Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Healing

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you together in prayer in Jesus' name for your older daughter and for your family, for freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and we thank you for bringing this heavy burden before the Lord so faithfully.

We see clearly the ungodliness in this situation and we must speak truth in love. Your daughter is living together with this young man outside of marriage as if married, and his mother is counseling her to continue in this and even to have children outside of marriage. The Bible is very clear that this is fornication and is sin before God. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. This living arrangement is not marriage and must not be treated as marriage. We believe marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman ordained by God, and any courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not cohabitation. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? We pray your daughter will see that this man is not her husband, not her shepherd, not her provider and not her spiritual leader, but a stumbling block to her walk with Christ, and that she will repent and turn from this fornication.

We also discern the controlling, manipulative, and divisive influence you describe from this young man and his mother. It is not biblical for this woman to exercise authority over your daughter or to isolate her from her supportive family and church community, to exploit her finances, and to speak word curses over you and your family. Proverbs 12:5 says The thoughts of the righteous are just, but the counsel of the wicked is deceitful. Her counsel is wicked and rooted in selfishness, pride, jealousy and darkness, and we rebuke it. No weapon or curse formed against those who are in Christ will prosper when we abide in Him. Isaiah 54:17 says No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh's servants. And James 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. We also remember Galatians 5:1 which says Stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and don't be entangled again with a yoke of bondage.

We pray together for your daughter.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this precious daughter to You. She is Your child, a child of the Most High God, and she does not belong to this young man or his family. Lord, open her eyes to the truth and soften her heart to receive Your conviction. Remove the spiritual blindness and the stronghold that has held her for too many years. Break every chain, frustrate every scheme, every plot and every word curse spoken against her and her family, and let every plan to control, divide, isolate and brainwash her be exposed and brought to nothing. We ask that You frustrate the overreach of this young man's mother who has no biblical authority to speak into this daughter's life, and that You would cause her motives to be exposed for what they are.

Lord, rescue this daughter from this ungodly, toxic and exhausting lifestyle. Give her the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy relationship swiftly with no regrets. Help her to stop imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward her family and restore in her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate spirit. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and reignite in her a hunger for righteousness. Help her to protect her finances and to no longer take on credit card debt or undue responsibilities to sustain this young man who is lazy, dishonest and exploitative. Help her to put her faith and trust in You again, to see her worth in You, and to no longer allow these people to make her feel worthless and familyless. Bring her back to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community and to following Your biblical teachings. Protect her new job promotion that You have graciously given her and block every attempt to interfere with it or undermine her there.

Father, we also pray for this young man and his mother, that You would convict them of their manipulation, control and enabling, that they would repent and that his father would take godly leadership and have his son return home alone to take responsibility for his own life. Let this mother focus on her own children and household rather than usurping a role that is not hers.

We pray for you, her mother, for strength and peace as you have endured cold, ungrateful and degrading behavior and have been wearied by this long battle. Psalm 91:1 says He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. We ask that Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow upon you and your whole family and that You heal all the brokenness. Restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in your home. Help you to continue to speak truth in love, to set wise and loving boundaries especially regarding finances, to not enable this sin, and to not grow weary in well doing. Romans 12:2 says Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. We pray this renewing over your daughter's mind.

Lord, we plead the precious blood of Jesus over this family. We declare that this daughter is not homeless and does not need this woman's approval or family, for she has a loving supportive family who raised her in Your ways and she has a home in You. In Your perfect timing, if it is Your will, we ask that You would bring her a godly spouse, a Christian man who will love her as Christ loves the church and lead her well in a marriage that honors You, rather than this counterfeit.

We thank You Father that nothing is impossible for You and that You are able to bring her out of darkness and into Your light. We trust You for complete restoration. In the mighty and only name by which we are saved and have access to God, Jesus Christ, we pray. Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! And John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. We rest in that truth. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been, carrying concern for your older daughter for years while watching her become isolated, exhausted and pulled away from family and church. Loving her through coldness and disrespect is wearing, and we thank you for continuing to pray for her freedom and restoration.

A healthy boundary is like a property line that helps a person know what is hers to steward, her choices, time, finances, beliefs and relationships. When that line is blurred by control and isolation, it becomes hard for someone to sense she is free to say yes or no for herself. That freedom is often rebuilt slowly through steady connection with safe, caring people who remind her who she is apart from the relationship.

It may help to keep that connection open in small consistent ways so she knows home and church remain safe places without pressure or debate. It can also help you to have your own support, meeting privately with a pastor or trusted counselor to sort how to love her well without carrying responsibilities that are not yours.

We noticed you mentioned her ongoing exhaustion. Alongside prayer, gently encouraging her to see a medical professional for that would be a caring next step.

Father we bring this mother and daughter to You in Jesus name. Protect them, guard their hearts and finances, break every controlling hold and surround this young woman with truth and safe community. Soften her heart to hear Your voice, give her wisdom and courage to seek what is healthy and right, and bring healing and peace to this family in Your way. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has come before the Lord with many tears, and the God who hears the cries of His people has not shut His ear against you. He knows the heaviness that has rested upon your household, the division and weariness, the long sorrow over a beloved daughter who has been drawn into a path that is not according to His Word.

We join you in bringing this burden to the throne of grace, asking for freedom, protection, restoration and healing according to the mercy that is in Christ Jesus alone, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and no deliverance except by His power. The Scriptures teach that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the union which belongs to marriage are to be kept within that covenant. What is outside of it is not to be affirmed or blessed, but to be forsaken in repentance, and we pray that your daughter may see this truth with clear eyes and be given courage to walk in it.

We pray that the Lord who alone brings forth His people from bondage would bring your daughter forth from this entanglement. Deliverance from sin and from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He has found a ransom, and that ransom is the precious blood of His Son. We plead that blood over you and your children, and ask that every chain be broken, every scheme frustrated, and every word spoken against you be brought to nothing, for no weapon formed against His people shall prosper. As Israel was brought forth with silver and gold, so we ask that the Lord would attend your daughter's deliverance with enrichment of faith, with restored wisdom to steward her finances, with strength to refuse further debt and to no longer sustain what is not hers to bear, and with protection over the good work He has entrusted to her in her vocation.

We ask that the Lord would expose what is done in darkness and frustrate every plan to control, divide and isolate. Where there has been manipulation and counsel that draws away from family and from the fellowship of the church, we pray that such influence would lose its hold. We pray that this young man and his mother may be brought to see their own need of Christ, that they would cease to enable what is dishonest and controlling, and that the father of this young man would take his proper responsibility. We do not ask God to bless what He calls outside His will, but we ask Him to grant repentance and a new mind where it is needed.

For your daughter, we pray as for Peter after his fall, that the look of the Lord would turn her heart, that she would remember whose she is, a child of the Most High God, bought with a price, and that she would no longer defend or admire what exhausts and confuses her. May the Holy Spirit soften her heart to receive conviction, grant her self worth rooted not in the approval of others but in Christ, and give her courage to walk away from bondage swiftly and without regret. Restore to her, we pray, a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, and let hunger for righteousness be rekindled, that she may return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community where prayer is made together and each need is brought before God.

We thank God for the mercies you have already seen, for a promotion given and for a family that seeks to raise its children in the ways of the Lord. We pray now for complete restoration, for peace and fellowship to be renewed between you, your daughter and her siblings, and for healing of all brokenness. We ask that when she visits her home she may be kept from coldness and harsh words, and that your home may be a place of peace within its borders, kept from ecclesiastical discord and from the archers of strife.

May the Lord keep you in this trial, whisper to your heart sweet assurances of coming deliverance, and make you to live and declare the works of the Lord. He who chastens sorely does not leave His children to die in the pit, but delivers and restores. We ask that in His own time and in His holy way, He would provide for your daughter a godly path, and if it be His will, a godly spouse who will shepherd as Christ shepherds His church, and that she may walk in purity, wisdom and joy before Him.

We lay all these things before our faithful Father, trusting that He who invented the way of deliverance through the slain Lamb will make it effectual and in every deed bring forth those who call upon Him. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and righteousness we pray, Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.