It is a gracious and holy desire you have brought before the Lord, to see your family bound together by the love of Christ. Where such a prayer is offered in sincerity, we may be sure the Lord delights to hear it, for He rests in His love and rejoices over His people when He works unity and peace among them.
You ask that you may forgive each other as you have been forgiven, and herein is the very pattern set before us in Scripture. We are to be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven us. Remember who it is that sends the forgiveness. There is forgiveness with Him, that He may be feared, and none love and bless and praise God so much as those who know there is forgiveness with Him. If you have tasted that divine forgiveness, so surprising, so complete, so eternal, which blots out sin for Jesus' sake, then let that same forgiveness flow from you within your own walls. As you have received freely, so give freely, not in your own name only, but in Christ's name and for His sake, because you love Him.
You pray also for humility, patience and kindness, that you may reflect His love in all you do. This is the fruit of being directed into the love of God and the patience of Christ. The love of God shines best in the patience of the Saviour, that wondrous patience which bore with us when we would not come to Him, which wept over us and drew us with constancy of love. Enter into that patience, and let it dwell in your home. Let love abound among you, not as a fleeting feeling, but as a constant flame, a spark of the eternal love of God for you which shall never be quenched. Let it be seen in rapturous love and calm patience blending most deliciously, in simple faith and in forbearance one with another.
May the Lord grant your petition and strengthen your faith. May He deepen your relationship with Himself, that out of full hearts you may love Him and one another more truly. May He make your household a place where forgiveness is freely given, where humility clothes each member, and where the perfume of love toward God and toward each other rises daily.
We join our prayer with yours, that the God of all grace would pour His love into your family, keep you in His fear and in His joy, and cause you to walk together in unity, to His praise, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.