Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over my older daughter. She has been coughing for two weeks and not feeling well. She has no health insurance since she moved in with this young man. He has total control over her finances and using it on himself. If my daughter needs anything she has to go through him for approval. She is putting him over her well-being. She is always so exhausted now. She is taking her frustration out on her family and mimicking his cold authoritative behaviors towards us. Jesus, I know she is under a lot of stress. I pray that she will see that she is worthy of better. Jesus, I pray she will move back home swiftly with no regrets so she can get the support she needs. I ask for a Godly spouse for her and complete restoration in every aspect of her life that this toxic relationship has taken. Jesus, I ask that this young man's parents will see that it is their responsibility to take care of their son and to stop putting undue responsibility upon my daughter and our family to financially take care of him. He is rebellious and a narcissist, his parents enable his destructive behaviors toward others for some selfish reason that stops the chaos in their family. Jesus, I know you see the chaos, division, torment, isolation, disrespecting, manipulation me and my family is facing due to this toxic relationship. Jesus, I ask for your divine power to have this young man move back to his parents' home alone swiftly. He is not ready for a relationship. I pray that my daughter's friends will see how obsessive, controlling, dishonest, selfish, arrogant, rude and manipulative he is toward her. I pray that they will help her to see that she deserves better. Jesus, I pray she will listen and stop ignoring these red flags. This relationship is toxic, he is jealous of her achievements and he is severely destroying her self-esteem, her self-worth, her faith, her relationship with her family, her friendships, her work, her finances, her independence and other aspects of her life. Jesus, I ask that my daughter will see this is not her significant other right now. Jesus, I ask that she will be truthful about the toxicity of her relationship with this young man. I rebuke all stubborn, disrespectful, dishonest, dysfunctional hold these people have on my daughter's life. In Jesus' name. I command them to flee and never return. Let my daughter see the chaos they have created in her life and the unfair disruption they are causing in our family life. Jesus, I pray my daughter will stop mimicking this young man's behaviors, and idolizing him and his family. Jesus protect me from all this young man's malicious intent, hateful, divisive and disruptive behaviors toward me and son with disability. Jesus, please save my daughter's current job, let her not listen to this young man. He brainwashes her to think her employer does not respect her, her family does not respect her and they are using her to take care of their rebellious son. My daughter is employed by a very recognizable company. Her employer thinks so highly of her but this young man is jealous of her achievements, he likes to be in control of her and he is convincing her that her employer, her family are taking advantage of her. She is never making enough money for him. Jesus, I ask for a Divine protection over me, every member of my family and my sons' much needed services from this young man's and his family schemes, plans and plots to disrupt the peace and unity in our home. Jesus, I pray for restoration of strong unity, love, joy, consideration, gentleness, calm and respect in my family. Jesus, keep these people far away from my younger daughter. She is on the right path and I don't want them to corrupt her like they are with her older sister. Jesus, I ask that You redirect all friendship that is encouraging this lifestyle of living together before marriage let them see this young man is not ready for a relationship. Let her friends see how rude, manipulative and controlling he is toward her. I pray they will help her to not ignore these red flags. Jesus, completely remove all stubborn rebellious, brainwashing hold this young man and his mother has upon my daughter and block them from influencing my younger daughter causing division and isolation. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus, protect me from the hate, belittling and destructive behaviors he has toward me because I do not support the lifestyle to live together before marriage. He is successful in causing division, isolation and chaos in my family. Jesus, I ask for ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to protect and keep me and my family safe at all time. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

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We come before the Throne of Grace with you, lifting up your daughter and this heartbreaking situation in fervent prayer, knowing that our God is a God of justice, restoration, and deliverance. Your plea echoes the heart of the Father, who longs to see His children walk in freedom, truth, and righteousness. We stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, declaring that no scheme of the enemy will prevail against your family, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).

First, we must address the spiritual gravity of this relationship. Your daughter is living in sin by cohabitating with this man outside of marriage, which is fornication in the sight of God. The Bible is clear: "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). This relationship is not only emotionally and financially destructive but spiritually perilous. The enemy has gained a foothold through this ungodly union, and it is fueling the chaos, control, and division you described. We rebuke this stronghold in Jesus’ name and declare that the truth of God’s Word will expose and break every chain binding your daughter to this toxic situation.

We also commend you for recognizing that this man is not a "significant other" but a tool of destruction in your daughter’s life. His behaviors—control, manipulation, jealousy, and financial abuse—are not of God but of the devil, who comes only to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). The fact that he is isolating her from her family, undermining her faith, and eroding her self-worth is a tactic straight from the pit of hell. The Bible warns, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Even if this man claims to be a believer, his fruits prove otherwise. A godly man would honor, protect, and cherish your daughter, not exploit and dominate her.

We pray that the Holy Spirit will open your daughter’s eyes to the truth—that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and deserves a relationship that reflects Christ’s love for His Church. We ask the Lord to convict her heart about the sin of living together outside of marriage and to give her the courage to repent and flee from this destructive path. May she remember that her body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) and that God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage alone.

We declare that the financial bondage she is under will be broken. The Bible says, "The borrower is servant to the lender" (Proverbs 22:7, WEB), and this young man has made her a servant to his selfishness. We pray that God will provide supernatural provision for her—whether through a new job, unexpected resources, or a way to return home—so that she is no longer dependent on this man’s control. We also pray that his parents will be held accountable for enabling his sinful and destructive behavior. May the Lord expose their complicity and bring conviction upon their hearts to stop using your daughter as a means to avoid dealing with their son’s rebellion.

We stand against the spiritual attacks on your family, especially the division and isolation this man has sown. The Bible tells us, "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). We put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and declare that no weapon formed against your family will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray a hedge of protection around your younger daughter, that she would not be deceived or influenced by this ungodly example. May the Lord surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will reinforce biblical truth in her life.

We also lift up your daughter’s health, asking the Lord to touch her body and bring complete healing to her cough and exhaustion. "Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up" (James 5:14-15, WEB). We declare healing over her in Jesus’ name and pray that this physical struggle will be a wake-up call to the spiritual and emotional bondage she is in.

Finally, we pray for restoration in your family—restoration of unity, love, and peace. May the Lord heal the wounds caused by this season of division and rebuild trust among you. We ask that He would give you wisdom and strength as you navigate this battle, and that He would protect your son with disabilities from the malicious intent of this young man. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Lean on Him, and trust that He is working all things together for good (Romans 8:28).

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**Prayer:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this mother and her daughter to Your throne of grace. Lord, You see the pain, the manipulation, and the spiritual bondage at work in this situation. We ask that You would break every chain holding our sister’s daughter captive to this toxic relationship. Convict her heart, Lord, of the sin of living outside Your design for marriage, and give her the strength to repent and walk away.

Father, expose the lies of the enemy that have blinded her to the truth. Let her see this man for who he truly is—a tool of destruction, not a partner for life. Remove the scales from her eyes and soften her heart to hear Your voice above the deception. Surround her with godly counsel and friends who will speak truth into her life and help her see the red flags she has ignored.

We rebuke the spirits of control, manipulation, jealousy, and division operating through this young man and his family. We bind these spirits in Jesus’ name and command them to flee, never to return. Lord, we ask that You would sever every ungodly soul tie between our sister’s daughter and this man. Restore her mind, her emotions, and her spirit to wholeness in You.

Father, we pray for supernatural provision. Open doors for her to leave this situation swiftly—whether through a new job, a place to live, or the support of her family. Break the financial bondage he has placed upon her and provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We also ask that You would hold this young man’s parents accountable for their enabling behavior. Let them no longer shift their responsibility onto others but deal with their son’s rebellion in a way that honors You.

Lord, we pray for healing over our sister’s daughter’s body. Touch her with Your healing hand and restore her strength. Let this physical struggle be a catalyst for her to seek You and turn away from this destructive path.

We declare protection over this entire family. Guard their hearts, their minds, and their home from the enemy’s schemes. Restore unity, love, and peace where division has reigned. Protect the younger daughter from being influenced by this ungodly example, and surround her with godly relationships that point her to You.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would prepare our sister’s daughter for a godly marriage in the future—one that reflects Your love and holiness. Let this season of pain be a testimony of Your redemption and restoration. Give this mother wisdom, strength, and discernment as she fights for her daughter in prayer. Fill their home with Your presence and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power to bring freedom, healing, and restoration. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We stand with you, dear sister, in the power of Jesus' name. We echo your plea for your daughter's freedom and restoration. Here's what we're praying for:

1. **Healing and Strength**: We declare healing over your daughter's body. We ask the Lord to touch her and bring complete healing to her cough and exhaustion. We also pray for strength and courage as she navigates this challenging situation.

2. **Wisdom and Discernment**: We ask the Holy Spirit to grant your daughter wisdom and discernment. We pray that she would see this relationship for what it truly is - toxic and destructive. We ask that she would have the courage to walk away from it.

3. **Financial Breakthrough**: We declare a financial breakthrough over your daughter's life. We ask the Lord to provide supernatural provision for her, whether through a new job, unexpected resources, or a way to return home. We also pray that her young man's parents would be held accountable for their enabling behavior and take responsibility for their son's actions.

4. **Protection and Unity**: We pray for protection over your family. We ask the Lord to guard your hearts, minds, and home from the enemy's schemes. We also pray for restoration of unity, love, and peace where division has reigned.

5. **Godly Spouse and Future**: We pray that the Lord would prepare your daughter for a godly marriage in the future. We ask that this season of pain would be a testimony of His redemption and restoration.

We believe that God is moving in this situation, and we trust that He will bring freedom, healing, and restoration. Keep standing in faith, dear sister. We're praying with you!