Cralmilan

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Please pray that my older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. I pray tonight at this event everyone would see the disrespect, control and chaos she is living with this young man. And they will see the dark path she is living with this young man. I pray that that You will exposed this obbession to control and isolate her. Protect my younger daughter and her boyfriend from this negative influence and show my older that she needs to get out of this relationship swiftly. Expose this young man's negative manipulative, isolating and divisive behaviors to everyone tonight. Let older daughter see clearly today onward that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this toxic relationship. I declaring that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. Let her see how peaceful she will get from a beautiful courtship rather than living with this young man outside of marriage. Let her see her younger sister and her boyfriend beautiful courtship and know that God wants that for her as well. Lord let her hear You say, "You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belongs to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes to see, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother look at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today and tonight. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you in prayer together for your precious family and we hear the deep ache and burden you carry for your older daughter. We stand with you in asking our Heavenly Father for freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and we praise God that you have brought this before Him in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12

We agree with you that what your older daughter is living in is not love and is not marriage. Scripture is very clear that living together outside of marriage is fornication and it is sin against God and against her own body. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 She is not his wife, he is not her husband, and this arrangement does not have the covenant, protection and blessing that God designed for marriage between a man and a woman. We must lovingly but firmly say that this lifestyle brings spiritual attacks, division, exhaustion and chaos because it is outside of God's will, and the enemy gains a foothold where disobedience is embraced. We also rebuke the idolatry and misplaced obedience you describe, where she is putting this young man and his mother before her faith, her God given family and her purpose. You shall have no other gods before me. Exodus 20:3 and Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Ephesians 6:1 We gently correct that no young woman belongs to a boyfriend, she belongs to the Lord, and no man has the right to exploit her finances, control her, isolate her or take authority over her life when he has not made the lifelong covenant of marriage before God.

We also see your wisdom in praying for exposure and for supernatural clarity. The Word tells us to beware of false shepherds, for such men are false apostles, deceitful workers, masquerading as apostles of Christ. 2 Corinthians 11:13 and Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. Matthew 7:15 What you describe as greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation is not love, for love is patient and is kind, love does not envy, does not brag, is not puffed up, does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 True love does not isolate and divide but builds up and protects. We pray with you that the Lord exposes every manipulative, isolating and divisive behavior to everyone, and most of all to your daughter's own eyes, so that the confusion lifts and she sees that she is being used rather than being loved and cherished as a godly wife would be.

We lift up your younger daughter and her boyfriend as well and we ask for God's protection over their courtship. We pray that their relationship remains a beautiful, pure courtship with the goal of godly marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers, honoring the Lord in purity and purpose. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity. 2 Corinthians 6:14 We pray they will be a light and example of what God intends, not in a way that shames but in a way that shows your older daughter that God wants so much more for her than exhaustion and financial hardship, He wants peace, honor and joy. We ask God to guard their hearts and keep them from this negative influence.

We pray now together for your older daughter and for your whole family.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this beloved daughter to You. Lord, You say You will never leave us nor forsake us and that we are Yours. We ask that You whisper to her spirit even now, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me and I will protect You with every ounce of My power. Lord, flood her mind with supernatural clarity and remove every veil of deception. Open her eyes to see that this relationship is taking her independence, her self worth, her peace, her purpose and her fellowship with her family. Give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely, for You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. 2 Timothy 1:7 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5 Lord, grant her that wisdom now. Make the path of escape clear and provide for her every need as she steps out in obedience, for You are our provider and protector. We pray You will guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret and that You will restore her faith, freedom, independence, self worth, peace and fellowship with her family. Heal the division, isolation, chaos and exhaustion that this ungodly living arrangement has caused. We pray that she will remember the biblical values she was raised on and that she will be transformed by the renewing of her mind, so that she may prove what is the good, well pleasing, and perfect will of God. Romans 12:2 Father, we also pray for tonight and for every gathering, let Your truth shine brightly, expose the darkness, and let no weapon formed against this family prosper. We pray for a special blessing upon this mother and her children, fill this home with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect, saturate them with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Let them dwell in the shelter of the Most High and rest in Your shadow, for You are our refuge and fortress. Psalm 91:1-2 We declare that You will restore what the enemy has tried to steal and that whom the Son sets free is free indeed. So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in love and truth. Keep speaking the truth in love, keep your door and your heart open, keep praying without ceasing and keep setting godly boundaries. Do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season you will reap if you do not give up. Galatians 6:9 Trust that God is working even when you cannot see it, for we know that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness. Ephesians 6:12 Therefore keep putting on the armor of God, praying with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit. The Lord hears the cry of the righteous and delivers them out of all their troubles. Psalm 34:17 We trust with you that He will bring your daughter out of this dark path into His marvelous light, into freedom and into a future courtship that honors Him and leads to a godly marriage if it is His will. We remain with you in prayer for complete restoration and peace in Jesus' name, Amen.
 
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We hear how much you love both of your daughters and how heavy this season has felt for you. You have been carrying worry for your older daughter's safety and peace, while also wanting to protect your younger daughter and her relationship, and to keep your whole family close. It is understandable to feel exhausted and torn when you see control, isolation and financial strain affecting someone you love.

One thing that often helps in a situation like this is remembering what healthy boundaries look like. A boundary is simply like a property line that helps a person know what is hers to carry, her values, choices, time, energy and faith, and where she can freely say yes and no. When that line has been worn down, it takes time and steady support to rebuild it. You cannot make those choices for her, but you can keep being a safe, steady place where she knows she is valued and can come home without shame or pressure.

A gentle next step could be to talk with a trusted pastor or counselor yourself about how to stay connected and supportive while also keeping your own peace and your family safe, and to make a simple plan for how she could reach you quickly if she ever needs help.

Father, we bring this mother and both of her daughters to You. We ask You to surround them with Your protection, to give this mother wisdom and rest, and to give her older daughter clarity, courage and a deep sense of being Yours and deeply loved. Guard their family unity, restore peace and fellowship, and guide each step ahead in Your care. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
Am glad to pray for you and happy to see you posting. Its well you are praying believing and hoping innthe Lord. May Father God watch over you. Bless your work. Your house. Your family. And give you peace of mind and steady you. Only set some time aside each day to sit still. Meditate and reflect on scriptures. Pray for others and dedicate time to the Lord. May God bless. In Lord Yeshuas name. Amen.
 
Your prayer has been heard and we join with you before the throne of grace in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, asking for freedom, protection, restoration and healing for your household.

We agree with you according to the Scriptures that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and that the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman is the holy place appointed by God for that union. What God calls purity we must not call otherwise, and what He calls holiness we must keep with charity. We do not ask the Lord to bless what is outside His holy will, but we ask Him to bring deliverance from it, that your older daughter may walk in the freedom with which Christ makes His people free.

We pray that the Lord who alone can bring forth His people from captivity will work by His own hand and outstretched arm. There is no remission without the shedding of blood, and there is no true freedom from sin but through trust in the atoning blood of Jesus. May He flood her mind with supernatural clarity, that she may see this entanglement for what it is, not love but use, not a shepherd but a wolf in sheep's clothing, not a home but a snare. The Lord keeps His own night and day, He neither slumbers nor sleeps, and we ask Him to keep her mind and heart and spirit, to expose all that is controlling, divisive and isolating, and to break every chain that would steal her peace, her purpose, her fellowship and her unity with her family.

We pray for that higher restoration than mere outward change. Though sin has defiled and thoughts have been troubled, the Holy Spirit can create a clean heart and renew a right spirit within. The leaves of the tree of life are for the healing of the nations, and the least thing about Christ is healing virtue to change the life blood and make the nature new. When the Sun of Righteousness rises with healing in His wings, pardon and healing come together. May the Lord say to her in power, You are Mine, and restore to her faith, self worth, independence, peace and joyful fellowship with those whom God has given her. May He gently guide her to remember the biblical values upon which she was raised, to turn from idolatry of man and to trust her family and her God who will provide, protect and restore all that the enemy has sought to take.

We also ask the Lord to set a hedge of protection about your younger daughter and her boyfriend, that their courtship may be kept pure and honourable before God, a pattern of the beautiful way the Lord intends, and that no negative influence may have dominion over them. May your whole family be saturated with the peace and favor of the Holy Spirit, kept from division and chaos, and enlarged to run in the statutes of the Lord where obedience is freedom.

We will continue to speak to the Lord for you, that He who has found a ransom may bring your daughter out of the pit and set her feet upon the Rock, and that your home may know again the quietness of those who dwell under His wings. May the Lord hear, may the Lord heal, and may He perfect that which concerns you for His glory. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
 
Father, humbly ask for Your power to intervene. Please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
 

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