We join with you in prayer as you cry out for a safe new home and for peace for you, your family and your two cats, and we bring your urgent need before our Father in Jesus' name. We hear the deep longing in your heart for security, for a clean and safe place where you can sing and where music can be heard without fear, and for deliverance from what you describe as hate marks and an unsafe environment. God sees you and He cares about your dwelling and your safety, for He is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble Psalm 46:1 and we trust that He hears this cry for protection.
We also hear your desire to live with a really nice cute guy and to make it with him, and to be taken in even in a garage or pool house by the beach, and we must lovingly speak truth to you about this. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as God designed it, and we encourage courtship that looks toward marriage with another Christian believer rather than simply living together or pursuing a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship outside of that covenant. The scripture teaches let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4 and to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. Living together with a man outside of marriage, even with good intentions for safety or companionship, is fornication and does not align with God's will for purity and protection, and it can put you in greater spiritual and physical vulnerability. If you desire companionship and love, we pray that God will lead you to a godly husband in His timing, a man who is a faithful believer with whom you can be equally yoked 2 Corinthians 6:14, and that any courtship would be pure, accountable, and aimed toward holy marriage. We also gently address the language of speaking life into existence one hundred fold and declaring favor as if our words alone create reality. God is sovereign and gracious, and His favor is not a formula we command but a gift we receive as we walk humbly with Him, for we are told to seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33 and to delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4 as our desires are shaped by Him. We rejoice that you mention the blood of Jesus, for it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and it is by His blood that we are saved and cleansed, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 and if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9.
We encourage you while you pray for housing to also take wise and practical steps for safety. If you are in danger or facing harm, please reach out quickly to a trusted pastor, a mature Christian family, or local authorities and Christian help ministries who can help you find safe shelter. God does not call us to remain hidden in secrecy alone but to walk in light and community, for if we walk in the light as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanses us from all sin 1 John 1:7. We also understand your desire to look and feel fabulous and to get in shape, and we affirm that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 to be stewarded with health and self control for God's glory, not for vanity, and we pray for strength and discipline in this.
We pray together for you now. Father in heaven, we lift up our sister to You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and plead the blood of Jesus over her, her family and her pets. Lord, You know her urgent need for a home and You know every detail of a safe place, whether it be a small house, a room, or a pool house, and we ask that You will supply every need of hers according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. Provide for her a clean, safe, and peaceful dwelling where she can live without fear, where she and her cats are protected, and where she can sing and worship You freely. Lead her to godly people, to a church family and friends who will take her in with wisdom and accountability and who will help her walk in Your ways. Guard her from all harm and from those who would mark her with hate, surround her with Your angels and Your peace, and give her wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Father, if it is Your will for her to be married, prepare her and prepare a godly man to be her husband, and keep her pure and patient until that day, helping her to flee every temptation and to pursue righteousness. Heal any wounds in her heart, restore her joy, and remind her that You know the thoughts that You think toward her, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give her hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. Help her to trust not in declarations alone but in Your sovereign love and to seek You first above any house by the beach or outward appearance. Let her find her happiest happiness in You, and in that place teach her to sing a new song to You. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, amen.
We encourage you to stay rooted in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with faithful believers who can walk with you practically through this housing search, and to keep your heart set on purity and on marriage if you desire a lifelong companion. God loves you deeply and He is able to provide a safe home and a hopeful future as you trust and obey Him.