We hear the desperation and pain in your cry, and our hearts break for the suffering you are enduring. You have done the right thing by turning to the Lord in prayer, for He alone is your refuge, strength, and deliverer in times of trouble. We stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting your situation before the throne of God, who sees all and judges righteously. The violence, coercion, and abuse you are experiencing are grievous sins in the sight of God, and He does not turn a blind eye to such wickedness. The Scriptures are clear: the Lord is a defender of the oppressed, a father to the fatherless, and a champion of those who are crushed in spirit.
The Bible declares in **Psalm 34:17-19 (WEB)**, *"The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."* You are not forgotten, and God is near to you even now. He sees the tears you have shed in secret, the fear that grips your heart, and the exhaustion that weighs upon your body. He is your ever-present help, and we are pleading with Him on your behalf for immediate intervention.
The abuse you are enduring—physical, emotional, verbal, and sexual—is an abomination before God. **1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (WEB)** warns that the unrighteous, including those who practice violence, drunkenness, and sexual immorality, *"will not inherit God’s Kingdom."* This man’s actions are not only harmful to you but are in direct rebellion against God. His addiction, his rage, and his demand for sinful acts are tools of the enemy, and we rebuke them in the name of Jesus. **Ephesians 5:11 (WEB)** commands us, *"Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them."* You are not obligated to submit to sin or abuse. God’s will for you is freedom, safety, and holiness.
We also address the fear that has kept you bound. **2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* The fear you feel is real, but it is not from God. He is giving you the strength to take steps toward safety, even when it feels impossible. You mentioned trying to get into a shelter—that is a wise and courageous step. We urge you to reach out to local authorities, domestic violence hotlines, or trusted believers who can help you escape this dangerous situation. If you are in immediate danger, do not hesitate to call emergency services. Your life is precious in God’s sight, and He wants you to be free from this bondage.
As for the sexual coercion you described, we must speak the truth in love: any sexual activity outside of marriage is sin, but you are *not* the one at fault here. This man is forcing you into sinful acts against your will, and that is a grave evil. **1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 (WEB)** says, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."* You are not responsible for his sins, and God does not hold you guilty for what is being done to you against your will. However, we pray that you will no longer be placed in a position where you are forced to compromise your body or your faith. Flee from this situation as soon as you are able, and trust God to provide a way of escape.
We also note that you are living with a man who is not your husband. The Bible is clear that living together outside of marriage is not God’s design. **Hebrews 13:4 (WEB)** states, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* While we understand that your current situation is complex and dangerous, we pray that God will not only deliver you from this abuse but also guide you into a life that aligns with His word. If you are not already married to this man, we urge you to seek godly counsel and support to help you establish boundaries that honor the Lord.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your precious child who is crying out to You in distress. Lord, You are the God who sees, the God who hears, and the God who acts on behalf of the oppressed. We ask You to intervene *right now* in this situation. Send Your mighty angels to surround her, to protect her, and to create a way of escape from this abuse. Lord, confuse the plans of this wicked man. Bind his hands from harming her. Silence his cruel words. Break the power of alcohol over his life and expose his deeds to the light. Father, we rebuke every spirit of violence, control, and lust that is operating through him. We command these spirits to be bound and cast out in the name of Jesus Christ.
Lord, give her supernatural strength, clarity, and courage to leave this dangerous environment. Open doors for her to find safe shelter, godly support, and the resources she needs to start anew. Heal her body from the pain and trauma she has endured—relieve her headaches, restore her back, and grant her the rest she so desperately needs. Father, we plead the blood of Jesus over her mind, her emotions, and her spirit. Remove every trace of fear, shame, and confusion that the enemy has placed upon her. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding and Your love that casts out all fear.
We also pray for this man, not because he deserves mercy, but because You, Lord, are merciful and desire that all would repent and turn from their wicked ways. Convict his heart of his sins. Bring him to a place of brokenness where he can no longer ignore the weight of his actions. If it is Your will, lead him to true repentance and salvation in Jesus Christ. But even as we pray for him, we ask that You separate her from his influence and keep her far from his reach.
Father, we ask that You provide for her every need—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Connect her with believers who can walk alongside her, pray with her, and help her rebuild her life on the foundation of Your word. Restore her dignity, her hope, and her faith in Your goodness. Let her know that she is not alone, that You are with her, and that You have a plan for her future—a plan for good and not for evil, to give her hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
We declare freedom over her life in the name of Jesus. No weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, she shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, let Your justice prevail. Expose the darkness, break the chains, and lead her into the light of Your love.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power to act, and we wait expectantly for Your deliverance. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
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Beloved, we urge you to take action *today*. If you are in the U.S., you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit [thehotline.org](https://www.thehotline.org). They can help you create a safety plan and find a shelter. If you are outside the U.S., seek out local resources for domestic violence support. You do not have to face this alone. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we are standing with you in prayer and support.
Once you are safe, we encourage you to seek a Bible-believing church where you can find community, discipleship, and healing. Surround yourself with believers who will speak God’s truth over your life and help you walk in freedom. If you have not already surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we invite you to do so now. **Romans 10:9 (WEB)** says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* There is no greater security than being in Christ, and He longs to be your Protector, Provider, and Peace.
You are loved. You are valued. You are *not* defined by what has been done to you. The Lord is your Redeemer, and He is making a way for you even now. Hold fast to Him, and do not lose hope. We are praying for you without ceasing.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
