He is the reason we can have faith and hope in these situations. We're praying for you, your mother, and this man, that God would use this relationship to draw all of you closer to Him.
As you're praying for wisdom, remember that God promises in His Word, "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you" (James 1:5). Trust that He will guide your steps.
We're also praying for you, that God would give you peace and clarity in this decision. If it's not the right time or if there's any reason this shouldn't happen, trust that God will close the door and show you another way to bless this man.
Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, our Lord and Savior, in all this. He is the reason we can have faith and hope in these situations. We're praying for you, your mother, and this man, that God would use this relationship to draw all of you closer to Him.
Isaac Samuel Lubwama
Good and Faithful Servant
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
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