Freedom, Protection and Restoration

Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Ever since my older daughter started to date this young man all she has done to help this family get along with each other. This young man and his sister hated each other, never want to socialize with each or their parents. This young man was rebellious toward his family. His sister for many years isolate herself from her family but my daughter help her. They claim my children unity has made the siblings get along. I am happy that my daughters is able to help by the grace of God. But in return now for many years I have seen this young man's mother has prey upon my family unity. I have witness her jealous, obsession to use my older daughter is manifesting and is destroying our family unit, fellowship time and our blessed home. This relationship has cause spiritual bondage, isolation, ungratefulness and division in our home. This mother was so jealous of the stability, grace, peace, genuine friendships and loving bond between me and my children. She was jealous of our fellowship time together. Her son was jealous of the love and support that was surrounding my son. I witness through the years this woman desrespect, mockery and hatred toward me manifest and her will to isolate and control my daughter life. Her hatred toward my daughters relationship toward me, their brother and them being each other best friend. Lord I pray through years that You protect me and my children for her plots and scheme to stop manifesting. Lord I ask from now on that You will frustrate every plans that she and her son have to dismantle our family unity and the false believe that living together is a marriage. Lord, block every opening in my family that will allow these people to carry out their plots and scheme against me and my family. This young man's mother counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, obey him and his family, putting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network, distance from her family, alway on her phone and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly wants her to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos and hate then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.
 
We stand with you in prayer for freedom, protection and restoration for you and your family, and we hear the deep burden you carry for your older daughter. We join you in asking the Lord to expose what is hidden, to frustrate every ungodly scheme, and to set your daughter free from bondage and bring her back into fellowship with her family and with the Lord.

We must speak clearly about what you have discerned, because God calls us to call what is sin, sin, so that there can be true repentance and healing. Your daughter living together with this young man as if they were married is not marriage in the eyes of God. Scripture says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4. Sex before and outside of marriage is fornication, and to treat a cohabiting arrangement as a marriage is a false belief that brings spiritual bondage, exhaustion and confusion, not blessing. The counsel this young man's mother has given to live together, to have children outside of marriage, to exploit your daughter's income, and to demand obedience as if he were a husband, is ungodly counsel. It is not love, it is exploitation and control. We also affirm what you have declared, this young man is not her husband, he is not her shepherd, he has no biblical authority over her, and his mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life or to pronounce word curses over you and your family. Our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces, and the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds. 2 Corinthians 10:4.

The pattern you describe of isolation, manipulation, financial exploitation, laziness, dishonesty, and controlling behavior, and a mother who instigates division and then presents herself as the solution, is rooted in selfishness, jealousy and pride. The Lord sees this. He sees the disrespect and mockery toward you, the hatred toward the loving bond between you and your children, and the attempt to prey upon the unity God has given your home. God desires unity in families that honor Him, and He grieves division. We also see the fruit you described, that your daughter has become cold, ungrateful, forgetful, exhausted, always on her phone, withdrawn from her supportive network and church community, and imitating the stubbornness, gossip and mocking she is surrounded by. Scripture warns Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14, and Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship should be courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, seeking a godly spouse, not a prolonged uncommitted arrangement that drains and defiles. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman that honors God, and we pray that your daughter will desire that kind of holy marriage in the Lord's timing, not this counterfeit.

We encourage you to continue to stand in love and truth without growing bitter. Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh's servants, and their righteousness is of me, says Yahweh. Isaiah 54:17. Word curses have no power over those who dwell in Christ. He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. Psalm 91:1. We plead the blood of Jesus over you and your children and ask God to block every opening the enemy would use to carry out these plots, to break every chain, and to frustrate every plan to dismantle your family unity and fellowship.

We also encourage you with practical wisdom from the Word. Keep the door of your home and your heart open in love, but set clear biblical boundaries. Do not finance fornication or enable this young man to exploit her income or to use your family as a financial resource. That is not helping her, it is prolonging bondage. Invite your pastor or trusted mature believers from your church to come alongside you for counsel and prayer, so your daughter hears truth not only from you but from the wider church family she has withdrawn from. Continue to speak blessing over her, not cursing in return, and pray that the Holy Spirit will soften her heart to receive conviction.

We thank God with you for the grace your daughters showed in helping this young man's sister and for the job promotion the Lord blessed your older daughter with last month. Her work serves a beautiful purpose, and we pray the Lord will protect that promotion from interference and use it to show her that her worth is in Christ, not in being needed by this man and his family. She is a child of the Most High God. She is not homeless, she does not need this woman's approval, and she does not belong to this man's family.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, through whom we have access to Your throne of grace. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You and that You see all that has been sown in this family, the years of chaos, division, isolation, financial hardship and exhaustion. Lord, we ask You to have mercy upon this older daughter. Open her eyes to see the truth, that this man is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Remove the blinders and break the hold of manipulation, control and brainwashing that keeps her obeying his voice above Yours and above the wisdom of her family. Let her see that the exhaustion and financial strain she blames on jobs or family is the fruit of living outside of Your design for marriage.

Lord, we ask You to frustrate and expose every plan, scheme and word curse from this young man and his mother to divide, isolate and control. Block every opening in this family that would allow their plots to prosper. Let every tongue that rises against this mother and her children be condemned by Your righteousness. We ask You to convict this young man of his laziness, dishonesty, controlling and rebellious ways, and to convict his mother of her jealousy, pride, selfishness and enabling. Bring them to repentance, and cause his father to take godly leadership in his own home and to call his son to responsibility away from this ungodly living arrangement.

Holy Spirit, fill this daughter anew. Restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate heart toward You and toward her mother and siblings. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt to sustain this toxic lifestyle, and to stop confiding in one who does not respect her. Grant her the self worth that comes from knowing she is Your beloved child, and the courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets, to release herself from this stronghold and to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Reignite in her a hunger for righteousness and for fellowship with those who truly love her. Heal the brokenness, restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom that has been stolen from this blessed home. Let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow upon this mother and all her children.

We pray that You will guide this daughter back to biblical teaching, to honor her mother and to cherish the bond with her siblings and her brother who has been surrounded by love and support. In Your perfect timing, if it is Your will, bless her with a godly spouse, a man who will love Christ first, who will shepherd well, provide, protect and honor marriage as You designed it. Until then, keep her pure, set apart and at peace. We declare that she belongs to You, not to this manipulating family, and we trust You to complete the restoration You have begun. In the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen.
 
We hear how heavy these years have been for you, watching your older daughter grow distant and exhausted while you feel unable to reach her. To love your family so deeply and to feel your home and fellowship time being pulled apart, and to be met with disrespect in return, is deeply wearing. We are standing with you in prayer for protection and restoration for you and your children.

What you describe, the constant pressure to stay on the phone, the pulling away from family and church friends, the financial strain and the sense she must obey and defend this living arrangement, is a pattern many families recognize when control and isolation take hold. It rarely happens in one moment, but through repeated pressures that wear down confidence and make it harder to think clearly. That is why your steady, loving presence matters, even when it feels small.

One steady step that often helps is to keep the door open without debating the relationship itself. Brief, warm contact that reminds her she is loved and welcome at home, and staying connected yourself to a trusted pastor or counselor for wisdom and support, can help you stay strong and keep a safe bridge for her if she wants help. If you ever have concerns about safety or finances, reaching out quickly to that trusted pastor or counselor is a wise next step.

Father, we bring this mother and her children before You in Jesus' name. Cover them with Your protection, give the daughter clarity, courage and a renewed sense of her worth in You, and give her mother wisdom, rest and steady hope as she continues to love her family. Restore peace and fellowship in their home according to Your will. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your prayer has been laid before the Lord, and we join you in seeking His mercy for your daughter and your household. We have marked your sorrow, your watchfulness as a mother, and your desire that your family should walk in peace, in unity, and in obedience to the Word of God, and we bring that desire before the throne of grace.

You have rightly discerned that what is called a living together is not marriage before God. Marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and all that belongs to marriage belongs only within it. To counsel a young woman to live together outside that covenant, to bear children outside it, to treat such an arrangement as if it were marriage, and to use her substance for a man who has not taken the vows and duties of a husband, is counsel that runs directly against Scripture. It brings bondage and not blessing, exhaustion and not peace, and we cannot ask God to bless what He has called sin. We must instead ask Him to convict, to deliver, and to restore to the path of holiness.

There is comfort here, for your affliction has not escaped the eye of the Lord. The psalmist says, The Lord has chastened me sorely, and it is well to have grace enough to see that troubles do not spring out of the dust, but that the Lord Himself kindles the furnace and sits as a Refiner at the door. What you receive from the rod of the Lord bears the aspect of chastening from a Father's hand, and even the sharpest smart may be made profitable. Your trials may come distinctly through the malice or folly of others, and yet they come with certainty from the Lord who loves you, and for this reason we may wisely moderate our anger against second causes. Vengeance belongs to Him, and deliverance belongs to Him also.

That deliverance is by Divine power alone. We can never escape the bondage of sin by our own strength. The bars of that dungeon we cannot break. But it is written, Deliver him from going down to the Pit, I have found a ransom. God has not only invented a way of deliverance, He has found the ransom, and it is the gift of His love in Christ Jesus. If He who held us in bondage has found a ransom, we may be certain of liberty. And Scripture declares, He has delivered us from the power of darkness. This deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and we must look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone for it. No sympathy, no persuasion, no human counsel will avail until supernatural power is put forth. There is no true liberty but that of which Christ makes us free.

We pray therefore with you, and for you, in this manner.

O Lord our God, You see this mother and her children, You see the division and weariness that has entered this home, and You know the counsels that have pressed upon this daughter to forsake the wisdom of her family and her church. Frustrate, we beseech You, every plan that would divide, isolate, and control her contrary to Your Word. Expose what is done in darkness, break every chain, and silence every word that would curse where You would bless. Set a guard about this household, block every opening by which strife and manipulation would enter, and restore the fellowship, the peace, and the loving bond which You have given.

Have mercy upon this daughter. Open her eyes to see this manner of life as You see it, not marriage, not provision, not spiritual covering, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Grant her to see the exhaustion and financial hardship that follow upon sin, and give her courage to turn from it with no regret. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, fill her with the Holy Spirit, and reignite in her a hunger for righteousness. Teach her her worth as a child of the Most High God, not to be made worthless by the opinions of others, and guide her to protect what You have entrusted to her and to steward it with wisdom. Draw her again to her family and to the communion of Your people, where she was raised in Your ways, and let her find there safety and wise counsel.

We pray also for this young man and for his mother, that You would bring them to repentance and to the knowledge of salvation through Jesus Christ alone. Show the young man that he is not ready to lead a household, that he must forsake laziness, dishonesty, and controlling speech, and learn to walk humbly before You. Show his mother that she has no authority to direct another's daughter into sin, and that to enable her son in disrespect and corruption is to do him no good. Lead both to the cross where there is forgiveness and new life.

Father, restore unto this daughter and unto this family the joy of Your salvation. Keep this mother from fainting under unkind and ungrateful words, sustain her with Your presence, and let her declare the works of the Lord after this affliction. We plead no merit of our own, but the precious blood of the ransom which You have found. Let Your supernatural love, favor, and protection overflow in this home, heal all brokenness, and keep this daughter from going down to the Pit. Grant, if it be Your will, a godly path for her future, ordered by Your Word and in Your time, and meanwhile keep her steps in Your light.

We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and Redeemer. Amen.
 
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Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

3 John 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:

John 15:7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.

Psalm 37:4 Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.

Mark 11:24 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.

Philippians 4:19 But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Deuteronomy 8:18 But thou shalt remember the Lord thy God: for it is he that giveth thee power to get wealth, that he may establish his covenant which he sware unto thy fathers, as it is this day.

Malachi 3:10 Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

Joshua 1:8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.

Psalm 1:3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.
 

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