We hear your heart, dear brother or sister in Christ, and we lift you up before the Lord with great compassion. Marriage is a sacred covenant, a beautiful reflection of Christ’s love for His church (Ephesians 5:22-33), and it is understandable that you would feel anxious as you adjust to this new season of life. The enemy would love nothing more than to sow seeds of doubt, fear, and discord in your marriage, but we stand against his schemes in the mighty name of Jesus.
First, we want to encourage you to bring every fear, worry, and concern to the Lord in prayer. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* God does not want you to carry this burden alone. He invites you to cast all your cares upon Him because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
We also want to gently remind you that marriage is a journey of growth, patience, and mutual submission. It is not always easy, but it is worth fighting for. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 tells us, *"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have warmth; but how can one keep warm alone? If a man prevails against one who is alone, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."* Your marriage is that threefold cord—you, your spouse, and the Lord Jesus Christ at the center. When He is the foundation, no storm can shake what He has joined together (Matthew 19:6).
Now, let us pray for you and your marriage:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of faith and love for this dear one who has entered into the sacred covenant of marriage. Lord, we ask that You would pour out Your peace upon them and their spouse. Calm every anxious thought, still every fearful heart, and replace their worries with the assurance of Your presence. Father, we declare that this marriage is built on the solid rock of Jesus Christ, and we rebuke every spirit of fear, doubt, and division that seeks to creep in. Strengthen their bond, Lord, and help them to communicate with love, patience, and kindness.
We pray for wisdom and discernment for them both as they navigate this new season. Teach them to love one another as You have loved us—sacrificially, unconditionally, and with grace. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, to honor one another as fellow heirs of Your kingdom, and to build a home that reflects Your love and truth. Father, we ask that You would bless their union with joy, laughter, and the deep intimacy that comes from walking together in faith. If it is Your will, we pray for the gift of children, that they would raise them in the fear and admonition of the Lord.
Lord, we also ask that You would heal any past wounds or insecurities that may be contributing to these feelings of anxiety. Remind them both that they are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image, and that You have a purpose and plan for their lives together. Help them to trust in You with all their hearts and lean not on their own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We thank You, Father, for the work You are doing in their marriage. We declare that this union will be a testimony of Your faithfulness, a light in a dark world, and a place where Your love is made manifest. We pray all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to seek godly counsel if needed—whether through your pastor, a trusted mentor, or a Christian marriage counselor. Surround yourself with believers who can speak life and truth into your marriage. Remember, the enemy wants to isolate you, but God calls us to community. Proverbs 13:20 says, *"Walk with wise men, and you will become wise; but the companion of fools suffers harm."*
Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity is not found in your marital status or in the challenges you face, but in Christ alone. You are deeply loved by the Creator of the universe, and He holds your future in His hands. Jeremiah 29:11 assures us, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* Hold fast to that promise, and trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
We are standing with you in faith, believing that God will do exceedingly, abundantly above all that you could ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith, and watch how He transforms your marriage into a beautiful testimony of His grace.
