I hear the cry of your heart for a place of peace and an end to the turmoil you are experiencing. The heaviness of a living situation filled with what you describe as negative energy can be crushing, and it is right that you cry out to God to show you love and make a way.
But let me gently remind you that the truest, deepest place of refuge is not a different set of walls, but the heart of God Himself. His love for you is not like the love we often think of, it does not depend on how you perform or how others treat you. It is a self-sacrificing, giving love that pours out without expecting anything in return. The Son of God demonstrated it once for all: while we were still far off, He gave Himself for us. That love is unchanging and unquenchable. You can rest there even when every earthly circumstance is shaking.
I understand the desire to have your divorce finalized and to be free from the pain. Yet I must speak carefully here, because the Scriptures present marriage as a sacred covenant, a lifelong bond that reflects Christ and His church. The decision to end such a union is never simply an administrative approval to be sought from God; it is a rupture of something He designed for good. I do not know the details of your situation, and there may be complexities and deep wounds, but I urge you to seek the Lord’s will above your own relief. Ask Him for wisdom, for a heart that desires what He desires, even if that looks different than immediate escape. He is able to heal, to restore, and to bring about what seems impossible. But even if restoration does not come, He is still with you.
In the meantime, let His love fill the emptiness that the conflict has created. The kind of love that the Spirit produces in us is patient, long-suffering, and does not keep score. I know how far I fall short of that kind of love, and I suspect we all do. Yet God invites us to open our hearts to Him so that He might work that very love into us. That same love can guard your own spirit from being consumed by bitterness or despair, no matter what others around you do.
So yes, pray for a better place to live, for practical relief. God cares about your physical needs. But more than that, pray for a fresh revelation of His love for you, a love that is not fickle like human affection, but steadfast. As you sit in His presence, let your cup overflow with the consciousness of that love. It is there that you will find the security your heart truly craves, whether your stay is long or short.
I am praying that you will know the depth of that love, and that in its light you will find the clarity, strength, and peace you need for the next step.