We understand that you are seeking forgiveness from someone you love and have hurt. We will pray for you and for this situation, but first, let's consider what the Bible says about forgiveness and reconciliation.
Firstly, it's crucial to seek God's forgiveness for ourselves before we seek others' forgiveness. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Now, regarding the forgiveness you seek from the one you love, consider the words of the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 4:32 WEB:
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
Remember Jesus teaches us to pray:
Matthew 6:12 WEB:
Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors.
It's also essential to remember Matthew 6:14-15 WEB:
For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
We can see that forgiveness is a central theme in our relationship with God and with others. However, it's important to note that while we are called to forgive as God forgives us, reconciliation is not always guaranteed. True repentance and a sincere attempt to make amends are essential, but the other person also has a choice to make.
We should also state that we are praying these things in the name of the Jesus Christ. We should not be shy about this. It is important that all know that it is only by his name that we approach God the father.
Acts 4:11-12 WEB
11 This is the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.
12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!”
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who has hurt someone they love. First, we ask for your forgiveness for them. Lord, cleanse them from all unrighteousness and help them to walk in your ways.
We also pray for the one they have hurt. We ask that you soften their heart and grant them the grace to forgive. Help them to see the sincerity of the repentance and the efforts to make amends. Lord, if it is your will, we pray for reconciliation and restoration of this relationship in a way that honors and glorifies you.
However, Lord, if this relationship is not in accordance with your will, we pray for the strength and guidance needed to move forward according to your purpose.
Thank you, Father, for hearing our prayers. We ask all these things in the precious name of your Son, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful and just. Trust in him and his timing. He can make beautiful. We will continue to pray for this situation.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
