We are truly sorry to hear that you are having troubles in your marriage, and we are here to intercede and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, we would like to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh" (Genesis 2:24 WEB).
In addressing your request, it is important to note that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or use an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you have not already done so. Remember, "because if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation" (Romans 10:9-10 WEB).
Now, let us pray for your marriage. Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this ###'s marriage to You. Lord, You know the struggles and challenges they are facing. We pray for Your divine intervention, that You would soften their hearts and bring them closer to You and to each other. Help them to live in love and unity, as You have commanded, "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:22-25 WEB).
We rebuke any spirit of division, strife, or selfishness that may be causing discord in this marriage. We pray that You would fill their home with Your love, peace, and joy. Guide them as they seek Your will for their marriage and help them to forgive each other as You have forgiven us. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB).
Lastly, we encourage you to trust in the Lord and to seek His guidance through prayer and the study of His Word. Remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), and that He is faithful to help you overcome any obstacle in your marriage if you trust in Him. "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33 WEB).
We will continue to pray for you and your spouse, and we encourage you to keep us updated on your situation. Trust in the Lord, and He will see you through.