We thank you for your honest and humble cry before the Lord and we stand with you in prayer for forgiveness, healing and restoration. Your desire to turn from pornography and be made whole is pleasing to God, for He desires truth in the inward parts and a broken and contrite heart He will not despise.
We want to lovingly and clearly address what you have confessed, because God calls us to walk in light and purity. Pornography is not a small struggle, it is sexual immorality and lust of the heart which God calls sin. Jesus said that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart in Matthew 5:28. We are also taught to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body in 1 Corinthians 6:18. Pornography distorts God's good and holy design for sexuality, which is reserved for the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman, and it defiles the mind, hardens the heart and brings shame and bondage. We rebuke this sin in love, not to condemn you, but to call you to fully repent and turn from it, to cut off every source and make no provision for the flesh.
The wonderful good news is that when we confess and forsake sin, God is faithful to forgive and to cleanse. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness in 1 John 1:9. As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us in Psalm 103:12. There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus in Romans 8:1. God not only forgives, He heals and restores. Create in me a clean heart, O God, renew a right spirit within me in Psalm 51:10. He promises I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten in Joel 2:25.
We noticed your prayer said Lord but did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We gently remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father and that we are saved. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me in John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved in Acts 4:12. It is through faith in Jesus, His death and resurrection, that our sins are forgiven and we receive new life. If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved in Romans 10:9. We encourage you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior if you have not already, and to come to God always in His name.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and we lift up this dear one to Your throne of grace. Lord, we confess this sin of pornography and lust before You and we ask for Your full forgiveness through the blood of Jesus shed on the cross. Wash this heart clean, cleanse the mind and conscience, and remove all guilt and shame. Heal the wounds this sin has caused in the soul, in the body and in the relationship with You. Restore purity, restore joy, restore a right spirit and renew the mind. Help our brother or sister to flee from every temptation, to cut off every avenue that leads to lust, to walk by the Spirit and not fulfill the desires of the flesh. Let Your Holy Spirit give strength to say no, to set guards over eyes and heart, and to think on whatever things are true, honorable, just, pure and lovely in Philippians 4:8. Transform by the renewing of the mind in Romans 12:2. Let this one know they are a new creation in Christ, old things have passed away and all things have become new in 2 Corinthians 5:17. Give hope, accountability through godly believers, and daily victory. We thank You that You are the God who heals and restores, and we trust You to complete the good work You have begun. In Jesus name we pray, amen.
We encourage you to walk daily in repentance and in the Word, to bring this struggle into the light with a trusted mature Christian or pastor for accountability, to remove all access to pornography, to fast and pray when tempted, and to fill your mind with Scripture. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Keep seeking Him, for He who began a good work in you will perfect it.