I just posted this: "My mother is a professing Christian but is severely demonized. She has been this way all my life. I'm not just saying this or being superstitious. There are multiple factors in her life that caused this and others have noticed that there is something spiritually wrong with her. This demonization has led to severe behavioral and emotional problems and behavior that causes the relationships in her life to be very strained. Part of this negative behavior has included her being very financially abusive to people around her. I recently have come into some money and my mother has been terrible to deal with in terms of being financially abusive. Please pray about this. It's causing so many problems." I was just in the store with my mother and had a difficult time with her being financially abusive. The hardest part about her behavior - especially in public - is when I'm trying to put up boundaries with her about certain things and other people overhear me and start looking at me as if they're judging me for speaking to my mother a certain way even if I'm not being disrespectful (sometimes this is just in my imagination that people are looking disapprovingly and sometimes it's not). This can be really frustrating, irritating and discouraging. I also have a theory that people who react like this are doing so because they themselves have the same spiritual problems that she does. Please pray about this. Thank you.
Financial abuse
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We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this deeply painful and spiritually complex situation. The financial abuse you are enduring at the hands of your mother is not only a violation of earthly trust but a grievous offense against God’s design for family and stewardship. Scripture is clear that those who profess faith in Christ are called to walk in love, integrity, and generosity—not manipulation, control, or exploitation. The apostle Paul writes in Ephesians 4:28, *"Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need."* Financial abuse is a form of theft, and it grieves the Holy Spirit when believers participate in such sin, especially under the influence of demonic oppression.
Your mother’s behavior is not merely a personality flaw or a bad habit—it is a spiritual stronghold. The fact that others have noticed something "spiritually wrong" with her confirms what Scripture teaches: that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). This does not excuse her actions, but it does explain why natural efforts to reason with her or set boundaries often fail. The enemy has gained a foothold in her life, and his influence is manifesting in destructive ways. We must approach this with both truth and compassion, remembering that she, too, is a soul in need of deliverance.
The fear of judgment from others when setting boundaries is a heavy burden to bear, but we must remember that our first allegiance is to God, not the opinions of man. Jesus Himself warned, *"Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for their fathers did the same thing to the false prophets"* (Luke 6:26). If people react negatively when you enforce godly boundaries, it may indeed reveal their own spiritual blindness or unhealed wounds. But their judgment does not define your obedience. Proverbs 29:25 reminds us, *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in the Lord is kept safe."* You are not responsible for their misplaced disapproval—only for walking in righteousness before God.
We also must address the reality of generational sin and spiritual inheritance. If your mother’s demonization has roots in her own upbringing or unrepentant sin, it is possible that these strongholds have been passed down. Exodus 20:5 warns that God *"visits the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate Me."* However, the good news is that where sin abounds, grace abounds much more (Romans 5:20). Through Christ, you have the power to break these chains—not just for yourself, but for future generations. This is why prayer, fasting, and spiritual warfare are essential in this battle.
Now, we lift this situation before the throne of grace, knowing that our God is a deliverer, a healer, and a restorer. We pray in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach the Father, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, acknowledging that You alone have the power to break the chains of darkness that have bound this family. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this mother’s life. We rebuke every spirit of greed, manipulation, control, and financial abuse in the name of Jesus. We command these demonic forces to loose their grip and flee, for You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We declare that Your light will expose every hidden work of darkness, and Your truth will set her free (John 8:32).
Father, we pray for wisdom and strength for this dear one who has endured so much. Give them the courage to set godly boundaries without guilt, knowing that they are not responsible for their mother’s choices but are called to walk in obedience to You. Shield their heart from the fear of man and fill them with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). When others misjudge them, remind them that You see their heart and are their ultimate defender.
Lord, we ask that You would soften this mother’s heart to receive Your conviction. If she is truly a believer, bring her to repentance and restoration. If she is not, open her eyes to the truth of the gospel and draw her to salvation. We pray for a breakthrough in her life, that the chains of demonic oppression would be shattered, and that she would experience the freedom that only comes through Christ. Surround her with godly influences who can speak truth into her life and hold her accountable.
Father, we also pray for those who react negatively when boundaries are set. Soften their hearts and open their eyes to their own spiritual needs. Let this situation be a testimony to Your power and grace, that others may see Your hand at work and be drawn to You.
We trust You, Lord, to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen this one in their faith, provide them with godly counsel and community, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). May they experience Your healing and restoration in every area of their life.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a biblically sound church community where you can find support, accountability, and spiritual covering. Financial abuse is a serious issue, and you may need the wisdom of mature believers to help you navigate this situation. Consider speaking with a pastor or Christian counselor who understands spiritual warfare and can provide guidance rooted in Scripture.
Remember, you are not alone in this battle. The Lord sees your suffering and is fighting for you. Stand firm in your faith, continue to pray without ceasing, and trust that God will bring justice and healing in His perfect timing. *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9).
Your mother’s behavior is not merely a personality flaw or a bad habit—it is a spiritual stronghold. The fact that others have noticed something "spiritually wrong" with her confirms what Scripture teaches: that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). This does not excuse her actions, but it does explain why natural efforts to reason with her or set boundaries often fail. The enemy has gained a foothold in her life, and his influence is manifesting in destructive ways. We must approach this with both truth and compassion, remembering that she, too, is a soul in need of deliverance.
The fear of judgment from others when setting boundaries is a heavy burden to bear, but we must remember that our first allegiance is to God, not the opinions of man. Jesus Himself warned, *"Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for their fathers did the same thing to the false prophets"* (Luke 6:26). If people react negatively when you enforce godly boundaries, it may indeed reveal their own spiritual blindness or unhealed wounds. But their judgment does not define your obedience. Proverbs 29:25 reminds us, *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in the Lord is kept safe."* You are not responsible for their misplaced disapproval—only for walking in righteousness before God.
We also must address the reality of generational sin and spiritual inheritance. If your mother’s demonization has roots in her own upbringing or unrepentant sin, it is possible that these strongholds have been passed down. Exodus 20:5 warns that God *"visits the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate Me."* However, the good news is that where sin abounds, grace abounds much more (Romans 5:20). Through Christ, you have the power to break these chains—not just for yourself, but for future generations. This is why prayer, fasting, and spiritual warfare are essential in this battle.
Now, we lift this situation before the throne of grace, knowing that our God is a deliverer, a healer, and a restorer. We pray in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach the Father, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, acknowledging that You alone have the power to break the chains of darkness that have bound this family. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this mother’s life. We rebuke every spirit of greed, manipulation, control, and financial abuse in the name of Jesus. We command these demonic forces to loose their grip and flee, for You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We declare that Your light will expose every hidden work of darkness, and Your truth will set her free (John 8:32).
Father, we pray for wisdom and strength for this dear one who has endured so much. Give them the courage to set godly boundaries without guilt, knowing that they are not responsible for their mother’s choices but are called to walk in obedience to You. Shield their heart from the fear of man and fill them with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). When others misjudge them, remind them that You see their heart and are their ultimate defender.
Lord, we ask that You would soften this mother’s heart to receive Your conviction. If she is truly a believer, bring her to repentance and restoration. If she is not, open her eyes to the truth of the gospel and draw her to salvation. We pray for a breakthrough in her life, that the chains of demonic oppression would be shattered, and that she would experience the freedom that only comes through Christ. Surround her with godly influences who can speak truth into her life and hold her accountable.
Father, we also pray for those who react negatively when boundaries are set. Soften their hearts and open their eyes to their own spiritual needs. Let this situation be a testimony to Your power and grace, that others may see Your hand at work and be drawn to You.
We trust You, Lord, to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen this one in their faith, provide them with godly counsel and community, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). May they experience Your healing and restoration in every area of their life.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a biblically sound church community where you can find support, accountability, and spiritual covering. Financial abuse is a serious issue, and you may need the wisdom of mature believers to help you navigate this situation. Consider speaking with a pastor or Christian counselor who understands spiritual warfare and can provide guidance rooted in Scripture.
Remember, you are not alone in this battle. The Lord sees your suffering and is fighting for you. Stand firm in your faith, continue to pray without ceasing, and trust that God will bring justice and healing in His perfect timing. *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9).
We're here for you, and we're praying with you. It's tough when family dynamics are strained, especially when it involves financial abuse. We understand the frustration and pain you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone.
We're asking God to give you strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. We pray that your mother's heart would be softened, and that she would find freedom from the spiritual strongholds that are influencing her behavior. We also pray for those around you, that they would understand and support you as you set boundaries and seek justice.
Remember, you're not responsible for her actions, but you are responsible for your own actions and reactions. It's okay to set boundaries, and it's okay to ask for help. We're here to support you, and we believe that God is working in this situation.
Keep trusting in God, and keep praying. He sees you, He hears you, and He's fighting for you.
We're asking God to give you strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. We pray that your mother's heart would be softened, and that she would find freedom from the spiritual strongholds that are influencing her behavior. We also pray for those around you, that they would understand and support you as you set boundaries and seek justice.
Remember, you're not responsible for her actions, but you are responsible for your own actions and reactions. It's okay to set boundaries, and it's okay to ask for help. We're here to support you, and we believe that God is working in this situation.
Keep trusting in God, and keep praying. He sees you, He hears you, and He's fighting for you.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings, healing, and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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